Hi, I'm a 19 year old boy. 4 years ago my mother remarried a man who has a son, now he is 15 years old. In the beginning everything went well, my step-brother and I got along, we were all one happy family. However, it so happened that our parents both went to work abroad, my mother in Germany and my father in Spain. You know how it is in Bulgaria. So, my brother and I were left with my grandmother. About a month or two ago, maybe, my brother, we don't understand each other at all, I can't exchange a word with him. He leaves very early in the morning, about 5, and returns at ten-thirty, eleven. It was Saturday and I got up a little early because a friend had asked me to help him with a job and I had to leave early. I saw my brother get into a black BMW that had stopped in front of us, that same evening the same BMW picked him up at eleven.
This was repeated several times, at first I thought he was dating some of his older friends, who eventually had a car and a license. But my opinion changed when I once saw a 30-year-old man open the car door for him. I finally decided to ask him who this man was and why he was seen with him so often, but only screams like "I don't interfere in life", "You're my nobody" followed, and then he concluded your room. Strange, but before we always understood each other, I don't know why he suddenly started to stay away from me. I shared the situation with my mother and father on Skype, but I only bothered them without result, because neither of them will be able to come soon. I began to watch when my brother came out and when he came home, and quite often I began to see that man as well. I tried to talk to him again but to no avail.
Besides, it's very hard for me to come across him because I study and work. Sometimes I don't go home because the university is not two steps away and I had to stay with a friend for one or two nights. I don't know what to do with my brother, and it's out of the question for my grandmother to say, she's just going to be worried anyway, she has nothing else to do. Let me not forget to mention that last week the principal of the school where my brother studied called me and told me that my brother had been running away from school for two weeks. Please give me some advice, I'm worried about it. Even if it turns out he didn't do anything wrong, I personally can't think of a good reason to run away from school.
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Look, the responsibility for you is too much. I advise you to get the boy's father home right away. You are only 19 years old and you cannot look after a child. If the child has a mother - call and see her. Safe from irresponsible parents! Make an account of your children. You can't save this child ... and yet ... you could talk to him about school. Who he gets together with - you can't control. You could also seek contact with the man you are dating. Maybe he's a boyfriend - not bad. I hope so, if he has feelings for the boy, it will help you get him on the right track - to go to school at least. If it is a criminal subject, the healthy one has messed it up and is looking for the boy's father.
Isn't he gay?
Your mother and stepfather have put you in an extremely difficult situation, especially since he is not your biological brother. This is a huge audacity on their part. Besides, as I see it, they are already separated. You are under absolutely unnecessary stress. Isn't he your mother that you have to take care of him? You will explain to your mother and father again until they find out. Keep them up to date. I think you should give it up. It should be a problem for your parents, not you. You have enough worries about going to work and university and at this stage in life you have to do it.
My advice is a little different from the previous ones. Don't leave him! Ask around if anyone calls the man in the black BMW. The smallest problem will be if it turns out that the boy is gay, this is one option there is nothing wrong with him. But to me, the older gentleman is believed to be a criminal and to make him distribute drugs, for example, or commit other types of criminal activity. And the last option is to use your brother, about which I do not know, however. Try to make contact with a friend or classmate. Try to understand what interests he has and what he does while he is at home. As a last resort, report it to the police, tell them that you are worried about your brother's safety and that you are not sure that the environment in which he finds himself is safe for him.
Seek advice from the police or social services, hopefully someone will help you - your brother may be trapped in a situation and he is ashamed to admit it. He may be in danger, and yes, urge his parents to return as soon as possible so that nothing worse happens. When the cart overturns - a lot of roads. (Bulgarian saying)
by the Author: Thank you for the advice. As for my brother's mother, she died a year and a half before his father married my mother. In the beginning it was very difficult when we lived together, but gradually we became close and I became very attached to him. Before he came into my life, I was an only child and I really wanted a little brother or sister, and I was happy when I met him. I love him as my biological brother and I would not leave him for anything in the world. I contacted my father and asked him for help. He has a police friend who checks the BMW number.
Nice plot, but unthinkable. No principal will call for absences unless he is in class, of course :)) which is possible at a school in a smaller town. If it's a true story after all, it's clear what your brother is doing. If this man is so gallant that opening the car door for him haha obviously something is not bothering him ... let your brother save himself.
your brother is gay and he sees some uncle ... a typical reaction with this "I don't interfere in my life .." - personal experience, talk to him very carefully, he must be ashamed and kill aggression ..
Author, what happened to your brother? I hope your father helps you - we are still human and I hope there are more and more human actions like yours!
My story has progressed to the point that my father has arranged a meeting with this man, and for now that's all my father and I can do. We will see what happens at this meeting. As for number 7, the director called me because he is a good friend of my mother and father and he knows me and my brother very well, he called me personally because he was also worried after seeing the BMW. That is all. :)
Well done, Author, YOU are a worthy Man!
Author, what happened at the meeting? What did this man come up with?
I still can't say anything, because the meeting hasn't taken place yet, but it is assumed that on Monday, April 15, my father and this man will see each other. From the author :)
From the Author: I'm sorry I didn't finish my story and I didn't tell you what happened. I don't know if anyone is still reading the story, but I still want to know what actually happened. Well ... So my father and that man saw each other .... Luckily for me, it turned out that his husband was some kind of boyfriend, but as for running away from school, even the man didn't know about them. My father, my father, and the man (whose name I won't mention) decided to wait for him at home until he got home and talk to him. We found out that he was ridiculed at school because they found out he was gay. We talked at length and widely, and thank God he started going to school regularly. Oh, and as for the man, it turned out that he was not 30 at all, but only 25! Well, I haven't hit in 5 years. So this is ... I'm sorry I was late, please excuse me again. I had simply totally ruled out sharing my story here.
Isn't she a male prostitute? I'm not kidding, but there are many such cases for money. Or do they make him steal? !! You better get serious, take a picture if you have to, and send it to his father. Tell him to talk to your brother! This is not a joke job. Ask his friends too