Do not blindly believe a man, no matter how many nice words he speaks to you. I thought everything was going well. We have a good time together, we love each other. We have been together for 3 years. I believed and worshiped him ... until a moment when I accidentally read his mail. My life turned upside down in a split second. I don't remember how long I stood numb and looked at the letters, which must have been hundreds, sometimes several a day from the same woman. I don't wish it on anyone. I realized that he had been cheating on me since the beginning of our relationship. What was not written. He called a "sunshine" as he told me and wrote gentle words .... It took me hours to realize what was happening. I just wasn't on my own. I cried nicely for a few hours. Then I stuffed myself with a few valerians and saw him in the evening. He behaved as usual - he repeated how much he loved me, hugged me. He seemed sincere. That, of course. It was very difficult for me to keep my composure and I started playing the game. I decided not to tell him right away what I knew, but to study things. On the other, with the help of a friend, we went into the mail and I started reading. For several days in a row from morning to night I read, cried, took valerian and so ... I continued. I wanted to know enough to hate him, but alas, I only tortured myself ..... so in the end I couldn't stand it and one day I wrote him an e-mail that I knew everything and this was the end. I turned off my phone. I was with some colleagues. I don't know who he asked and how he found out where I was, but he called them - he wanted to see me. I refused - there was nothing more to talk about. He insisted. Finally I accepted. We went to a park and then it was as if everything that had accumulated in me came out. I told him everything I thought, I told him it was the end and I just lost a lot of time in my life with someone who didn't deserve to be with me. He cried. It was the first time I'd seen him so upset. He told me that even if there was a shoot, it was just sex, nothing more. He only loved me. He wanted us to be together. All these letters were just flirtations. It was nothing serious, he had no feelings for them. He roared like a child. He didn't want to lose me. And so I was adamant. I'm home. I was somehow relieved that all this burden I was carrying came out. He texted me to see me again, to talk. We saw each other a few days later. We talked for a long time. Said you tried to fix that he wants and loves only me. I loved him very much !!! I realized that a separation would cost me an awful lot. I'm with him now, but I don't trust him at all anymore. Whatever he says, I always doubt it. I watch his every glance. I'm going crazy. However, I began to feel that my feelings were fading, I didn't love him that much anymore, my love turned into indifference. Soon he accidentally winked strangely at a colleague. Something stabbed me in the heart. I pressed him. This time he didn't want to lie to me - he just told me that he cheated on me, but it was just sex !!! He loved me !!!! Well, that was it. Now I'm obsessed with giving it back to him. I want him to feel the same way I suffered for so long. I don't want to be with him. I'm just waiting for the Man to show up for me. I pressed him. This time he didn't want to lie to me - he just told me that he cheated on me, but it was just sex !!! He loved me !!!! Well, that was it. Now I'm obsessed with giving it back to him. I want him to feel the same way I suffered for so long. I don't want to be with him. I'm just waiting for the Man to show up for me. I pressed him. This time he didn't want to lie to me - he just told me that he had cheated on me, but it was just sex !!! He loved me !!!! Well, that was it. Now I'm obsessed with giving it back to him. I want him to feel the same way I suffered for so long. I don't want to be with him. I'm just waiting for the Man to show up for me.
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I'm not sure if you'll feel better if you give it back to him. I'm not sure if the Future Man would like you when he finds out you've been with someone just to get revenge on someone else. And, God forbid, he turns out to be this Someone. If you are still determined to make your current one feel bad, leave him first and then embark on adventures, not the other way around. Men are selfish animals and it hurts a lot more if we miss a woman and then find out that she is dating others and feeling good. In the other case, she will always say to herself - she cheated on me just to rub my nose ...
He is absolutely right in the above comment. Don't cheat and just really break up. And then look with the brain, not the heart. It will always lie to you.
Don't punish yourself for your friend's simpletons. Just leave it. Imagine how you will spend your whole life like this. Isn't that disgusting?
I am a man, the two before me are completely right. No one but you will get sick if you sleep with someone else. I hope you ever understand that this is a typically female reaction but very wrong.
I am a man and I constantly cheat. There is no force to stop me. I have had several loves. And they cheated on me. I recently fell in love. I thought I had finally met my last great love. She cut off my head. My son is a student and he has a new boyfriend every week because he is nice. Starting to chat on the internet, with five six at a time. If your friend is nice. If there are beautiful women around him, how can he not cheat on you. You are obviously jealous. Take it easy. Once he has promised you, use your charm. Enchant him. Make him walk on you like a drunk. Your friends will call you how these things work. Otherwise, catch some ugly man. Everyone will make fun of you and he will cheat on you again. With these prostitutes, every man tries every step of the way. Believe me, I'm looking for great love as in the movie ROMEO and JULIET. With one infidelity you will do nothing. It is better to flirt and flirt in the company of his best friends. This is not infidelity on your part, but it has an effect.
I think the gentleman in front of me is right. I'm a woman, but I think we women are sometimes to blame for our men cheating on us. We stand and expect only them to do something for us, we just to be beautiful. Seduce him more often, invent different entertainments together. Go together to different places / not only to the shops /, in places where he likes. Believe me, it has an effect, but you need effort and compromise from you. Unfortunately, nothing will happen without effort. The other easier way is the one you went to.
Um, number 5, maybe you're right about some things, but not everything. I would be cheating if I were this woman. I would gladly do it, and if he was with his best friend, even better. There is no typically female and typically male reaction :) My advice is Flirt, make him suffer and want only you and finally beat his jester. Let it hurt him too. Am I very bad :)
Hi number 7. I'm number 5. That's right. But I, as a man, took sides. Because I can give countless examples. One day, my best friend's wife cheated on him. Nobody understood. Everything went on as before. Then I wondered if my friend would find out. Whore work. I know all your turbans darlings. I tried to give advice for something good.
What is the whore's job, yours or your best friend's wife, I didn't understand exactly ?? Everyone has a mother :)))
I'm number 5 again. Our work is whore. But I will explain. I had an affair with this woman even before my friend married her. Then suddenly she became very decent. Years later, one night she started to undress, She said that her husband had a mistress and he wanted to fuck us. It was very nice. Then the next day he told me that this would never happen again between the two of us. He calls me: Do you see how I rubbed his nose..A ??? My friend doesn't know yet. He's a hoy again. She's still his wife, but she's not so decent anymore. This is how ordinary people live.
Live or live, number 5? Why men start to hurt when women start treating them in exactly the same way they treat us, I don't understand. Do you expect a woman to be decent in a decent man? So, the woman in the kitchen, and the man where he wanted? Well, there is no such film anymore, excuse me for the expression. We do not live in the Middle Ages, as much as some men want :)
very cliché darling "we do not live in the Middle Ages." It's not like that, a woman above said. It just takes compromises and a little different female skills to make him think about you all the time, to feel different about you, and believe me he won't cheat on you, just show him that he is more special to you. Try some such methods. I tell you as a man. Don't act like most pickles "I'm very special, I want this, that". Sometimes I wondered a lot about you women. You both like these whore performances, I don't know if they make you feel significant, I don't know, but you don't want men to treat you like that. Well, it doesn't happen that way, if you take over a man's thoughts, he won't cheat on you, because he won't be interested in other women, but as you know, skills are required for that. A boy tells you that soon his thoughts were with a very beautiful girl, but fate separated us and everyone took a different path. She is not Bulgarian and was temporarily in Bulgaria. I think so, maybe I'm wrong I don't know
12. Come on, please tell me about the tricks. What do we do if you really did so many things to make the "gentleman" feel special, showed him hundreds of times, deprived yourself of important things because of him, made surprises, etc ... You're not from those commercial girls who cling to someone for money or something ... I already think that's where my problem is - that I pay too much attention to him, that I told him too much what it means to me and he imagined that everything is allowed to him, that he can do whatever he wants, because I love him and everything will be forgiven ...
Why not tell them to them, huh? . and if you want to apply them to the right person for you, you will strain your thoughts a little and decide what to do. I know that most of you are "noble" and can't afford to make a gesture for the man they love, but still for some "countess", "baroness" or other lady with blue blood, on whom her grandfather grazes goats. in the countryside, if she decides to do something like that, I will tell her that the man in love is most easily manipulated so that they can choose, if not then ask again "why is he not faithful to me, is sex infidelity" or other such pearls
And you are number 7, are you currently alone or do you have someone you love or like next to you. Excuse me for the question :)
I forgot to write, I'm not blue blooded, as you put it. I am the most ordinary :) signature: number 5 :)
Hello, I'm number 5. Well, it seems I know how you put it - a little different female skills :) number 7. If we have been living with an man for 18 years and we are happy with it :) As he wrote, the problem is right there, darling. You let him do what he wants and he thinks you're tied in a towel. Don't do that. Always make him jealous. And constantly think about where you are and what you are doing right now. There must be a thrill. If not, it doesn't make sense. Be unpredictable, like me. :) Men love to hunt, don't forget it. I am convinced of this from personal experience. Be prey, but not easy :) Good luck, darling.
If a man loves you he will not cheat on you because you will only be in his eyes, do not waste your time but find the man who will truly love you without cheating on you. Infidelity is betrayal of the other doesn't sleep with another just to make him feel bad doesn't fall so low ... well that's from me