Hello people! I'm a girl and I'm so in love I can't find a place anymore. I recently met a boy on the Internet. At the beginning it was interesting to me because it is a bit more special and it "caught my eye". We wrote to each other at night until 3-4, on all sorts of topics. Until one day I decided to see you. We saw each other, he took me from the agreed place and we went to them. We watched movies, listened to music, talked. Finally he kissed me, I responded accordingly and so it went on for a long time, but nothing more than a kiss. We also hugged all the time, I didn't know where I was haha. Well, I left, and since then he started writing to me in a few hours, I agree, he's busy, but he didn't do that before. Answers me with a word like "mmm", "aha" and finally I asked him why we couldn't have a normal conversation since we met and the answer was "I don't know". We haven't written to each other since, and I'm going crazy. I go out with friends all day so I don't think about him, I watch movies, I listen to music, I try to sleep, but in the end it all comes down to thinking about him. I would like criticism and opinions, because I really have no idea what is happening anymore.
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Ugh, I understand you completely. You can't tell what's in his head by his demeanor. Once you've had a good time, I see no reason why he has changed his behavior. I don't think it's your fault. If he just didn't like you live, I think he would have made it clear then. It remains, for example, that he only looked for you for sex and when he didn't get there he gave up on you. I understand from the story that he didn't start, which means that if that's the reason, it's just mold and he must have been waiting for you to offer it to him. Dumb everywhere. I would recommend you not to deal with such. Now, the bad thing is that you fell on it and it must be hard for you to get it out of your head. If you want, try to keep quiet and don't answer for a while. Your silence can make him regret his behavior and try to behave as well as before.
Hello Girl! I am quite intrigued by your story, and I want to tell you that in time everything will fall into place! I can't determine if your love is shared, but time will tell !!! Leave him and you too for a few days, I guess he will think of you, and you will definitely want to see each other again, and you will rush into your adventures! Heads up, he will understand that you are a good and sincere girl (because you really look like that to me!) Good luck! And remember that she is not the only boy, if it doesn't work out with him, the sea is full of carp! ;)
Hey darling just like with my story with the difference that I'm a big woman, etc. I met a great man on the internet, but really great. We liked each other terribly. We saw each other and we liked each other a lot. However, after that he neither called nor wrote. I got it. Let me tell you the truth. He wanted either quick sex or he just didn't like you. Keep going. Not worth it. Good luck
Wait a minute, they write to you in a few hours, you see a little and you give it to his employment, right? Either you mispronounced or you're so sticky that it's amazing how he still responds to you.
There are such users everywhere, I'm really tired !!! I think it's good to clarify the situation, and that he avoids you is super stupid, as he has a problem telling himself if it's that hard. But these are most of the boys playing with a girl, giving him vain hopes and finally when they feel that things are getting more complicated, they just waste it, such a "nice" act that there is nowhere to go: @.
Bad work .. Unfortunately, the contact on the net cannot be compared to live communication. You have the feeling that you have met the person, but it turns out that this is not the case. I have had similar cases, with the difference that the boys were not always complete strangers, but we met in a common company, for example or something like that, without talking, and then we started writing to each other on Facebook. So, many years ago, I wrote to a boy with whom we talked for hours on various topics, we even shared various personal things, it was super fun and enjoyable. This went on for several weeks, in which I sank more and more without even exchanging a word with him live. But ... the moment came when we went out for coffee, everything seemed to be ok, at least in my opinion, and then gradually he started writing to me less and less, until he finally grabbed a boyfriend and stopped completely. Well, the conclusion I made was that he just didn't like me. It's not very pleasant, but it happens. I think this is the situation with you. Or a girl has appeared who he likes more. It may have seemed great to you, but apparently he doesn't agree now. I understand that with these kisses and hugs, he tricked you into thinking that he was responding to your feelings, but ... his behavior at the moment says otherwise. I think he's showing you quite clearly that he's no longer interested, he just didn't tell you in plain text. He probably wants you to feel for yourself and stop writing to him, this is a tactic that people often resort to, but it is quite disrespectful. After you showed him that you want to see each other again, and he writes you 1-2 words, I don't see what else you can do. If I were you, I'd tell him, "Look, I like you, I want to see you again, but if you don't feel the same way, it's best you tell me so we don't waste our time." However, I would say this to someone now that I am 24 and I already think quite differently than when I was 16. That is, I would not want to waste time and energy on a person who is not interested in me, because it is unnecessary and stressful, so if I feel that there is such a change in attitude and he twists something, I just prefer to be direct. It may not be the right tactic, but that's my opinion. Accept that sometimes such things happen, no one is insured. In the end, he loses :) Heads up, you will meet someone else who will treat you as you deserve. when I'm 24 and I'm already thinking quite differently than when I was 16. That is, I wouldn't want to waste time and energy on a person who doesn't care about me because it's unnecessary and stressful, so did I feel that there is such a change in attitude and he twists something, I just prefer to be direct. It may not be the right tactic, but that's my opinion. Accept that sometimes such things happen, no one is insured. In the end, he loses :) Heads up, you will meet someone else who will treat you as you deserve. when I'm 24 and I'm already thinking quite differently than when I was 16. That is, I wouldn't want to waste time and energy on a person who doesn't care about me because it's unnecessary and stressful, so did I feel that there is such a change in attitude and he twists something, I just prefer to be direct. It may not be the right tactic, but that's my opinion. Accept that sometimes such things happen, no one is insured. In the end, he loses :) Heads up, you will meet someone else who will treat you as you deserve. but that is my opinion. Accept that sometimes such things happen, no one is insured. In the end, he loses :) Heads up, you will meet someone else who will treat you as you deserve. but that is my opinion. Accept that sometimes such things happen, no one is insured. In the end, he loses :) Heads up, you will meet someone else who will treat you as you deserve.
In my opinion, he is not ready for something more serious and instead of speaking openly, he hides by behaving stupidly, I'm sorry.
Number 4 - No, I'm not sticky. On the contrary, I try not to bother him constantly, etc., but it made an impression on me that he started answering me with one word at a time, before he also answered me at a certain time, but with more words and developed the conversation.
You didn't even have to give him a kiss or a hug on the first date. He may have thought you were like that in general and may have lost interest. The boys have to be led by the nose, because most of them are frivolous and irresponsible. Sorry, post factum it sucks to find out about your mistakes. They may not be repairable anymore, alas.
maybe he didn't like you in person with something (look, demeanor, manners). he may have hoped for non-committal sex, and when he saw that he would not get it, but had to make an effort, he decided it was not worth it. he may have a girlfriend and writing with you for fun. leave it, don't deal with it anymore. accept the scriptures in chats as a way to get to know the person, but from then on rely on live contact. you can't say you only know him virtually. the man can make a copy-paste of 10 more girls, so I can tie one to him.
A discrepancy between reality and the image he has built and expected.
I am very interested in how you go to them on the first date. Don't you have at least a little instinct for self-preservation, or are you mostly afraid of those who don't know how to communicate with a woman?