Hello! As funny as it sounds, I have trouble sleeping alone, but only in the room that is designated for me. Elsewhere I have no problem. I sleep with my mother. I am almost 18 and lately this problem bothers me a lot. I know he can't go on like this for the rest of his life. I will not always live with ours. I am afraid of the moment when I will have to leave the family nest and my problem will deepen. I do not know what to do. Please if anyone here has gone through this advise me. I know I'm not the only one.
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find a boyfriend to look after you
There is nothing shameful about sleeping with someone, be it your mother and grandmother, I don't know who you sleep with. I'm 15 and I'm still sleeping with my mother in her bedroom. Not because I'm scared, just because my bed is comfortable and so; I'm not ashamed!
I'm already 17 and I have the same problem, I only sleep with my mother and I'm afraid in my room, even though I have a sister and our room is shared
Many TVs have the option to tune. Go to bed alone, set your TV to turn off in an hour, and try to fall asleep like that. Maybe it will be easier for you. Or sleep with 2 pillows, yours and another that just takes up space behind you. Another option is to stubbornly try to sleep alone until it works ... but this portends many sleepless nights until you fall asleep to the point that you just go to bed and fall asleep right away without thinking about being alone. You are 18 years old, you are not a small child, you can't always sleep with your parents or only with one, so you can separate them. And I could not determine, is the problem only in this room? Meaning, you can sleep alone on the couch or elsewhere in the house, but not in your bed and your room? Because in that case, maybe moving the furniture or changing the mattress will solve the problem. Maybe there won't be a problem in a year or two when you move out. Is it known. For example, I could barely blink in my old room, I slept restlessly, I was very uncomfortable, as if I had been visiting a friend for weeks and I was uncomfortable sleeping with him anymore. Later I realized that people died in her room, whose bed was in the place of mine ... then I was small, of course, but now that I think about it, there is some logic just that the energy was not good, I know, I do not understand a lot of that stuff, but I remember what it was like for me. We moved the bed and it became more bearable, then I changed my room and everything was fine. It was probably a mental problem ... it's probably yours. it's as if I've been visiting a friend for weeks and I'm uncomfortable sleeping with him anymore. Later I realized that people died in her room, whose bed was in the place of mine ... then I was small, of course, but now that I think about it, there is some logic just that the energy was not good, I know, I do not understand a lot of that stuff, but I remember what it was like for me. We moved the bed and it became more bearable, then I changed my room and everything was fine. It was probably a mental problem ... it's probably yours. it's as if I've been visiting a friend for weeks and I'm uncomfortable sleeping with him anymore. Later I realized that people died in her room, whose bed was in the place of mine ... then I was small, of course, but now that I think about it, there is some logic just that the energy was not good, I know, I do not understand a lot of that stuff, but I remember what it was like for me. We moved the bed and it became more bearable, then I changed my room and everything was fine. It was probably a mental problem ... it's probably yours. We moved the bed and it became more bearable, then I changed my room and everything was fine. It was probably a mental problem ... it's probably yours. We moved the bed and it became more bearable, then I changed my room and everything was fine. It was probably a mental problem ... it's probably yours.
Calm down, you're not alone. I'm the same way, but it's even worse for me. I sleep in 1 room with my brother and I'm scared again when he falls asleep. And I'm almost 18 ... but we'll be fine, it's my age; yyyy
I have the opposite problem - I can't get used to sleeping with someone next to me. The women who lived with me were a great burden to me at night. (I don't count the fun part) Tell yourself the secret that at least I can fix it :) I don't know the answer to your problem.
at your age most girls have a boyfriend later when you find this will not be a problem :)
Hello, try to sleep with your head in another direction, if it doesn't work, put the bed somewhere else in the room ... If you have a pet, dog or cat, know that the dog chooses the best place to sleep ... And vice versa , the cat goes to the most negative place, she instinctively steals the negative energy, no matter how much you don't believe it - this is the truth ...