When you meet your opposite sex and on a conscious level you realize that there is nothing that connects you, it is logical not to fall in love. When the person on top of that is not the embodiment of a kind, responsive and similar type, it is assumed that he will totally repel you. If, on top of that, you have some arguments, negative conversations and you get there to slam doors, it is completely logical that your relationship will never be good. But what happens when your heart decides that this damn guy is his chosen one Well ... you're suffering. Do you know what is the opposite? You suffer when you are together because your differences do not allow you to enjoy simple and pure love. You suffer when you are separated because you just want to be by his side. If you're lucky (but I can't determine if it's good or bad luck), you will probably be together for a while. It won't be long because you're torturing yourself. You decide to separate. But here's work, university, or something else that keeps meeting you every day, every other day, or every weekend. You see each other, but you miss each other. It's awkward at first, you don't know what to say. Then you decide that it's still nice to break down and talk like normal people. You begin to develop a tolerable relationship. You start to feel close to him again. You are about to throw yourself at his neck, but this does not happen because the person in question finds a new boyfriend. You hear about her from time to time. And you remember that you were in her place. And you remember how good it was, because the memory of the quarrels is gone. You know the pancakes on Sunday morning were delicious; that the walks in the mountains were inspiring and that you finally learned how to set up a tent. When you hear about the other woman, you feel sad, but you are patient because you know that it was not the rule to be with this man and you did not feel well. But what happens when he, despite having a girlfriend, starts taking you down again? Should you slap him by giving him flowers or hug him? If he reaches out to kiss you, will you pull away or respond? My whole being is attracted to and by him. But will we ever find the right way to communicate and live together so that it's worth the same pain again? I feel so little happy to be with him. And I want so much to be together again and again. I don't understand. that it was not the rule to be with this person and not feel good. But what happens when he, despite having a girlfriend, starts taking you down again? Should you slap him by giving him flowers or hug him? If he reaches out to kiss you, will you pull away or respond? My whole being is attracted to and by him. But will we ever find the right way to communicate and live together so that it's worth the same pain again? I feel so little happiness being with him. And I want so much to be together again and again. I don't understand. that it was not the rule to be with this person and not feel well. But what happens when he, despite having a girlfriend, starts taking you down again? Should you slap him by giving him flowers or hug him? If he reaches out to kiss you, will you pull away or respond? My whole being is attracted to and by him. But will we ever find the right way to communicate and live together so that it's worth the same pain again? I feel so little happiness being with him. And I want so much to be together again and again. I don't understand. to withdraw or to retaliate? My whole being is attracted to and by him. But will we ever find the right way to communicate and live together so that it's worth the same pain again? I feel so little happy to be with him. And I want so much to be together again and again. I don't understand. to withdraw or to retaliate? My whole being is attracted to and by him. But will we ever find the right way to communicate and live together so that it's worth the same pain again? I feel so little happiness being with him. And I want so much to be together again and again. I don't understand.
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You're a masochist - me too! The scumbag has tried his shoddy character on another, his skis have been smeared and now he tries not to stay dry, but his eyes are on the next one, not on you - you are the former one.
Where are you such women that I am looking for one who values love and knows that not only should I accept love and that not everything is a given ???? I only come across rubbish that doesn't care what they talk about, how they treat you and behave rudely. I can clearly see that there are such girls, but I personally obviously rarely come across them. Nice apples pigs eat them. Get where you are. Nothing happens with pleas and persuasions, I tell you from a lot of experience. Where they don't appreciate you and don't move a finger for you, it can't get any better. Other times, don't allow yourself to fall in love with them. I already argue with myself that I even communicate with such 'beings'. Don't they appreciate you .... 5 money is not given for you, and everything is evident from the small gestures and how much a person is ready to swallow himself at your expense and vice versa! Yes and ... there is no way to communicate with such a person. Through his eyes you look completely different and I'm sure it has nothing to do with how you look from the side. Only you know how many and what gestures you make, the other ... don't even think about it :) Good luck! 30 M BS
It's a feeling of ownership, an insult, a hurt pride, but I don't think it's love anymore. Direct your energy elsewhere, there's no point in going back to someone you know why you're done with.
Honey, I'm a 34-year-old man. I want to tell you something frankly: A year ago I had a boyfriend with whom we had the same problems. I was in love with her. I tolerated her strange behavior, her excessive emotionality, whims and pretensions. But I never managed to swallow her excessive obsession and jealousy. True, we had some good times, but I'm grateful that it was over. Such a woman is for someone with a more phlegmatic character, who will care little about her changeable mood. I am for a calmer and more balanced relationship. I would never do something like you again in my life.