I would define myself as a completely normal 19-year-old girl liked by men. I had sex for the first time at the age of 17. My current boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. I would define my previous two sexual relationships as completely normal within the ordinary and conventional. My question to you is about my current relationship. It's about the following, my current boyfriend is a completely normal, polite and attentive correct person with me, but in sex he sometimes shows a rougher and wild temper. roughly with his hands on his ass or allows himself to hold my hair by pulling my head back while we make love, constantly talking dirty words to me. I was shocked at first because it hadn't happened to me in the previous two relationships, we even talked after sex about his behavior during sex, he tells me he does it instinctively out of passion. At first I felt humiliated sometimes during sex, sometimes even a little sore, but worse or more worrying for me is that lately I have the feeling that I started to like this attitude of his during sex. I wonder if this is normal or if I have a problem.
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It's normal. You're not the only one. But if you want, talk to him again. Compare whether you will not be more comfortable if he is unhappy with you. Accordingly, ask for this.
I'm also a girl and I've had that kind of sex :) I personally like it, so I don't think there's anything perverted or something wrong with you. It's perfectly normal. Everyone has different preferences :)
It is normal for two people to love having sex, but it is not normal for them to get hurt. I, personally, would not allow my friend such an attitude! It's humiliating to me, and I'm not a rag. BUT, I say again, this is just my opinion, if you want - take it into account. However, IF you like it too, then what is the problem - the important thing is to feel good, and this is your way! Medical student
Dear girl, try to get in sync with your sex partner. Because not only gentle, but also wild sex brings pleasure. Be a predator, dig your claws into his skin, be like a wild cat - curl up during sex, skin him on the back, bite his ear. You will feel the primary power in yourself, you will understand why he prefers this way of sex. He doesn't want to humiliate you, be sure of that. And he probably loves you very much. There are no illicit ways to have sex, try everything to enjoy, or reject what you will not like Success a woman of 50 years
Hi! :) For starters, I don't know what your problem is right now that you start liking it. My boyfriend and I do it in different ways, but honestly, I personally like it most precisely when it's rougher. Of course, it's not about hurting, but for me, slapping is exciting. Judge for yourself to what extent you like it and still try not to reach BDSM haha :) But otherwise just enjoy, and for ours, which you do not like - do not be silent.
Hi, my friend is sometimes rude, but that doesn't bother me, on the contrary, I like the variety, and so does he. If it doesn't overdo it, then everything is OK;)
Well, it's normal. There has to be variety in sex. At times gentle, at times rude! :) Women like to be rude to you ... that's a fact! :)
I tie mine sometimes
No problem, rest assured. The most erogenous zone of a person is the consciousness, attraction to something new does not mean a problem (erotic imagination can appear from 12-60 years). I am 28 years old. and I discovered a very powerful stimulus only 2 years ago. Experts recommend trying new things. Once there is something that stimulates you, act boldly forward.
Well, you can also have intelligent sex - out of obligation, so to speak. However, he gets tired very quickly and becomes bored. It slaps you a little, you say. Happy you! Kofti, if he starts apologizing to you later ... This phase of reconciliation somehow doesn't tempt me. Do you feel humiliated? Well, it's a momentary admission to superiority, just enough to live with the delusion that it rules you. This is useful for the reproductive process and is manifested in many animal species. After the act, some of the species kill the male. In humans, this killing is called "marriage." The man dies slowly and surely, in the deadly embrace of the "humiliated" female. Some men, realizing what a trap they have fallen into, led by their lower head, not only slap, but just fight, but no matter how much they throw, the noose continues to tighten them for life. Otherwise, it's very cool that you enjoy it. Don't be embarrassed - the comment of the lady of 50 is perfect, in my opinion.
Everything that is pleasant for both of them is normal !!!
Drop - if he bothers you with something and / or sometimes you don't like it - then he is oligophrenic and doesn't notice you. Play it calmly - it doesn't deserve you.
I'm starting to wonder if porn comes to me in more or just people have no idea what loose sex is ... what do you expect? To stand like a tree in a missionary position, to sway on you for 3 minutes and be done? Slapping on the buttocks, biting, scratching the skin, even light slaps, pulling the hair ... these are normal naughty things that make sex even stronger! Grow up! Your Dr. Sex