I have a serious relationship for not too long, but not for a long time. We have been living together recently. He explains to me in love, he says he wants me to be his wife. Nice words, but I don't know if I should trust them. It's time to mention that I'm quite jealous and cling to nonsense sometimes. In many cases I have caught myself looking for a calf under an ox. I have his Facebook password. (Something he doesn't know and I'm not proud of) A girl asks him for an invitation for friendship and starts a conversation. He told her he was engaged, which worried her that "they wouldn't be able to see each other for a beer," but he quickly reassured her that he had no problem going out. She continued the conversation on a rather sexual and dirty subject. And in the end, what bothered me was that he sent her a picture of his penis. Then the chat continued with silly daily conversations and he deleted it accordingly. I don't know how to react. I was furious, shocked, but I have no right to spy on him either. I don't know what to do. To leave him or see how far he would go. Is it just a stupid male affair? Scratching the ego. I do not want to acknowledge him at this stage. I don't want to make him hide more masterfully. I want to know what he would really do.
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What? He sent a picture of his penis: D? !? -consider it as a hint of sex, otherwise why should he do it, just to brag about it? In my opinion, if he told her that there were no problems to meet, then it was only a matter of time before he put his horns on you. I think the girl is not to blame because your boyfriend is the one who is engaged and obviously doesn't care at all. In my opinion, this man has already done it ... he has cheated on you before, think about whether you want such a person for a serious friend and husband! Well what to do, expose it in some way and then dump it. What a joke, this could be his next joke! Save yourself dear, I can't advise you otherwise!
Your friend will obviously play on both fronts if given the opportunity. As you last and watch what they write, you prolong your doubts. You need to be open with each other when you live together. Give yourself the freedom you need, but with boundaries. What are these pictures with his penis, it is not right and you have to talk to him about trust and how far the necessary freedom extends. Women are insidious, the more forbidden it is, the more it attracts them. And when I read it, your friend entertains and interests this lady. There is nothing to wait for, if he loves and respects you he will know how far the engraving is. Living with someone is not a small step. Just talk to each other to clarify these things. :)
Are you seriously asking for advice at all after he sends a fuck to the left and right of the girls. The first one who offered him friendship and we are already getting that job to shoot hahaha. I'm just ashamed that I'm a woman sometimes when I see how dumb my peers are: x dignity you don't keep for the sake of one k * r after they beat us I'm sorry we are a fool
Once the penis is no problem. If you send a picture of the cock is already infidelity.
Listen to my advice: And this one to dump the other will not be different at some stage every man likes him from "his" wife and looks for another, while he complains that "his" is boring someone else sharpens leagues on her and yells at her: hey he's crazy not to fuck this chick. Every new person is a thrill and different, so I think in the 21st century it's normal not to be faithful to one person. Does having sex with another necessarily mean infidelity? It can be scratching the scabies, purely satisfying the need to be with someone else. Even if my husband cheated on me, I wouldn't be too moved if a fox moved where I belong. If he has chosen me as a woman and stays with me, then I am important to him, he loves me and holds on to me. BUT if you're still worried about the fact that this young lady seduces him, let him live with whom he wants, and you have found the right person for you, in whom you believe that he will not give up even after 30 years of marriage. I no longer believe in such men 00025
I will give you a different point of view. Is it possible to get angry after that, e.g. sex is unique? Isn't there a fetish to show off? Have you talked about this topic at all without any accusations of any kind? I have a lot of experience in life with men and sometimes at first glance such horrible things speak of everything but infidelity.
Number 5, 6 are men in my opinion, author, don't listen to them at all! If it was number 5, your husband would go after whores and then go to bed with you, wasn't he smelled first at other people's p .. tki when he did it, how is it not disgusting I wonder .. oh no you can't be a woman !!
I support 1, but in your place I would not worry so much if this individual cheated on me, and with what kind of person you lose your youth. What kind of human material is this with an excuse? Break whether cheated or not. Just from a man who thinks that by sending a picture of his penis to an unknown woman HA-HA, he will take it off, don't just do it honestly
From number 5 to number 7: I didn't smell like someone else's p ** k, because so far he hasn't gone anywhere, and even if he did, I don't see where the problem is, if he wasn't tied to me so that he wouldn't walk. I'd better give him all the freedom in the world instead of hiding like a mouse and lying to me and then chirping that he was there with someone. And no one has stopped me from being who I want to be, this is not a perversion, but it is called trust, at least with us.
Even this fact of erotic chats and sending such photos to me would be enough for me to drop it for a minute. I just don't know where you get the strength and patience to know this and not react, I wouldn't hold back.
Author: I don't mind the young lady. Of course, even if it's the lowest blood, it's not the one with the connection. They do not keep in touch. I decided to set a trap for him. I'll make someone seduce him and invite him to a sex date to see how far he gets.
I also want to add that he is very stupid with an apology to the author. These are the most disgusting men, it is true that there are those who cheat but do it discreetly and in isolated situations. Rather, a smart man will catch only one mistress after he has a serious girlfriend, and he will most likely change them, but it's disgusting, I don't know, I wouldn't deal with such a guy. And if he's going to be the coolest, but he's obviously not very smart or cool when he's waving to the left and to the right ... well, what diseases are sexually transmitted and God forbid I come across one.
A .: There is no mistress / s, because we are almost always together (at his request, I did not intend to be glued together), ie there is no such possibility. He has not had such performances before. (As it turned out, I have access to the information)
To the author. I don't know at all how you refrained from fucking him ... Not because he's teasing some girls, not because he must be fucking everything he gets, but because he so skillfully deceived you and hid from you that he was a fool. We are in the 21st century, everything is perverted and liberated, and nowadays no one owes anyone anything, even if they are married. It's all up to a person's desire to have only one or many. But to think that you are very interesting when you take pictures of your parts and send them to the left is a dementia to the right. I, as a woman, even the smartest, most beautiful and do not know who to send me such a picture, I will be disgusted. And not because he showed me something I haven't seen, but because it will immediately become clear to me how smart this handsome man is. If you ask me, you don't need to know how far he gets with the girls he writes with. Not worth it, find someone who knows what this is used for in his pants, not where he takes pictures and chats. Tomorrow he may take a picture of you and send it to someone, and you may not be happy. I think you have been patient because you are reassured that he has not cheated on you, but this is worse, if it is not until now that I doubt, he will do it at the first convenient moment. There are almost no people left who do not slip to cheat. But what irritates me the most are those who do not hide, who do not care, and those who fail to do so in order to preserve the dignity of the person next to them, at least a little. Tomorrow you go out somewhere, hug, and various girls point fingers at you and wonder how stupid you are to wash his socks, and last night he sent them a picture of you for good night. Strange. Tomorrow he may take a picture of you and send it to someone, and you may not be happy. I think you have been patient because you are reassured that he has not cheated on you, but this is worse, if it is not until now that I doubt, he will do it at the first convenient moment. There are almost no people left who do not slip to cheat. But what irritates me the most are those who do not hide, who do not care, and those who fail to do so in order to preserve the dignity of the person next to them, at least a little. Tomorrow you go out somewhere, hug, and various girls point fingers at you and wonder how stupid you are to wash his socks, and last night he sent them a picture of you for good night. Strange. Tomorrow he may take a picture of you and send it to someone, and you may not be happy. I think you have been patient because you are reassured that he has not cheated on you, but this is worse, if it is not until now that I doubt, he will do it at the first convenient moment. There are almost no people left who do not slip to cheat. But what irritates me the most are those who do not hide, who do not care, and those who fail to do so in order to preserve the dignity of the person next to them, at least a little. Tomorrow you go out somewhere, hug, and various girls point fingers at you and wonder how stupid you are to wash his socks, and last night he sent them a picture of you for good night. Strange. it will do so at the first convenient moment. There are almost no people left who do not slip to cheat. But what irritates me the most are those who do not hide, who do not care, and those who fail to do so in order to preserve the dignity of the person next to them, at least a little. Tomorrow you go out somewhere, hug, and various girls point fingers at you and wonder how stupid you are to wash his socks, and last night he sent them a picture of you for good night. Strange. it will do so at the first convenient moment. There are almost no people left who do not slip to cheat. But what irritates me the most are those who do not hide, who do not care, and those who fail to do so in order to preserve the dignity of the person next to them, at least a little. Tomorrow you go out somewhere, hug, and various girls point fingers at you and wonder how stupid you are to wash his socks, and last night he sent them a picture of you for good night. Strange. and he sent them a picture of his goodnight last night. Strange. and he sent them a picture of his goodnight last night. Strange.
Author, you both want advice and you justify it. It is certainly not the first time he has sent his penis to tanned women. His act is stupid and inappropriate, and you think of some crazy plans to set traps and some nonsense. There is no need for such checks, as big people talk about what this nonsense is with you, 16-year-olds set traps. You don't trust him at all, at times you contradict each other and out of boredom you wonder how to ruin your relationship.
Number 10 and I, like you, agree that human freedom should be given. But if I catch him cheating on me, and not with one, but with several, for example, that he slept with me and went to the blood. Well, I'm not going to pretend to be blind at all, I'll dump him for good men . And you have no dignity, darling.
Author, you're really mean. You are not with him because of him. You are with him for yourself. And what if you fall into a trap, will you feel better? To the next one you will be like that again, he will smell your fear and mistrust and he will run away. And the next, and the next, etc .. If I pass your "exam" and find out that you set me up, I will immediately dump you. I don't need such insecure people at all. M35
Play something like this to see how he will react and find out if he is cheating on you or not. Go to him, tell him that you have something to confess to him, lie that you have been dating a man for a while and things have escalated to sending him a picture of your chest, for example, burst into tears, make a scene. See how he reacts, big laughter will fall.
Author, this is really shocking and embarrassing. Such an act befits a mutter, a brazier lying to drain ATMs with a purchased diploma, who has caught a prostitute with stolen money, who may be her father, but thank God, well, you're not. I hope everything goes well with you. God forbid he sends her a picture of his ass. Why don't you take a picture and send her something, not believing he's tied up?
Very disgusting job, I recommend that you stop contacting and not living with him, unless you are dependent on him. his whole family are mobsters, he saw the internet for the first time, you have to take action. But I sincerely hope that you are not like that and that things get better between you. Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. Maybe he suspects that you too (with an apology, but in his eyes) are a whore and seek the attention of another man at the cost of all the fallen, pathetic deeds. I hope you are not like that!
Aren't you a girl who writes various stories here, lies from everywhere, where more, where less, invents various nonsense, sometimes pretends to be a transvestite, sometimes as a girl writes, writes comments, as under this story. Aren't you where you have a girlfriend in a mobile operator where you wrote a story that your husband said something to another. Aren't you proud to have the password? The site must pay you a staff. Aren't you where it was written in other stories that the person in question was a bandit and was in prison abroad and you married him as soon as he cheated on you !!!! And you spit on him in one topic, in another you praise him against a fictional virtual, for which you are obviously angry that you no longer exist !? So you ask, what is it like to send that job to others? !! Aren't you the one who invents virtual relationships and asks for friendships, but you're married and yours is like nothing, a purely bipolar. That you are right for him and you are for each other!
I think it's best to print his chat, where they talk dirty and where he sends a picture of his penis. To pack your bags if you live together and move out and stick the printed chats all over his living room and never see him again but he will remember why you left. If you don't live together then just go to them while he's gone and do it. It's a pretty good breakup.
Until 22. I am writing here for the first time. :) Until 23. I thought something like that. Sorry, the chat has been deleted. Otherwise, the young man is behaving great at the moment, after a few biting remarks. I will not check him, I decided it was not worth the nerves. If such a thing happened again, it would be his last. At least with me. :)
Infidelity is not only physical, but also what you fantasize about! So, people who think like me - hold fast to your own opinion, despite this disgusting and corrupt world! Magdalena, '96