Hello! I promised to write a sequel to my story, which, unfortunately, is not very pleasant. As I said, after I found out that my mother was cheating on my father with my uncle, my decision was firm - to tell the truth. I just expected my father to come back sooner to During all this time, my mother behaved more and more hypocritically and artificially, the last few days I slept with a friend so as not to see her. Unfortunately, my father came home a little later than I expected, because he found a job. .I was able to read your comments, for which I thank you very much. I did not expect so much advice, and I tried to think about each one. Thanks to you, I finally decided to say everything. who told my father how he was missing, etc., I felt like an accomplice in this heinous lie. I forgot to mention that I listened to one of the comments, to record my mother on the phone. It was on my mind, but when I saw a comment from another person, I decided. The day I took some other things and went to sleep in a friend (she lives near us), my mother started a scandal and started insulting me. I expected something similar to happen and I managed to record it, in anger she released a lot of things that accuse her of infidelity. us the day before Dad came. I finally managed to stay alone with my father. It was very difficult for me, I didn't know how to approach, but he realized that I was worried. Very slowly and in detail I told him absolutely everything, as well as to you on the site. like scalded, normal, but when I found out my uncle was involved, I had the feeling that something in it broke. At first he didn't want to believe me, but after hearing and recording, he saw for himself. He believed me. I remember that there were comments that advised me to hide the truth, but as I said, father He taught me not to lie. I was relieved when I admitted my mother's guilt, I even apologized to him, but in astonishment, my father, despite everything, thanked me for not hiding. Already after he understood everything and for several days wondered what to do, he told me that he would divorce. A serious conversation took place at home and my father told me what he had decided. He kicked out my mother and cut off contact with my uncle. And after all, my mother and uncle announced that they would live together. Of course, she and I can't see each other, now she hates me too. I heard the most about myself different things, some of them more offensive. I haven't seen her since she came out. At the moment I am with my grandmother, together with my father. The idea was mine, I wanted to distract myself a little by leaving the apartment. It was very difficult to tell the truth of my grandmother, who had great respect for my mother, accepted her as her daughter. it happened to me for her too, but she would learn anyway. My father is devastated, nothing that looks calm. He is thoughtful, he no longer smiles as before. I want to stay and live with him. Now he has found another job and he will not have to travel anymore. As far as I understand, he he also wants to sell the apartment (the money he bought with is entirely his and his grandmother's money) and to buy a new one, which I think is a step forward. It's my birthday in a few days. My father is trying to disguise the situation by celebrating it, but I don't care about it, hardly him, but if that distracts him, I'm ready. . For me, the greatest gift is to have a father who trusts me, loves me and cares for me. This was the sequel. I hope I was right and from now on we will both start a new life after Dad divorces. I do not wish anyone's family to experience such betrayal. Thanks again for your comments, thanks to them I did so. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, friends!
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Emmy congratulations;)
I hope you are proud of your boyish deed. He hurt 2 people with his detective skills and ruined your chance to grow in the few other healthy families in Bulgaria. Plus, he lost his mother's respect forever, and let me tell you, he is one of the half that even more Bulgarians have a lover. YOU did not find hot water. Your mother would give you valuable advice and support that no friend or anyone else would give you. The wheel is spinning and one day you will have ungrateful and evil children, little intriguers like you who will listen to unravel some of your secrets. And everyone has secrets. Come now, fly the banner of victory. May she be sweet to you!
I hope you are happy with your actions and I hope you do not regret it
Bravo Bravo! Now what? Your mother is with your uncle, and you are with your father? And everyone is happy! :) Thanks!
You did well, well done. Your mother owes it to her and you let her know. A story with a happy and fair ending. Thanks :). I just want to warn you not to linger too long with your grandmother. Older women become very selfish and can persuade him to stay with her, and this will cost him dearly and he will not be able to find a new wife. Don't let the hawthorn work. Read the complaints from mothers-in-law on the site and you will understand that the table is not given to the sons at all. Therefore, it is best to stay away. I know, she's your grandmother, but still ...
Girl, and what did you achieve, when will you learn not to interfere in your parents' relationships?
I wish you a little more happiness in the future. And men who want to be providers of their wives should think a little. Your women have to invest in a relationship as much as you do, they have to sacrifice as much as you do, they have to make compromises as much as you do otherwise if you are in the role of providers, servants, suppliers of goods, etc. you create some monsters, some ungrateful "princesses" who are waiting for everything from the man just because of their crotch and in the end you may find yourself in exactly the situation in which this girl's father found himself. So very carefully burn your mind with such women and be especially careful when a woman speaks in style: the man needs !!! (first, second, third, etc.) This is a red flag! So if you have a woman who expects something from you that she herself is not ready to do for you and does not do it, run away!
From the author: Thanks again for the comments! To number 2: Do you think I wanted this to happen? For God's sake, this is my family, of which I am a part. Would it be better for me to watch all this intrigue on the part of my mother and she to lie to him? I do not want to be an accomplice in something so vile.In addition, I am not selfish and it was terribly difficult for me until I realized the truth.As for my future, do not worry, I would not act in this disgusting way. To 6: I don't consider myself a hero, I just wanted my father to know what's going on. I'm right, I'm still a daughter in this family!
<8> - go read again comment 14 from the other topic and say that you did not want it to happen. And see 15. By the way, you still can't figure out what happened. It will take some time until you feel the consequences. Anyway - I hope you are happy with yourself and I hope you get married to have such a daughter.
Well done number 2 you want to live a lie for the rest of your life. She didn't ruin her family, that's what her mother did. And if you call this a "healthy family," you have to get examined somewhere. That's why people start cheating so much and there are so many divorces. Because everyone thinks that he can do whatever he wants and he will get away with it.
Do not regret anything, you are not guilty of anything, everyone forges his own destiny. Would it be better to watch you lie to your mother and uncle every day. These people, as well as some commentators, do not realize that every action in this life has consequences. Your mother will surely regret it because she chose this path! And I wish you health and happiness!
Number 2, a healthy family is not a mom to fuck with your uncle and mean to hypocritically grease your father. Thanks to the girl, are only bloodshed following this topic that you attacked him? What do you suggest - to be a threesome and think that this is normal? Going to crumple the sheets with a relative after getting married? It is not an intrigue to reveal the truth. You are sick and unhappy people ...
Number 2, I really want you to define to me what you think a healthy family means, as well as to argue why growing up in such a family is useful for the author, as well as for the other children in her situation. Author, you did the right thing - you gave your father a chance to find a new woman who would love and respect him, as well as a chance for your mother to be with the man who is so attracted to her. It is a little impudent on her part not only to benefit materially from your father, but also to sleep with his brother, and so both the full wolf and the whole lamb. This is by no means normal and should not be tolerated. Anyone can fall in love whether or not they are married. People who respect their spouses and think they do not deserve such deception will admit and leave them. I can't understand either your mother or the commenters. They must be afraid that someone will ruin their peace. Aman from selfishness and blood.
Author, don't be attached to them. To write such nonsense means that they are the same hypocritical blood and want both to wait for themselves and to financially benefit from their naive men. You did the right thing, and I'm sure that when your father finds a woman who truly loves and respects him, he will be very grateful. Really don't stay with grandma - men seek solace from mom because she can't cheat on them. Do not marry your mother, your father, that even then it will not be good.
Judging by the dates of the comments, the whole saga has unfolded in about 10 days. THANK YOU! ;) Let's see what else can be added to the script. So the grandfather died and left them 1,000,000 (one million EURO) inheritance, but on the condition that all (the two brothers and their common wife are equal to the author) live 1 year in one house. Working title of the series "The Stolen Woman". Top up!
The story, as scandalous as it may seem, is not very, very real. There is nothing wrong with telling your father to have a "serious conversation" and your mother to go directly to her lover without much wondering, without roaring and begging, unfortunately. Who immediately accepted her to live with him, as if he was just waiting to leave her husband. No way. And now everything is an idyll - the girl with dad, mom with uncle and everyone alive, healthier. There are no scandals, divorce, division of property, tears, beatings ... Just the author with Dad at home ... And Dad needs comfort after his bad mother caused such things. How will his daughter comfort him? Someone seems to have an Electra complex and is killing it through these writings. Not bad, but there is a section - fictional stories.
Hi, I'm not surprised by the outcome. I hope that your father will find a new wife, because in this situation everyone is happy except him. Your mother is finally free to be happy with the man she wants, and without a child to take care of, you will soon be whipped and abandoned by your father, and he will be left alone, hurt and aging. I hope the happy ending is for all of you, because for now you think a lot like a child. You talk about you and your father like a couple of swings together. But you are not his partner, but a commitment. You have to be very serious and overcome your jealousy and ownership of him, because he may soon bring another woman. Then there will be no topics like today's, where one child wrote that he was annoyed that his mother was happy with another. If he manages to move forward, for him to be happy does not mean with you, but with a woman. She may have children or give birth to a new child. You have to be ready to face these options without getting annoyed, confused or jealous. You have to be ready to grow up and accept that even though you are your father, he is an independent person. Tomorrow you can only visit his new family. There are still many changes ahead of you.
Abe realize it people! Girl, you didn't ruin anything ... It's not your mother's fault. You did the right thing. I feel sorry for all of you who see lying as a way of life and have not been able to reveal yourself to your partners ....
Honey, don't pay attention to the negative comments, this is your life and your decision! You did the right thing - it's better for the truth to hurt than for everyone to delude themselves. I wish you all the best in building your new life! :)
Честно казано, на мен тези истории ми звучат като социален експеримент, а не като споделяне на истинска история. Още в първата част ме усъмни, прочитайки как тя вдигнала телефона, а чичо ѝ започнал да говори мръсотии, още преди да каже "ало". Това практически е невъзможно, защото от вдигането на телефона до казването на "ало" има по-малко от секунда - време, което дори не е достатъчно за реакция. А и няма логика любовника ти да започне да ти говори мръсотии, преди дори да е чул "ало". Другото съмнително е, че прекалено бързо се е разиграла тази сага. За 10-тина дни хващане в изневяра, заплахи, разговор с бащата, с майката, с дъщерята, изнасяне на един бюлюк хора от къщи (от опит знам, че изнасянето въобще не е толкова проста и бърза работа колкото изглежда), прибиране на изневеряващата от страна на брата, казване на бабата, разправии, не знам си какво и всичко за 10-тина дни. Обикновено такива драми траят с месеци. То се почват едни разговори, едни обмисляния какво да се прави и кое е по-малкото зло, едни панаири, едни стенания, моления, заплахи, обсъждания кое е мое, кое твое и какво ли не. Но в крайна сметка като социален експеримент е доста добро. Разбира се, че ще има хора, които ще са ЗА постъпката на авторката и такива ПРОТИВ. Аз самия не знам какво бих направил в подобна ситуация, защото наистина и двата лагера коментиращи са много прави.
Oh, and I did that! To nail your brother's wife, and then turn out to be a super-boyfriend!
A very old story from the Internet: The mayor of the village of Hadzhidimitrovo in Svishtov, Nestor Ivanov, made a unique request from 1957. It was written by a man with complicated family ties who wanted an answer from the authorities as to whether he was entitled to family allowances for his son. falls and uncle. The request, revealing the paradoxes of life, is from Lavren Barbov, an employee at the hospital in General Toshevo, and is to the labor protection inspector. It says how the man married a widow with an older daughter and adopted her. "My father, who is a widower, married my stepdaughter. So she became my stepmother and my father my son-in-law. My new mother, my stepdaughter, gave birth to a boy who is now 12 years old and became my brother and grandson at the same time. Because I am the husband of my stepdaughter's mother, my wife became my grandmother, as she is the mother of my father's wife. So I am both my wife's husband and her grandson ", Lavren writes. He continues: “My wife gave birth to a boy from me, who is now 10 years old. He became my father's brother-in-law, and he is my uncle, because he is the brother of my stepmother, who is my daughter. In this way I became a grandfather to myself, because my wife is a grandmother and I am her husband. Please answer me if I have the right to receive family allowances for my son, that is, my uncle ", concludes Barbov's unique request. ;) to receive family allowances ”, Barbov's unique request ends. ;) to receive family allowances ”, Barbov's unique request ends. ;)
The author, congratulations from me. Really brave and right deed. Do not listen to those like your mother who reproach you. If she hadn't done that, you become your mother's accomplice in her affair. In this way, you would also betray your father. And to those who criticize the author - a close-knit and healthy family is not achieved with lies and hypocrisy until you crack the one you fall for.
22 says it's a social experiment. Even if it was conceived as a social experiment, I still think that the author has a subconscious problem with the image of the father. That's why I mentioned the Electra complex. I can only guess, but probably in real life he is missing or she has problems with him, because here he is presented as pure, too good, almost naive, in need of some salvation that comes from her. Women who grew up without a father often have an idealized view of fathers and it includes emotional instability, insecurity, naivety. In their eyes, fathers are always wronged and not guilty of anything. That's why girls who grew up without fathers look for this image in men and often find themselves in relationships with alcoholics / bullies / people in need of help.
I support with both hands number 2, the truth brings only pain and suffering. I wish you had the same "good kids" as you.
I am number 2 and I stand out immediately: The little one has no business to poke her nose and report what she has learned. What is the guarantee that the father does not have one while on business trips? I have an acquaintance, the man has a health problem and he is not doing well and he let his wife have a lover. This is a personal, inviolable area for each person and as long as your parents take care of you and their extramarital affairs do not directly affect you - they do not look at you and do not come home for days, you have no right to act so idiotic and betray them. . Of course, I realize that the mother is acting mean and ugly, but in this case we are talking about Is the little idiot right to reveal her and what will she gain from it? This is something only among adults!
To the author! As soon as I read the excuse that "my father taught me not to lie", I expected you to do something that is not your job! I hope you are happy all your life!
If you think you saved your father - NO, YOU ARE NOT! You slapped your father twice, who, you present to us as white and good, that his head would sway to his last breath. People have said, "Look, listen, and don't rejoice." God bless you! I hope you are happy all your life! Ah, your grandmother ... abe, God forbid!
So they had to cheat him for life? You blamed the girl for everything - I wouldn't be surprised if the same type of women were behind the comments. To the author - I understand that it is difficult for you. But you did the right thing. Then if it came out you would lose both. My mother still can't forget how I hid the truth about my father from her - well done for not hiding the truth. Only people who have been through this and who have not been on your mother's side will understand this. It will be difficult, but it is better to be honorable than to take even greater anger later that you did not say. For all those who comment negatively - I can only tell you health.
Haha they wish you to have the same children as yourself, ie they presume that all women cheat and the bad children are the ones who betray the cheating. Well, that's what you'll think, because everyone judges the world according to who they are. I have bad news - I do not cheat, nor do they cheat on me - this is a healthy family.
Bach, many savages have bent on denouncing the publication of their secrets. They attack the poor girl who acted with dignity and right, because they probably have lovers who keep a secret. Girl, you did the right thing, such things should not be kept secret. Well done :-)))
<32> - "I do not cheat, nor do they cheat on me - this is a healthy family." This is the ideal family - one breaks and the other does not know;) who, who will be is already God's work :)
I also think that the father knew about the infidelities, maybe not someone, but that there are. At least that's what he understands from his reaction, described by his daughter. But when his daughter tells him and expects action from him, she simply gives him no choice but to divorce. She had figured out how her father should throw out her mother and get what she deserved, and she played it to the core. She made the decision for her father. For me, this man had no other option, especially when I look at how arrogant he writes. I do not judge her, she is young, irritable with childish thinking and no experience in life. But I think there were more delicate and gentle ways to make that happen. In my opinion, it should have been like a situation in which the father himself understood and had the choice not to tell his daughter, preserving his dignity at least in front of her. He is now humiliated in front of everyone and left without a right to think. I am against radical measures.
So the author is to blame for the destruction of her family, and her mother, who flaunts her brother-in-law at will, is the holy water not drunk? Do you think he should have continued to watch his mother make sweet eyes on her father while she did all this behind his back? Great way of thinking, just the perfect recipe for a happy family. Let's break free at will, and if we manage to hide it, everything is 6. Sincere attitudes, devotion and responsibility to a person are obsolete. Then we write in various topics and roar why no one wants us, why we always end up in the trash ...
A real mother cannot hate her child no matter what she does. Your mother can be anything but a good mother. Even if she went to live with your uncle and was divorced from your father, she had to hug you and tell you that she loved you. Given that infidels are unscrupulous and vile people, this has not happened. Don't be sorry, you have no use for an ugly mother. The mother loves her child unconditionally, the rest is hypocrisy. F35
Well, I was in the same situation. I knew for a long time that my mother was cheating, but who would believe a 10-year-old paw? And I kept quiet about it because I didn't know what to do, even though I felt everything. In the end, my mother found an excuse and left us, and now she's touring the country with that one, while we wonder how we can connect the two ends. You didn't do anything wrong, leave what others say. If she hadn't said, your mother would still be enjoying the presents until your uncle got tired of him not being his, and like with us, your mother would find an excuse to leave, and of course her father would. to blame you for not being next to her, etc.
Adulterers are selfish people who should not have children or families. To stand alone and be like anyone who wants them. Non-committal.