Hello! I am a girl of 17, I have been seeing a boy of the same age for a year and almost 5 months. He treats me like I'm the only one, but it turns out I'm not. I noticed that he was constantly texting a girl. At first I didn't pay attention, but he started to keep his phone in his hand and became quite secretive. I asked him about her, and he said "just friends" and I finished the topic. However, he changed his password and his phone did not allow anyone to touch it. Download an interesting game and once when he came in to bathe I asked him to let me play while I waited for him. He naturally refused, but I prayed to him and he agreed. However, before he gave it to me, he closed all applications and shut down the Internet. When he went in to take a bath, I dug into his messages with the girl in question. I know it wasn't right, but I really wanted to know and I was very disappointed. They address each other with words like "baby", "cute" and the like. They say that they love each other and talk mainly about sex, they share who the other wants to do to him and the like. I felt very bad after reading a small part of their chat. When he came out of the bathroom, I told him I had to go home urgently and left. I talked to him a few times to tell him how we were, what we were doing, and then I told him I had to shut up. I really want to know exactly what his relationship is with her, would he do what he writes or is it just a chat? I pretend to find out, but if I ask him directly he will know that I have read his messages. I have no idea what to do! Can anyone give me adequate advice please? , "cute" and the like. They say that they love each other and talk mainly about sex, they share who the other wants to do to him and the like. I felt very bad after reading a small part of their chat. When he came out of the bathroom, I told him I had to go home urgently and left. I talked to him a few times to tell him how we were, what we were doing, and then I told him I had to shut up. I really want to know exactly what his relationship is with her, would he do what he writes or is it just a chat? I pretend to find out, but if I ask him directly he will know that I have read his messages. I have no idea what to do! Can anyone give me adequate advice please? , "cute" and the like. They say that they love each other and talk mainly about sex, they share who the other wants to do to him and the like. I felt very bad after reading a small part of their chat. When he came out of the bathroom, I told him I had to go home urgently and left. I talked to him a few times to tell him how we were, what we were doing, and then I told him I had to shut up. I really want to know exactly what his relationship is with her, would he do what he writes or is it just a chat? I pretend to find out, but if I ask him directly he will know that I have read his messages. I have no idea what to do! Can anyone give me adequate advice please? I felt very bad after reading a small part of their chat. When he came out of the bathroom, I told him I had to go home urgently and left. I talked to him a few times to tell him how we were, what we were doing, and then I told him I had to shut up. I really want to know exactly what his relationship is with her, would he do what he writes or is it just a chat? I pretend to find out, but if I ask him directly he will know that I have read his messages. I have no idea what to do! Can anyone give me adequate advice please? I felt very bad after reading a small part of their chat. When he came out of the bathroom, I told him I had to go home urgently and left. I talked to him a few times to tell him how we were, what we were doing, and then I told him I had to shut up. I really want to know exactly what his relationship is with her, would he do what he writes or is it just a chat? I pretend to find out, but if I ask him directly he will know that I have read his messages. I have no idea what to do! Can anyone give me adequate advice please? would you do what he writes or is it just a chat? I pretend to find out, but if I ask him directly he will know that I have read his messages. I have no idea what to do! Can anyone give me adequate advice please? would you do what he writes or is it just a chat? I pretend to find out, but if I ask him directly he will know that I have read his messages. I have no idea what to do! Can anyone give me adequate advice please?
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There is no need to be silent about such a thing. You ask him directly what's going on, because it seems to me that not only is he cheating on you, but he has a relationship with this girl behind your back.
Drop it. Do you deserve this? Yes, this is infidelity and your friend is quite stupid that he misses a girl like you, it's just not worth being with a man who stands and lies in your eyes and you will be even more stupid if you tolerate such an attitude .....
He wants to be in two camps, back off before it's serious ...
Don't waste your time with this boy, you are still very young, life is in front of you, don't waste it. The work is clear as day, he will now try to confuse you, to blur the situation, to turn things around, you judge how much you value yourself and how much you will allow yourself to be humiliated in this way. Be careful not to get used to it, because if you stay in this relationship, in the next one you will close your eyes to something else and in the end you will be 35, you will find condoms in your husband's pocket and you will write: is he cheating on me? Just think - if your boyfriend accidentally reads your chat with someone with whom you talk "nicely" and talk about sex, won't he kick your ass like a dirty kitten? He won't even want to hear an explanation, but why, but what and so on. But you have read, seen with your own eyes and you are still wondering that you are worried about how she will react !!!!
I wonder when using "just friends" is there such a case? And in the case of the author, she is obviously not an exception, and she hides her phone, that alone is enough, without talking about sex. I wonder what keeps him with you, I guess you don't have several children? You don't call him: your husband, do you? Maybe a boy, a little boy, straight female receptions.
You're obviously tired of him, and I would do the same, some girls I like - others don't
In my opinion, in this case, a conversation is unnecessary - you will no longer have a chance to understand how he is lying to you. Trust will be lost on both sides. I think it's time to end it. No explanation! ж30
You need to talk to the young person seriously and clarify your relationship! It is clear what he wants from the other girl, you have already read about it, but to lie and hide you like that is not right at all! If he wants to continue to be with you, to stop all communication with the other girl, that means no chat with her. Abe, it is obvious when a person hides something and is secretive. You have already noticed these things! But I don't think he deserves you if he doesn't appreciate you, and you decide whether it makes sense to suffer for such a person or not and move on! Success> M. 31г <
I think you yourself know very well the answer to your question, if this chat was a harmless flirtation, your friend would not change his passwords and jealously guard his phone.
Well, they are like brother and sister, it is more than clear:)))))