I started a relationship with a woman 5 years ago. Things were going well. We went out together, we walked, we pushed each other. Whenever I approached her, my work hardened immensely. I couldn't wait to do it, but she wasn't in a hurry. I didn't force her either, and I waited for her to decide when. We were both not virgins. Here came the moment and ... then out of worry, out of nowhere, it couldn't happen to me and I exposed myself very much. Despite everything, she continued to treat me normally, but I had a crushed self-esteem. After two or three days we were at home, supposedly watching something on TV, but we started kissing and then we did it for the first time. Then things went well. We had sex like crazy every day, and in the years that followed it never happened again that night, which for some inexplicable reason did not happen to me. *** My relationship with her lasted about 2 years and we broke up. I will not write about the reasons. They are not sexual in nature. I haven't been with a woman for 3 years. I had various flirtations, but there was no sex. They obviously feel I'm insecure. And it really is. I'm worried about exposing myself the first time I get up with my ex. The years go by and this problem haunts me. Maybe that's why I didn't dare make another connection. I wonder if I go to a prostitute to see if it will be the same job. Although so far I have not used this type of service and I am a little reserved. I know he has to suffer once, as they say, and go with the flow. But all this is stronger than me and does not allow me to relax. Give opinions, advice, recommendations. Thanks to those who joined, even to the haters :) They are not sexual in nature. I haven't been with a woman for 3 years. I had various flirtations, but there was no sex. They obviously feel I'm insecure. And it really is. I'm worried about exposing myself the first time I get up with my ex. The years go by and this problem haunts me. Maybe that's why I didn't dare make another connection. I wonder if I go to a prostitute to see if it will be the same job. Although so far I have not used this type of service and I am a little reserved. I know he has to suffer once, as they say, and go with the flow. But all this is stronger than me and does not allow me to relax. Give opinions, advice, recommendations. Thanks to those who joined, even to the haters :) They are not sexual in nature. I haven't been with a woman for 3 years. I had various flirtations, but there was no sex. They obviously feel I'm insecure. And it really is. I'm worried about exposing myself the first time I get up with my ex. The years go by and this problem haunts me. Maybe that's why I didn't dare make another connection. I wonder if I go to a prostitute to see if it will be the same job. Although so far I have not used this type of service and I am a little reserved. I know he has to suffer once, as they say, and go with the flow. But all this is stronger than me and does not allow me to relax. Give opinions, advice, recommendations. Thanks to those who joined, even to the haters :) I'm worried about exposing myself the first time I get up with my ex. The years go by and this problem haunts me. Maybe that's why I didn't dare make another connection. I wonder if I go to a prostitute to see if it will be the same job. Although so far I have not used this type of service and I am a little reserved. I know he has to suffer once, as they say, and go with the flow. But all this is stronger than me and does not allow me to relax. Give opinions, advice, recommendations. Thanks to those who joined, even to the haters :) I'm worried about exposing myself the first time I get up with my ex. The years go by and this problem haunts me. Maybe that's why I didn't dare make another connection. I wonder if I go to a prostitute to see if it will be the same job. Although so far I have not used this type of service and I am a little reserved. I know he has to suffer once, as they say, and go with the flow. But all this is stronger than me and does not allow me to relax. Give opinions, advice, recommendations. Thanks to those who joined, even to the haters :) that he must once suffer, as they say, and go with the flow. But all this is stronger than me and does not allow me to relax. Give opinions, advice, recommendations. Thanks to those who joined, even to the haters :) that one must suffer once, as they say, and let one go with the flow. But all this is stronger than me and does not allow me to relax. Give opinions, advice, recommendations. Thanks to those who joined, even to the haters :)
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Understand once and for all that women don't care, especially if you don't. If you have nothing else to worry about, you are obviously lucky
And you ... Don't worry, dude, if you're so worried, don't give your money to prostitutes, but invest in two Viagra pills. You can't help it.
The variant with Viagra is a double-edged sword. True, you can't help it, but then your brain will rely only on Viagra.
It can't happen if you're insecure. I have had such torments, thoughts, and it has even happened to me thousands of times, and neither the former nor the current one has left me because of it, but I have only instilled in myself how bad I am and I have ruined my self-confidence. Not to mention that my first time I tried with a companion, but she was fat and ugly and no sex could happen out of anxiety and what I see in front of me. The script continued with several other similar women and I never enjoyed sex, only the whistles. I was very worried if it came to sex, and in porn I watched and imagined that I was in control of the situation, but in reality I could not control anything. The moment came with the former (with whom I was 4 years). 2 months of failure after failure, as she was the initiator of every sexual act, and I was very worried and nothing happened. After these two months we started brutal sex, I opened it from behind, I felt like the best lover, and it ended the way very few women end, it sprayed a hell of a lot! We broke up, but not because of sex, he always went, and he always brought us together, which was stupid, like nothing else went. With the current I was drunk, I was sick the first time and I did not worry at all, but after about 2, 3 minutes I fell and did not have sex. For 2 months I just licked her, and we had sex for 2 minutes, if we have that happiness at all. In the 3rd month I drank ciasis, but I felt sick from it and we had sex for 5 minutes. I started training my PC muscle with exercises (located between the testicles and the anus). I started brushing my grandmother's teeth, I started to be more confident, to eat healthier and after the 3rd month (now we are 9th), I have no problems. It is extremely rare for me to have a jam and it should not be 5 minutes, but rather 15-20 minutes, in which it will soften for a while. It's all in the head mostly. Worry will not help you. Shame n ***** is not **** understand I think! And to fail, if the girl is not worth it, she will find another, if it is worth it, she will stay with you. Change them, don't push them at all and don't put them on a pedestal, because there are a lot of girls, there is a lot of interest in them and they don't have our problem. They take off their pants, they bulge and we have to do the work. If you fail to compensate with licking, with your fingers and there is no way to dump you if she is a literate girl. GOOD LUCK if it's worth it it will stay with you. Change them, don't push them at all and don't put them on a pedestal, because there are a lot of girls, there is a lot of interest in them and they don't have our problem. They take off their pants, they bulge and we have to do the work. If you fail to compensate with licking, with your fingers and there is no way to dump you if she is a literate girl. GOOD LUCK if it's worth it it will stay with you. Change them, don't push them at all and don't put them on a pedestal, because there are a lot of girls, there is a lot of interest in them and they don't have our problem. They take off their pants, they bulge and we have to do the work. If you fail to compensate with licking, with your fingers and there is no way to dump you if she is a literate girl. GOOD LUCK
Number 5, Thank you for the recommendations, I really needed to share with someone who understands me. I hope to overcome this barrier soon and my sex life to start. From the author.