I have been in love with my colleague for a year and he is constantly in my thoughts and dreams. I tried several times to get it out of my head, but when we met I was shaking all over. I don't know if he feels anything for me, but I see that he enjoys talking about different topics, and when there are people around us, he secretly watches me. He and I are married with children and I know it's not right to be in love with another man, but I just can't stop thinking about him.
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The longer you squeeze and gain longing, the better it will be for you when the barriers fall. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it's around the Christmas and New Year holidays!
And what if you find out that he likes you too? Will you embark on an adventure? Probably, right? But with a colleague it is difficult to hide from others and rumors will spread, they will reach your husband and you will face a family drama. No one can blame you for falling in love - it is difficult to control our feelings, but the decisions we make and the choices we make are conscious and they understand what kind of people we are, what our values and priorities are. So think carefully about what you want, how far you can go and what you can afford to risk and lose.
Do not light a fire that you will not be able to put out, the consequences are tragic, because there will be side burns. And it's best to stop flirting before it smells - in such environments, nothing is hidden. Winnie the Pooh
Hi, I have a relationship with a colleague (but we both have families). I tried to oppose this for a long time, but in the end I gave up. He is great and I do not regret at all that things have turned out that way between us. I'm sure you won't regret it when you feel that there is attraction between you :))) My advice is to act :))
You just don't think about the children, you think about yourself. You are shameless. Put yourself in his wife's shoes, how are you going to feel, huh? My advice is to leave it until it's too late, because you will lose a lot. You don't seem to love your child at all - think about him and the consequences. To me, you're just a stupid woman.
LEAVE IT - YOU WILL ALL SUFFER
And I'm thinking of leaving him because you're going to hurt a lot of people. Put yourself in his wife's shoes and you'll see that it's not good at all. I have experienced it and the pain is very great. It's just scary. And one day everything is clear - there is nothing hidden, covered. How will your husband feel then? And will you risk losing your child to a man? Better realize in time and forget it, just quit your job and look after your family.
Girl think about your child first! Be a worthy mother to have a dignified life. If you upset your marriage, the child will be the biggest victim. Love comes and goes, like all other feelings inherent in people, but humanity to the closest and loved ones gives warmth to the soul. Success in family life !!!