Hello, I want your opinion on the following story: I am 42 years old and I met a 44-year-old man, unmarried so far, without children and the most interesting thing is that no woman has ever introduced herself to her family and friends . We have been together for three months now, but he had to go on a business trip abroad. When I left I don't know why, but something made me write his name in Uncle Google for the first time and what was found to be 7 registrations on dating sites, being active in three of them, even the day before he left he entered them . So he arrives in the respective country, he calls me to launch Skype, I see that he also launches Skype and one of the sites at the same time and writes to me in parallel. Imagine the shock I experienced from what I saw, but that's not all, I was able to check his phone bill, which was BGN 180 by the end of the month already, and he talked to me for no more than three minutes. I ask for your views on the matter. I really wonder what to do in this case.
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So why don't you ask him yourself? Besides, how do you know that the profiles are his and not those of other people with that name? He may also have found friends on these sites, so why waste his whole life? He is alone and needs to share it with someone abroad. Not everything can be shared with the woman you love. To me, you are more or less selfish. If something bothers you, talk to him. He knows best why he does this. If otherwise a man wants to cheat on you, there are much easier ways to do it, and there are some in which you would never know about the cheating. Instead of looking for a calf under the ox, concentrate on your own life - family, career, income, education, etc. Only he who has no life outside of his relationship, only he tends to pursue his partner.
Probably in a relationship with other girls. Regarding the registrations, it does not necessarily mean that he is cheating on you online, but if you say that you only talk for 3 minutes and his bill is BGN 180, I think you have the right to have suspicions. Who is he talking to so much, apart from you and theirs? Ask him. P. C and make sure these business trips don't mean "sleep in another girl"
I know that the profiles are his, but I only knew about two, the problem is that he deleted both of them in front of me, and then it turned out that the next day he made registrations again, but without a photo and again with that name. , and I understand that two days or two months after he deleted them. This so-called persecution of the partner, however, is not dictated by the fact that I do not know what I want or I am out of work, but simply by a change in his behavior, for two weeks he is quite distracted, distracted and sluggish. It just made me think that there was something going on with him, I asked him if there were any problems, he denied it, but in combination with this account I was just shocked, believe me.
The truth is that many men practice so-called internet tourism, meet women on the Internet from the place where they go on a business trip and have a good time. Most often, however, this happens to women from nearby and other cities where there is no danger of encountering by accident. They just have fun, that's it. Something like pilots and flight attendants :)
I fully support the opinion of number 4. There are many such men, and if these "business trips" happen too often, he definitely falls asleep at some.