My father's job is such that it requires teamwork. He has good acquaintances or friends with his colleagues. I fell in love with one of his younger colleagues ... In fact, you will say how young he is. He is 32 years old. I am 18! He has a 2-year-old child, but is divorced. His son lives with his mother and she allows them to see each other from time to time. He is a very funny, nice, polite man. But there can be nothing between us! To him, I'm the grown-up girl of his office friend. Even if I were something more, anything between us would still be impossible. I am aware of the obstacles to being with him - the age difference, his child, my father. Although he is divorced, he thinks of his son and takes care of him. As for my father, if he finds out, he will go crazy and rightly so! My best friend advises me to forget about this hobby as soon as possible, but I just don't know how! There are so many of my peers who are not stupid or ugly at all, but I was still attracted to this completely inappropriate man! Lately, if he comes to visit us, I find a job and I'm not at home so we don't meet. However, I do not pass! Any tips?
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Just be friends with him, see him every day and it won't be so hard. ~ Bloody victory ~
Your girlfriend is right. You must not see it until you forget it. So you will not suffer. After a while, when you see it, you will be completely indifferent.
You are already 18. You can decide for yourself. Otherwise, you don't write, does the boy like you too? I do not find that the age difference is large. My husband and I are 20 years old, he has two children from another marriage, and we have been living happily together for ten years now. At the age of 19 I chose him, we went together for a long time, but I did not allow anyone to interfere in my personal life. I advise you to leave immediately after graduation and start earning your own living, so you can choose a man yourself. There is nothing better than independence, and at 18 you are already an adult!
From the author: I don't know if she likes me, because I hide my feelings and don't give any signs, and lately I've been trying not to be noticed. I'm graduating from school this year and of course, then I'll live alone, but I'm still not sure if this connection would be possible ...
You are not in love at all - only the person has become a fixed idea for you, and in combination with this you are shaken by the hormone. Things will go by themselves when you meet another interesting person.