In Love With Your Best Friend :(

   Well, people, won't you give me some advice?

   Why does it seem to me that I have gone this way too? I also liked the boy my best friend liked and I didn't have the courage to tell her. It's stupid to tell her, but I think it's better to share with her and find out as friends who the boy will be without arguing, there's no point in ruining your friendship for a boy. This is stupidity for me. So understand and don't argue

   Everything is temporary and will fade away, but if you think you have the courage to tell him, sit somewhere in a quiet place and tell him what you celebrate with him. THINGS WILL JUST HAPPEN. DO NOT WORRY.

   Have fun and fuck yourself just so you will put out the fire of the feeling and he in turn will rediscover you and decide who to be - as the chance to win it if you perform well in sex is very high and will be yours!

   Hello! I also have a best friend for years. Sometimes I had the feeling that I was in love with him, but it passed, which I am very happy about, because we have made a wonderful friendship. I think wait a while to consult yourself and find out if this is really the case ... Take your time! And I advise you to think not for days, but for 1-2 weeks, then everything matures ... And if after these weeks you feel that you are really in love or have some feelings, share it with him ... After all, he knows all your secrets and that's why he's your best friend ...

   I am the author! I don't have the strength to tell them! I prefer everything to remain as it has been so far before one of my friendships is fucked! Still, thank you very much for the advice, but I do not have the courage to admit it, and it makes no sense!

   Hardly anyone is still following the topic but still to brag to you - I told my best friend! She no longer likes it and I took advantage of it and let her know! And do you know what shocked me - that when I told her and she told me "I know": D: D: D I asked her where and she told me that it is obvious to me! I wish he could see it too!

   If you like him a lot, try to show it to him, so that he also wonders if he really only feels friendly feelings towards you or something more happens. My best friend and I were just friends, he had another, I had broken up with my ex, at one point we had a fight with him, now he's not with her and I'm not with my ex, we heal wounds, but just look and be together. I dare say that we know him well and maybe we are for each other, but time will tell, I'm in no hurry. If you want him, try to please him, but who knows him better than you. You know what he loves, what he likes in a girl, show him that what he is looking for is in you! Good luck, write what happened :)

   I have the same problem with the difference that I like my best friend for 2 years and we are in the same class ... the bad thing is that she has a boyfriend. I love her very much, I see her look, the way she behaves, everything points to the fact that she likes me too, but ... she has a boyfriend. And how can I tell you I'm sorry ... the only advice I can give myself is to wait, also for the author ...

   When you like a boy, you have to pretend to be a scumbag! Even if you want to, tell him directly but you don't know what he will do. I'm in love with him but I don't know if he likes me as much as I like him. He is the coolest boy in "Oh Christo of Smyrna". something!

   The 3rd grade pick was in love, wow, you still don't know what love is

   Abe may not know who it is .. but to be in love it doesn't matter how old you are .. you're obviously very backward .. and you don't know: D: D: D: D

   To the author: Once you tell your girlfriend, you can tell your boyfriend, it's the same! Number 10, in years to come you will understand what it is like to be "in love with someone" and you will laugh at how stupid you were! And as for number 12, until a certain age there are only common interests, followed by "liking", love and passion, and finally true love and security. Someone may be behind, but you are not advanced enough to point the finger and teach.

   Hahahahahah little third grade straight made my day: D Otherwise, there are really no age limits for falling in love and love, you just feel it differently in different years and you think that your love grows, and it just changes .. The story is not very relevant I don't think I know what happened to your friend, but let me tell you ... I don't think it's right to tell him if you don't think he has the same feelings. Since I've been through it, I know. Friendship must stay that way, because that will surely ruin it! Even if you both don't want it, it will just happen. I was in love with a friend and maybe I still am. We had some relationship and then nothing is the same :) It is true that things need to be clarified, and I am of this opinion, but precisely because I ask a lot of questions, I talk a lot, so I'm still the victim.

   oh babies i was in the same situation. fuck your girlfriend too! TELL THE BOY THAT YOU LOVE HIM !! you will finish school and you will understand many things .. as well as who are your real friends and who are not .... you are not indebted to anyone, life is yours .. and you are not a cat .. you only have one live it for yourself !! !!

   I have a similar problem ... I've been in love with my best friend for 4 years and I don't know what to do. To love him very much is all I look for in a man, but I don't want to sacrifice the incredible friendship we have. I was silent for four years, I don't know if I should tell him, I don't know how he will react, I don't know if he won't push me away. I'm not afraid of being repulsed, I'm not afraid of losing my best friend. My soulmate, the man for whom I would do and give everything! Success!

   Hey, I have a similar problem, I'm in love with my best friend and I think he liked me too, but I don't know how to get him to tell me. Please help me :)

   God ... my problem is the same except my girlfriend doesn't like it ... I'm so confused. He is my best friend we do everything together ... sometimes he holds my hand we hug sometimes he kisses me (on the cheeks of course) and I start to think that he has feelings for me too but just then something that contradicts everyone emerges my doubts and here I am at the beginning again ... I still think that she sees me only as a very good friend. If I decide and tell him about my feelings, I'm afraid of losing his friendship, but if I don't tell him mine to miss something wonderful ... something I want most at the moment. Tell me how to proceed please !!!

   I have not written on blogs, but maybe because I have a similar experience and read all the comments I decided to turn to the author and everyone else ... If you love someone tell him ... he has a right to know, you have a right to say .. I said that ... and that didn't ruin our friendship ... I was scared ... but the truth is that there was a small period of withdrawal and then things worked out on their own. The most important thing in friendship is the truth and it should not be spared, and if your man is a true friend he will understand you and will not allow you to ruin your relationship ... sometimes we have to take risks, be brave and live ... And just think of fear and loss better than a lifetime of regret ...

   Hello! I decided to answer you because I have the same problem (almost). My best friend is in my class and he says that he perceives me only as a friend, but over time I started to fall in love with him more and more .. I gathered my strength and told him .. (I advise you to do it too), he answered me with the words "You know that I can not perceive you as something more than a friend !?" .. This hurt me a lot and I started looking. the mistake in myself, but over time he also started to fall in love with me and although we are still just friends .. I have some hope because I see that he also has some interest! :)) I hope I help you !! I wish you success! : *

   I am in the same situation ... but I confessed my feelings to him and I was relieved he said that nothing will change until now and that's right ... he knows everything about me since 2 months I've been in love with him about 1 hour ago we had a small scandal and he told me that he liked me and all he had to do was be with me but alas I didn't: he likes and if he really is your best friend, his attitude towards you, if he changes, will be for the better :))

   I know the topic is old, but I still want to seek advice. My situation is similar ... My best friend liked a boy who was new to school, I told her he was nice and I would be happy if it happened between them because he looked decent, she started hanging out with him, to hint that she liked him, but he didn't pay attention to her, and she and I told a girl who knew him to tell him that my friend liked him. She told him, and told us that he didn't say anything like she told him, he just laughed ... That was last year, now about 3 months ago he liked photos on Facebook, this time she didn't pay any attention to him, I drove her, I prayed and prayed, he was a wonderful boy and I really wanted to get together,

   We have known a boy for approximately 2 years. In the beginning he liked me and I became a boyfriend with him only because my friends made me. I dropped it about 3-4 times. So that's why he turned everyone against me. I was damn sick. We had a fight for 2 months. One evening I return from the center and see him listening to music in front of my door. I was curious. I went and sat next to him. When he saw me he removed the headphones and smiled at me. We started talking, laughing and ... getting along. In fact, it all started here. We had become very close in one night. We became very good friends. We went together almost everywhere. a girl came to the neighborhood. He started reuniting with the older ones. On the evening of June 17, she told the boy (my best friend that she liked him. It happened in front of me. I felt very dumb. I got up and left. I got on one of the transformers and stayed there for ten minutes. Then I realized that I was in love with my best friend. As I thought about how to proceed from here to Dad, there was a fall and a groan. I came down from the trance and saw him. He was sitting on his back. I immediately went to him. His rib hurt. I took him by the arm and began to lead him to them. We had almost reached them and he stopped. My eyes were watery. I was so startled. He looked at me and said, "What would I do without you?" I couldn't stand it and cried even harder. He hugged me. Then I took him to them and left. Please tell me what to do. Love it. Thanks in advance!!! As I thought about how to proceed from here to Dad, there was a fall and a groan. I came down from the trance and saw him. He was sitting on his back. I immediately went to him. His rib hurt. I took him by the arm and began to lead him to them. We had almost reached them and he stopped. My eyes were watery. I was so startled. He looked at me and said, "What would I do without you?" I couldn't stand it and cried even harder. He hugged me. Then I took him to them and left. Please tell me what to do. Love it. Thanks in advance!!! As I thought about how to proceed from here to Dad, there was a fall and a groan. I came down from the trance and saw him. He was sitting on his back. I immediately went to him. His rib hurt. I took him by the arm and began to lead him to them. We had almost reached them and he stopped. My eyes were watery. I was so startled. He looked at me and said, "What would I do without you?" I couldn't stand it and cried even harder. He hugged me. Then I took him to them and left. Please tell me what to do. Love it. Thanks in advance!!!

   say straight

   Love is wonderful!

   To the author :). Everyone will see love in your eyes, but only he will not

   I don't think you keep your mouth shut, but tell both of you how you feel and understand each other.

   He is lucky to have such a good girlfriend! Tell him straight and if he doesn't, then he doesn't deserve you!

   and I am like that and the advice to act like yourself does not help at all is at least for me because I am afraid that this between us will not be what it is

   People help! I like my best friend. We have known each other for 8 years. Everyone teases me that we are boyfriends. I dreamed of him twice and was even late for school once. What I dreamed happened in real life. I don't know if he likes me too ... And I can't tell him I like him. I don't have the courage because I'm afraid of losing him as a friend. And I also know that sooner or later we will break our friendship ... And I don't know Please help! Thanks in advance!