I'm a woman and I'm about to get married, I'm terribly worried. We will have a presenter, but I am afraid that he will invent various games and make me talk. Basically, I chose a game with shoes, but I'm afraid she might invent something else. How to explain to her delicately or directly to tell her without unnecessary things. But I know she still has a program and I don't want to bother her.
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Once you have hired her, she has no right to worry about your desires. You tell her straight without hesitation so that there are no misunderstandings. Don't worry about her, as a professional she has a large enough set of games and will make a program according to the client, she will make you dance without talking, for example.
Hey, you hired her and you pay to make it easier for you! It works for you. Of course, you will say directly - this should be your day, not to worry about nonsense.
How can you be like that - not to bother the host of your own wedding !? Not to hint at her delicately, from which it is not certain what she will understand, but to directly freeze her so that you are not trampled on by something to say before the whole wedding. It's best if your husband talks to her that I see how disturbing you are.
Hello, if your husband loves you the way you are, don't think about anything else. Don't worry, the wedding is once in a lifetime - experience this moment in the best way.
You don't have to worry about such things at all. The games are made to be fun. You have invited your relatives, all people who know you and will not make fun of you for anything. After all, you are not children. If you really do not want to have surprises in the program, then talk to the host. Do it the same way you said it here. You are the bride, you pay and you have the right to vote. Explain directly to her that you are very anxious and do not want surprises because you are afraid that you will say or do something stupid because of all the emotion. I have attended weddings where there is an unexpected game with the godparents or the newlyweds, they are worried, blush and it is a lot of fun because the host is prepared for it. Nobody makes fun of them, rather the whole atmosphere becomes more broken. You don't have to be rude, you can make it difficult for her to work,
Thank you for your time. We will definitely talk to the presenter again.