I used to be one of those people who accused others of hurting and betraying their spouses. This is no longer the case. Here is my story. Even when I saw I., I was impressed by an attractive man and I hoped he would talk to me. It wasn't long before a simple flirtation grew into love. We got along well. The only problem was that he lived in another city. Nevertheless, our meetings were wonderful. We made plans to go there permanently so we could see each other more often. But jealousy began to erode the happiness in my heart. I wondered if he was with someone else, if he wouldn't replace me. I was very jealous of him because the girls like him and seek contact with him, and he is kind and treats everyone very nicely.
At university I met a boy. He was interested in me. We left the whole company for one hut. We haven't even kissed the colleague in question, nor did we have sex, but there was some flirtation ... One night we went out and I stayed to keep my colleague company until he finished his beer. Then he sent me home and again nothing happened. But I. found out about all this and decided that there was something more (mostly at the hut). He felt betrayed and humiliated. Scenes went through his mind about what my colleague and I were doing, and that infuriated him. When he left me, I cried. But he does not believe in tears and promises. He had feelings for me all the time and was sincere. And I acted like a kid. I had the opportunity to rethink everything. I cut off contact with my colleague, set a limit in front of everyone else who wants to be more than a friend to me.
Every day I think about my I. I wonder where he is, what he is doing. I miss him and it hurts. It also hurts because I'm the reason he feels that way. He has a birthday next month. I definitely plan to congratulate him and I hope that then the strong emotions will subside, that we will be able to talk and share everything unsaid. I'm hoping for another chance, which I may not deserve, but which I will not waste. Thanks if you read my story and took the time to leave a comment. I accept all opinions, advice, and reproaches. if you have read my story and if you have taken the trouble to leave a comment. I accept all opinions, advice, and reproaches. if you have read my story and if you have taken the trouble to leave a comment. I accept all opinions, advice, and reproaches.
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Well, what can I tell you ... It's your fault, and no one else's. What you have done is not exactly infidelity, but your ex-boyfriend no longer thinks so and has every right to doubt what you are saying. I would do the same. You can't have a prodigal who you really like, love and are in love with, and flirt with someone else. Better try to reconcile with him, talk, be honest, spare him nothing and pray he comes back. There is one problem - his faith in you has already irreversibly diminished. Are and success :)
So there was nothing between you and your colleague, and he left you and doesn't believe you - well, it's good that you got rid of him!
Congratulations on accepting any comments. Because I'm sick of reading at the end of every second story "please haters don't write", "save your negative comments" and so on. As for your problem, yes, you are another proof that we should not judge anyone, because tomorrow we may find ourselves in a worse situation. No doubt you played, you have to admit it. You enjoyed this man's attention. Well, there's no way to convince your friend that nothing happened, his reaction is more than natural. If I were you, I wouldn't believe you. Because when a person has a serious relationship that satisfies him, he just does not need flirting. In my opinion, you have decided to congratulate him on his birthday. Tell him clearly that you are clear in your conscience, but that you admit that you did not do the right thing and you understand it. If that doesn't help and he persists ... you will have to reconcile and act according to the circumstances.
Congratulations on accepting any comments. Because I'm sick of reading at the end of every second story "please haters don't write", "save your negative comments" and so on. As for your problem, yes, you are another proof that we should not judge anyone, because tomorrow we may find ourselves in a worse situation. No doubt you played, you have to admit it. You enjoyed this man's attention. Well, there's no way to convince your friend that nothing happened, his reaction is more than natural. If I were you, I wouldn't believe you. Because when a person has a serious relationship that satisfies him, he just does not need flirting. In my opinion, you have decided to congratulate him on his birthday. Tell him clearly that you are clear in your conscience, but that you admit that you did not do the right thing and you understand it. If that doesn't help and he persists ... you will have to reconcile and act according to the circumstances.
I can only tell you that you better forget it. Given that he is handsome and the girls take him down, if he is a real man he will never return to a man who has mocked his trust. As for your colleague, from what I saw you had to go out two more times and you were going to go to bed. At least the boy was lucky that someone told him what you were doing. Come success bb;)
That's why you don't get long-distance relationships, the only way is for this colleague of yours to manage things by talking to your friend, but I doubt who will. I wonder how he learned about this collection, there is definitely something rotten - some of your supposed friends may have told him. There are always evil eyes to ruin work. Tighten up, girl, you didn't do anything wrong, don't blame yourself in vain for not being guilty. If he doesn't want to believe you, cut him off, there are other men. If there is no trust in a relationship, there is no future. Sun.
That's why you don't get long-distance relationships, the only way is for this colleague of yours to manage things by talking to your friend, but I doubt who will. I wonder how he learned about this collection, there is definitely something rotten - some of your supposed friends may have told him. There are always evil eyes to ruin work. Tighten up, girl, you didn't do anything wrong, don't blame yourself in vain for not being guilty. If he doesn't want to believe you, cut him off, there are other men. If there is no trust in a relationship, there is no future. Sun.
I can't give you advice. Let me just tell you that the struggle with me is much more complicated. And I felt guilty for two smiles, while a woman with a child while she was pregnant, during her marriage and before her divorce - a great flirtation, brother. She lost a lot of staff because of her, tangled the heads of 5 people and smiled like a pumpkin in a shop window, she did not sleep at all. Boys and men, evaluate your girls and women by the actual actions and behavior towards other men, not by the false risk, the order of tears, the order of snot, the posture, the drama, the drooling. Beware of such "bridesmaids". Because neither by profession, nor by clothes, nor by the smile "but what can I not let you go" you can appreciate them. Evaluating a woman is a very difficult job, letting you go is very easy. If you don't want to play with you, then it's worth it. If it's a game - run, fritzla. So ... I'm squeezing your thumbs. Such a chick would not let the colleague in question. And I., if he is worth a man, will take you home and win.
And again nothing happened - what do I think you wanted to happen: p?
It's your own fault. However, I wonder if your friend did not understand, would you continue to keep your colleague company? I think so. You did all this with full consciousness, even if there was no sex. After losing trust and faith, you can't get back the person you love.
And people, where do you fall from. In her daily life, everyone flirts, and what did the girl do wrong? The rule is the company of a colleague to drink beer .. you in that if you see badly ... Flirting is an integral part of everyday life of everyone, whether engaged or not. It can't be avoided, but crossing the borders can be avoided and the girl behaved quite decently. That her boyfriend is too suspicious and distrustful is entirely his problem. I don't forbid mine to see colleagues, I also go out with colleagues, it's just that everyone has the right to privacy and he decides for himself whether to cross the border further or to stop if he cares about the other person. Don't pray to him at all, convince him that you haven't done anything wrong and let him decide whether to believe you or it's worth losing a point.