Hello! I am 15 years old (almost 16). Since the beginning of the school year, I like a boy from my class. At first, he was just teasing me and it was obvious that he liked me. Yesterday, one of the class told him that I liked him, which I did not mention to anyone. And he said nothing, even frowned. Then he muttered something ... as I understood - I don't like it. :) I was very sick and sad. I have had a fake Facebook account for a few months now and I decided to send him an invitation from there. On my Facebook is a very cool chick with a nice body so she can be more interested. :) He accepted it for me immediately and wrote to me. And now it's been 2-3 days we write to each other. I am very pleased to write to him. Tell me your secrets I never thought of. And he can't lie to me about anything, because I know him and we see each other every day at school. With each passing day, we get closer and closer. He even wanted me to come and visit him, but there was no way. : D He said that he would sleep with me .. ie with the one in the picture. He told me that he liked my character and he understood that I was not a light girl and he did not want whores. To find out about him, I asked him what kind of girls he likes ... and of course, he said WEAK. However, I am not one of the so-called "weak".
He teased me, told me my love, cute and what not ... and I stupidly caught the bait and now I'm suffering. I'm not that fat. I'm tall and I don't look that tall, but I know I can lose weight. Yesterday all night I was thinking about whether to try to lose weight because of him, to please him. I only told my friends that I was writing to him and warned them not to mention anything. Sometimes I even wonder if I'm making fun of him like that. with this fake profile .. Only one thing bothers me .. should I tell him who I really am? To know who he writes to? I think it will be necessary someday. What to do?
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Dear girl, I advise you to tell him who you are. Imagine that he fell in love with the girl in the photo and only then realized that he was not actually dating her. It's going to feel really bad, isn't it? And as for losing weight, you are now growing and developing, there is no point in losing weight to please him. If he likes you, he will like you the way you are! If he wants you to change, then he is not worthy of you. :)
No, don't tell him !!! And I did so and found out (not my fault) and it was not very nice, and he is a little more hot-tempered, so better not;) Just stop logging in .. :)
From the author: Really please, do not ignore my story, but share your opinion. PLEASE! I really don't know what to do ..
Number 1 we are talking about 15-16 year olds though, especially for those nowadays. On the one hand, I have always respected the truth, but on the other hand, your case is more special, because children today are very humiliating, insulting, you can make fun of the whole class. However, it is best to stop writing to him from this profile and delete it, do not feed your and his illusions, because in the end you will both be in a lot of pain if this continues for a long time!
I have also made such profiles in order to reach the person I love and ask him about things that interest me without knowing who I am, but on the other hand it would be really nasty if he falls in love with this fictional girl and then realize it's not really her. If you really like him, you won't do it to him, and don't tell him who you are, you will lose him as a friend to some extent! :) And if he likes you he'll like you the way you are, I don't think it's worth suffering for him, maybe he's just being nice to you because you're aware, but you know, yourself once you've felt something , so it is possible. Rosey :))))
I had exactly the same experience, only I didn't like him. We wrote to each other for about 3 months and he had fallen in love during that time. It so happened that I was discovered and I am still fucked by some of my classmates. My advice is to delete the account immediately and do not do such nonsense! Accept yourself as you are !!! Don't lose weight for someone, do it for yourself :)
Hello, never tell him who you really are! You will lose it forever! At the moment, he prefers what the girl in the picture looks like, and that's normal. What else do you want from a 16-year-old boy? and what he tells you - he didn't want whores, etc. - don't listen to him. If the girl in the picture is a whore and everyone knows - she will still go with him. Such a girl is not to be missed even though she is a whore. You're not getting married after all, are you? Use this profile to get to know him! Of course, he won't do a lot of things with an attack, there's no way he can't exaggerate ... while you get to know him, if you're going to lose weight - start today. Then stop writing to him from the profile or make another one with a boy and get engaged - to find out that there is no chance with the girl in the photo. Then you (the real one) can show him that you like him. Good luck
From the author: Thank you very much for the comments. I already think I decided not to tell him because, as you said, I will lose him forever. And for the third day I am on a diet and I have lost 3-4 kg, wish me success! :): D I don't care if he likes me after that, I just don't do it just for him, but for myself. :) He's a good boy or so I noticed. In the chat, I really got to know him better than in class and asked him what I wanted to know. ; e I haven't talked to him much .. just jokes, but I'm happy about it too.
Hello, but for a start, don't tell him who you are because it will turn out that you are quite stupid: /. If you want to lose weight there are quite easy but also quite difficult methods :) Never try pills with absolutely nothing to help. Try to eat a lot of fruits and vegetables and meat but not fatty avoid sweet foods and foods high in fat :) Do more exercises for example 25 abdominal presses 3 times a day :) and from there finally look for information on the Internet. When I say being on a diet, it doesn't mean that you shouldn't eat anything, but just limit yourself to certain foods :) If you want other advice, write to me at katherina__petrova @ abv. bg or call me on 0889324027 :) I can only help you if you want. And for the boy, wait a minute :)
How did you lose so much weight, tell me what you're doing, please. As for the boy, if he doesn't like you, then he doesn't deserve you. Everyone I like doesn't like me, but I accept it somehow there's no way. Beauty of strength doesn't work, you know. Don't worry, you will find another one who will appreciate you much more .. Greetings :)
From the author to number 11 - I am on the fruit treatment of Dr. Emilova and I will do it for 5 days with 5 days of feeding, and then I will just start eating healthy and in small portions. :) Instead of an elevator I use the stairs and so on .. :) And for the beauty of strength it happens: Not that I'm bragging, but I consider myself a nice girl and many people have told me that I'm beautiful, but anyway, just I don't like my body, but it will happen.
I'm number 11 about the beauty of strength doesn't work I predict that you can't make him love you by force I didn't say you're not beautiful and thank you for telling me how you lost weight :) good day
Stop logging in before things get serious!
and I have the same problem only I'm a boy | (and I wonder .. for 5 months: | I've been with her ... from a fake profile ...: X: ((((((I wonder what to do please if anyone can to help me pls i am 17 .. and she is 16 .. :(
Are you watching Violet? There, the story of Roxy and Leon is the same, but not on Facebook.
Don't tell him better
Well, to be honest, if I were, I would be very angry: D so ...
Don't tell him better
The same thing happened to me this summer! He kept writing to me, and I finally wrote to him who I was. It became awkward. I got scared and covered things up on behalf of my fake profile. I got out of there and forgot that idea forever. It was summer and I hope no one remembers. At school he asks me 2-3 times insistently if it was me. I denied it anyway. My profile did not have any photos. He just fell in love with the mystery. I haven't liked him for a long time and we're even friends. Good luck!