Hello, my best friend has been in love with a boy for a year, he doesn't notice her, he doesn't suspect her feelings at all. Their relationship is not impossible, but she is afraid to admit what she feels in front of him. The problem is that the boy in question is a good friend of mine and lately we go out more and more often, write to each other regularly, talk on the phone ... It is quite possible that our friendship will grow into something more. I don't want to hurt anyone, but I can't tell the truth to either. If she sees me with him, she will be overwhelmed. I feel at a dead end and I don't know what to do - whether to end my relationship with him before it's too late or to confess everything to my girlfriend and break her heart.
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You better not admit to him, your girlfriend will be very upset. And you will watch her sad for a long time :( Deni, 13 years old
Who do you value more - him or her? If I were you, I wouldn't go with him. Anyway, in the end there will be someone injured, I would sacrifice. And yet ... if you have the courage, tell your girlfriend. If she says she can accept you as a couple if you both love each other ...
No, they have nothing in common. It's high time she stopped being childish and realized - he had never had anything to do with her and didn't belong to her. He can go with whomever he wants. In this case - with you. It might have sucked a little if she had been his ex, but it still wouldn't be criminal. And now - not at all.