I met my boyfriend on a dating site, wrote to him for a while, and we met later. I worked in a hotel by the sea and he had a warehouse near my work for a while we just wrote to each other and finally it he came to see me. That's how it all started, I was nearing the end of the season and I didn't take things seriously, he was 42 and I was 30 when I got home and it was already December, he called me and wanted to come home, so he started coming all the time. and Christmas we were together and for the new year came for a few hours and then inseparable, but later in our relationship he told me that he lives with another woman who has a child by another man and have been together for 6 years. But how did he explain it to me? he felt bored with her and would break up with her because he wanted a whole new life. From here begins the new in our relationship which lasted 1 year I got pregnant and he did not stop asking for a child from me and even talked about children in many, a number with great desire came with me to the birth of our baby at all examinations, part with this woman when I was 6 m, he was divorced from his first marriage and has 2 big boys now he has a 3rd son and is 1 year old, but what happened 1 week before I gave birth to him? he started not going home when he told me that he was at work and then I went in to give birth earlier than the appointed time and he was traveling home with my car which he broke and took her to the service station anyway and came eventually in the hospital. So far and beyond, I can only express my gratitude only to my cat, who is always by my side! We were discharged from the hospital and he started behaving very badly with me, he was lying down and still sleeping, he didn't move to help me with anything, he didn't even bring his mother a loan, so now in a nutshell. He wanted to buy me a brand new car on installment, making me sign the contract as he clearly knew why it was in my name, and I to give my car to his younger son and I to drive the new one that he will give me. pays off, I agreed because I loved him very much and we have a child, but with my behavior I could not continue with him. I asked him to leave our home and he left and then I understand that he returned to the woman he lived with before, I had not seen him for 3 months the car was not paid, and mine was driven by his son, suddenly he appeared and gave me BGN 300, of which he asked for BGN 40 for petrol, then disappeared again and at the same time built expensive cars and claimed that the child was not his, so I put my car back in the process of returning alone for the new car? as I can't pay her and we have only one good thing left for our child, there is nothing left of the beautiful moments together, because this woman did her best to tell him many things and get revenge, but here it is only his fault? knowing that he lives with another woman what does he do on dating sites? That's why we all women know why you can't trust the man next to you, because at one point you were betrayed and lived with a Trojan horse! but here it is the only one to blame? knowing that he lives with another woman what does he do on dating sites? That's why we all women know why you can't trust the man next to you, because at one point you were betrayed and lived with a Trojan horse! but here it is only the culprit? knowing that he lives with another woman what does he do on dating sites? That's why we all women know why you can't trust the man next to you, because at one point you were betrayed and lived with a Trojan horse!
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Honey, I think your fate played a bad joke on this man ... but still every evil is for good ... A very close woman gave birth to a baby for her husband, who turned out to be complete rubbish, but eventually gave life to a precarious baby. I'm sure it's the same with your boy to be alive and healthy and to make you happy ... and as for this male individual ... he can only regret that he missed this "new life" that you offered him. .. and yet be sure that he will not be happy there because as people say "where you spit do not go back" he can not find his true happiness there and can only deny one day that you are lost. And as for my advice to you ... don't go back to him as much as he asks you in time because I'm sure he will. Success!
Never let him come to you again, don't let him ruin your life. Good luck darling :)
I am only 18 years old, but I will allow myself to tell you that what happened to you is very bad, because you have a child from him and this man will leave lasting memories in your mind. The worst thing is for a child to grow up without a full-fledged family, and you must be prepared for the difficulties that will be the first to befall you without having support. At least rejoice that your mother is with you. As for the man, I think this man has treated you extremely badly, but you know that everything comes back. Maybe in years to come he will remember that he has a child or guilt will make him look for you but the right decision will be not to repeat the mistake of reuniting with him, because what he did is unforgivable, but and this mistake is fatal, especially for your child. And let women not be in a hurry to start a family, let them first evaluate and consider their decisions well and make sure that they know the man well in order to reach something so serious. True, people make mistakes and learn from them, but some of them, like yours, are incorrigible and ruin the lives of others.
Do not regret anything! You have a child by him. My landlady used to say. Make it worth up to 30 years, if you do not find a man who understands and supports you, at least find someone to make you a child, not to go all your life unloved. This man's life is full of cougar, woe to his first wife, neither he nor she will be happy and good with such a "man", good only for their children. This is a wandering man who is always looking for Dolcinea and fighting windmills. And for your child it is better to watch him with your mother, he does not need such a "father". There is no useful experience to pass on to him and there is nothing useful to teach him! Good luck in love! And fewer failed men!
I agree with everything said above. I just want to add that, as a start, this was a "resort novel", we who live by the sea are aware of the phenomenon. Feelings flare up quickly and fade away quickly, this is the characteristic, and when people return to civilization and their usual way of life, then it is clear who they are. I want to wish the author strength, health and luck, to raise her child. There are worthy men and she will definitely meet one who will really love her and will not discredit or humiliate her. And this snot, the biological father, will remember her and the child in a year, I hope he has the strength to forget it forever.
Why are we women so naive?
Hello dear girl, I understand the condition you are in, but I will hardly understand if we all do not feel the situation, except that it is clearly expressed here in Bulgaria, all women are single mothers and always abandoned ...! He deserves an incredible punishment because he left you and did not share his experience obviously from his life so far, after with a clear consciousness he makes and accepts to have a child again, where is his sleeping mind to look after him and help a mother like you Well, he probably lived in poverty to use the complexes that he had left and it is natural that there will always be someone next to him who has nothing but 2 rags on his back and this is convenient for him to feel like a man. !! You did well to be naked to him and not only forget him but also don't remember that he ever had it because your child will tell him the game when he grows up!
I'm wondering at you, are you so stupid as to trust a divorced man who lives with a second woman, is registered on a dating site and gets a third? From his actions, you had to conclude that this man was not serious and not for you. But what happened, no one was insured, but you had to be more sensible and listen to the advice of your mother, who must have told you to leave him.