Hello. I slept with a man I really like, I guess it's mutual. He chased me for a long time and finally caught me. In the evening, when I went to them, I felt that he was also excited. We talked a little, he said he was going to the other room for a while and then he showed up and attacked me hard. We kissed very little and he immediately took me to the bedroom. Finish very quickly in 3-4 minutes. Then immediately again once more. then it lasts a little longer for about 10 minutes at most. during this time he asked me if I liked it, if I was done too. I said what to say. I really didn't like having sex with him. He tried a lot of oral sex, kisses on the back, toes, which I really liked. Then he asked me again how I was okay, if I liked it. He said he wanted more, but this time it would last two hours ha ha. He is not small at 27. he is very popular with women, but I don't know what to think. I will be glad to hear a man's opinion ...
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It's normal for him to pounce on you when he wants you. He probably ended up fast because he didn't have sex soon or out of excitement. You should have let him go a third time. Then I think everything would have gone well. If he asks you how you feel, it means not some fat egoist who thinks only of himself, but also cares about your enjoyment. Dare!
If you liked sex, just tell him you liked it, I don't see the big drama?
My friend also ends quickly. For the first few months I thought it was normal - he got used to me, he hadn't had sex in a long time, etc. - but we've been together for 8 months now and that hasn't changed. It continues to end terribly fast, we have sex twice the maximum because it is tired - the second time it lasts a little more than 2 minutes - about 10 minutes it probably gets. Only once I think we did it 3 times and the third was much longer, but then I was overwhelmed and had no pleasure. The truth is, I haven't finished with him once in those eight months ... which is sad. I hope not with you.
I did not understand the problem. What do you care that the first time is 2 minutes, after which there is a second time, there are some oral and other caresses? Maybe he hasn't had sex in a long time and that's why he ended quickly. Not a big drama, it happens. Repeat and you will find out if it really ends quickly, or then he was overexcited. In order for a woman to finish, her own attitude is also important. Sometimes I can't finish with long sex and a lot of foreplay. I'm just not in the mood for an orgasm, I don't relax completely and it doesn't matter how hard I try. Other times I succeed for 5-10 minutes without preparation, because I just have sex and I don't think about anything but pleasure. We women are a little complicated. Give the boy a chance before you diagnose him.