Hi. I hope I find a man with a similar case to mine. I apologize if I miss spelling mistakes. The problem is the following. I've had feelings for my best friend since the end of time. Don't get me wrong. I'm not a little kid, and I know how I feel. I've had a few relationships where I have feelings, but this is totally different. Until two months ago I had never seen it this way. We grew up together and never, ever imagined that it could affect me in this way. Two months ago, however, something happened at one point. We were on the ice rink in London and as we were drooling I lost track of time as if the only thing I could see and hear were her smile and her laughter. We were watching and laughing like this, maybe 9-10 seconds and it was magical. From that moment on, I began to notice how well and perfectly he kept his hair. I was impressed that she didn't put any makeup on and she was so pretty. Her voice is spinning in my head all the time. He laughs at me and touches me like he doesn't want me to let go. I mean, we were just friends, ever since we were kids, how is that possible? Our families know each other, and I don't think it's right to think that way. Unfortunately, I can't get it out of my head. I can't think of other girls because she's perfect for me. So pure and polite, compassionate, loyal. I think I have very strong feelings for her, and I'm afraid if I tell her I will push her away. Even now, as I'm writing it's rising my pulse. Is there anyone who has been or is still in a situation like mine?
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kazuistik answered · May 23, 2020
I don't know what your problem is, I did the bratty brush so I cut it once, and I liked it a lot but sadly I went abroad and just got it in her pictures.
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sugmadig answered · May 23, 2020
That's what I was. I was thinking of her mother and her father. And I didn't do anything about it. Well they all the family went abroad we had not seen 7, 8 years and a year ago they called me and me and look at me now. We work together with the girl, almost every day I see theirs, but she got married two years ago. I'm still madly in love with her (now that I know I can't have her anymore crush). I am also a family now, even she expects a child, and one day I just got drunk and I started to cry from the nerves how stupid I was at once. Now, at least you'il know you tried. If I had given this advice and such an example, I would not have been able to hear from the inside. Success!
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jesuiscoquin answered · May 23, 2020
If she's single right now, what's the problem with sharing your feelings? Believe me, things will get worse if you hide it and wait for it to pass, and the worst will happen when you find a serious friend or marry someone else. Then you become in the position of N. 2.
Maybe she can throw you off, maybe She'il feel something for you, but you can't understand it without taking down the cards. With these friendships between a man and a woman, something else can always happen.
The worst thing is to see her bound and happy, and from the inside to eat your unrequited love. With me with my best friend was even worse, she was bound and unhappy, but they drove along with her years. It was burning me from inside that love for her, but it was even worse when I watched him keep stuffing himself with a man who was gone for nothing. In the end, I had to abandon her after two years in this movie because I couldn't move on and have a normal relationship, however after so many years later I can still think of her sometimes. Our story was different, because with us things started with a brief relationship, then friendship and so until I fell in love with her, but it does not matter.
My advice is to act even if it's bound, because it's going to be better for you than to ask your whole life what would happen if.... One or the other. And if she has feelings, so are the best relationships. Success!
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antonia98x answered · May 23, 2020
A young man press to reject you, if you're good friends, you'il stay that way. If she doesn't love you and you don't work, give it up, you won't force her.