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By brincolinesbambinos August 12, 2020 13 answers Last updated August 12, 2020

Taaa .. Hello people, I finally decided to share my story and I apologize in advance if I deviate from the topic too often. I am a girl, a teenager, I will not say exactly how old I am, because I hate when people build so-called stereotypes. "Oh, you're small, what are you looking for here, go play with the toys!" Or the like. I hate that! For this reason, I will leave it to you to judge how old I may be, taking into account the nature of the problems. Let's face it: I have no close friends in my city. You remember those of those with whom you can smile for hours without even knowing the reason, going out and always being together, saying to yourself, "Hey, I killed you now!" With a serious face and a frowning face, and the other to respond with laughter " Yes, I love you too! ". You could say that I only became friends with 2-3 boys, so as not to suffocate from the air at home without going out all day, but now I started seeing them less and less. every human being and I can't stay without friends, alone, that's why I sought help from the internet. Or rather I didn't look for her - she came to me to help me. I became an anime fan (and ... please, ladies, gentlemen and haters, if someone will tell me that these are kids, save it, because I'm tired of such attacks for a long time! Just watch an anime (I recommend: Death Note) and see for yourself how "appropriate" "is to children) and over the course of the circumstances I began to meet a lot of people who were interested in the same thing as me. Two of these people became so close to me, that I now accept them more as brother and sister than as friends. One of the girls I met even turned out to live in a village 10 minutes from my town and we see each other twice a month, we keep in touch, of course. With some I plan meetings in the future, and for others I will have to wait a long time, unfortunately, but it does not matter now. Even relatively recently (several months) I'm writing to a boy my age and I think I like him ... (And my other friends are convinced of that! Haha.) And maybe he likes me too, but he said to himself, that he is shy, so I guess even if I'm (we're) right he won't admit it to me. The boy is very decent compared to other biological individuals of his species at this age, that's why I like him. My questions to you are: 1. What do you think about the so-called "distance connections" or the "internet connections" in question? 2. Do you think that ... so to speak, "my parachute will open" with the boy, and is it possible to have a relationship from so far away in this way, because he does not live near me at all? 3. Do you think that through the Internet you can meet a person who will become an integral part of your life and yet you have never seen him live? PS I don't know if my life has gone well or badly with these friendships I've made, because no, I'm not alone, but it hurts a lot that they are so far away from me. I will also ask you to tell me some of your experiences with people you have met in cyberspace, if you want to tell them, of course! :) We can meet again and deal with your problems, so I leave a small mark behind. ~ RC Stone that ... so to speak, "my parachute will open" with the boy, and is it possible to have a relationship from so far away in this way, because he doesn't live near me at all? 3. Do you think that through the Internet you can meet a person who will become an integral part of your life and yet you have never seen him live? PS I don't know if my life has gone well or badly with these friendships I've made, because no, I'm not alone, but it hurts a lot that they are so far away from me. I will also ask you to tell me some of your experiences with people you have met in cyberspace, if you want to tell them, of course! :) We can meet again and deal with your problems, so I leave a small mark behind. ~ RC Stone that ... so to speak, "my parachute will open" with the boy, and is it possible to have a relationship from so far away in this way, because he doesn't live near me at all? 3. Do you think that through the Internet you can meet a person who will become an integral part of your life and yet you have never seen him live? PS I don't know if my life has gone well or badly with these friendships I've made, because no, I'm not alone, but it hurts a lot that they are so far away from me. I will also ask you to tell me some of your experiences with people you have met in cyberspace, if you want to tell them, of course! :) We can meet again and deal with your problems, so I leave a small mark behind. ~ RC Stone with the boy and is it possible to have a relationship from so far away in this way because he doesn't live near me at all? 3. Do you think that through the Internet you can meet a person who will become an integral part of your life and yet you have never seen him live? PS I don't know if my life has gone well or badly with these friendships I've made, because no, I'm not alone, but it hurts a lot that they are so far away from me. I will also ask you to tell me some of your experiences with people you have met in cyberspace, if you want to tell them, of course! :) We can meet again and deal with your problems, so I leave a small mark behind. ~ RC Stone with the boy and is it possible to have a relationship from so far away in this way because he doesn't live near me at all? 3. Do you think that through the Internet you can meet a person who will become an integral part of your life and yet you have never seen him live? PS I don't know if my life has gone well or badly with these friendships I've made, because no, I'm not alone, but it hurts a lot that they are so far away from me. I will also ask you to tell me some of your experiences with people you have met in cyberspace, if you want to tell them, of course! :) We can meet again and deal with your problems, so I leave a small mark behind. ~ RC Stone that through the internet you can meet a person who will become an integral part of your life and yet you have never seen him live? PS I don't know if my life has gone well or badly with these friendships I've made, because no, I'm not alone, but it hurts a lot that they are so far away from me. I will also ask you to tell me some of your experiences with people you have met in cyberspace, if you want to tell them, of course! :) We can meet again and deal with your problems, so I leave a small mark behind. ~ RC Stone that through the internet you can meet a person who will become an integral part of your life and yet you have never seen him live? PS I don't know if my life has gone well or badly with these friendships I've made, because no, I'm not alone, but it hurts a lot that they are so far away from me. I will also ask you to tell me some of your experiences with people you have met in cyberspace, if you want to tell them, of course! :) We can meet again and deal with your problems, so I leave a small mark behind. ~ RC Stone I will also ask you to tell me some of your experiences with people you have met in cyberspace, if you want to tell them, of course! :) We can meet again and deal with your problems, so I leave a small mark behind. ~ RC Stone I will also ask you to tell me some of your experiences with people you have met in cyberspace, if you want to tell them, of course! :) We can meet again and deal with your problems, so I leave a small mark behind. ~ RC Stone

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vekilince answered · August 12, 2020

   Yes, sweetie, act boldly! It is much easier to get along and get along with someone with whom you have common interests - from this point of view, the Internet is a great opportunity to make new friends. It is better to communicate from a distance, but with people who share your interests and understand you, than live, but with people with whom you have nothing to do. I myself met first virtually and then live with many valuable and interesting people through a thematic internet forum. Many of these people are still my friends after a few years, we see each other from time to time and are present in my life. I can share things with them that I can't even share with my relatives. There I also met the man with whom we are inseparable and live together, say speeches from our second meeting live. So,

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charmingrubby answered · August 12, 2020

   I want to tell you that it is really possible to meet love on the Internet. That's how I met my great love at 23. It's not bad that watching anime is really loneliness is a nasty thing I know from experience. The fact that you have found friends along your hobby is great but they are not very close which is naughty but the kilometers are not an obstacle when there is a desire.

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realkeithlee answered · August 12, 2020

   There are many lonely people on the net. I had personally found a friend on the net. On your problem - a year a girl met me and I would go to her hometown. It was far from my city. I finally gave up. I couldn't bear to see her once a month, and my pockets would go by bus.

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rer83 answered · August 12, 2020

   I guess your age is between 13-16 and that's how I see it: the Internet was made from the very beginning with one goal! "Communication", so if you're worried about that, there's no need, and as for the boy, I think you're doing the wrong thing! At least for me, love is wanting to be with this person all the time. Squeezing his hand, not wanting to separate from him, feeling helpless and comfortable at the same time, because you know that he is with you and you can't let anything happen to you. But let's say I don't understand in what sense you use "like": D. But once you're sure of what you're saying, there's no point in me giving you a mind. You can't do without communication, we all know that, and I think you're more ashamed of yourself than this boy. You have a class, use it, do not accept them as classmates, but as friends. Every relationship (I don't mean love) is based on sharing. If you have a problem with boys, there is no point in poisoning yourself with thoughts. When a 14-year-old boy behaves sloppily with you, it means that he wants to lift your spirits, which means that he cares about you. Therefore, he wants you to be friends, but maybe he "likes" you too, so be careful with the friendly line! But if he continues to behave slimy, try to touch him somehow. But keep in mind that at this age, puberty makes them too superficial. If you understand me, this means that you are not stupid, you are not stupid, you are just suppressing the beauty in you! So think seriously about the fact that for now you will not feel the lack of friends with whom you can see. But in the future you will have many trials! And that's what a 16-year-old boy with the same interests tells you, but I realized much earlier how I should act! You decide!!! P.S.

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catsmovie answered · August 12, 2020

   Thank you all! And yes, on the issue of class - you could say they are not a bad class, but ... only up to that point. I can't and don't want to be friends with them, because I don't see them as such for me, they just aren't the best way to spend time and without offending any of them personally - everything from our value system to interests is fundamental. different level, so I don't think I have anything to say to my class. And once again, a sincere thank you to all of you! ^. ^ You helped me understand that .... this is not a bad thing and that there are other lonely people who cannot find friends in their immediate environment. :) PS Yes, №5 I turned 13 a few days ago, so you could say you hit. I just prefer people not to draw conclusions just knowing my age. However, in some ways it's just a number,

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collegegradgirl answered · August 13, 2020

   Oh yeah! And also .. (but of course I'll forget to say something, it's so ... in my style!) I don't mean so much the boy when I wrote about the "integral part of life", but rather about "my brother" , with whom we actually have no blood relationship, I just call him that, because he is at least 15 years older than me and he is very close to me after all. ~ RC Stone (Author)

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orange answered · August 13, 2020

   Will it help if I say that I am a 34 year old Anime fan and I found the love of my life on the Internet? We have two wonderful children and we have been together for more than 10 years! True, we were from the same city and we went out together almost every day. On your questions: 1. YES! 2. YES! 3. YES and you will definitely see each other someday. Success!

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chico.alencar answered · August 14, 2020

   I will answer you like this - I have been looking for friends for a long time and even more on the Internet .. I have come across both good and bad people .. I also went on dates (in general it is normal for me, this), but I learned to be careful, because most of them pretend to be what they are not .. I still keep looking for "my own" and I believe that I will find it someday :)

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arabellaquinn answered · August 14, 2020

   Hello. Now I will tell you my story, which is close to yours, but not quite; e. My friend and I met on the Internet (keep in mind that we've been dating for a year and 3 months, but anyway) we met on a website and from there we exchanged Skypes and started 5 months of writing. However, the strange thing was that we are from the same school, our rooms are 2 meters away from each other and we are the same age and at school we did not even greet each other, it is absurd to talk during these 5 months. It was easy on Skype, but I was so ashamed live. So after 5 months of writing we finally saw each other, well what can I tell you, you can judge for yourself more than a year we are together, and we are super happy not to say the most amazing year in my life. Now we see each other at school and everyone knows us, but in the beginning it was really very difficult this shame. So hope, in my opinion, if you really want to be together, you will find a way, even if you do not live so close. There is always a way if you really want to be with someone and you think he is the only one. But a long distance connection is really difficult, but anything is possible still try not to give up. How can you know .. maybe he is the ONLY one !!! Good luck, I hope I helped :)

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you_love_girls answered · August 14, 2020

   Don't worry about attacks ... "death note is a very cool manga, and a great anime, so .. who has the courage to attack you, let him watch it and then he will drop on the carpet only when he sees a notebook .. and .. there are so many people who meet on the internet, there is nothing wrong, (I speak from personal experience)

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thepigdirtycc1 answered · August 15, 2020

   And I met a few girls. We were inseparable. We met on a gaming site and then moved on to an online game that is played all over the world. I was something like a leader of a group of five of us ... But it happened that sometimes we quarreled. A girl stopped entering. My soulmate and I stayed at one point ... Everyone just had tasks. My soulmate was completely different. Well, it changed a little over time but she liked metal, colored hair, tattoos, piercings, smoking. And I ... I hate it all. Despite everything, we were inseparable, but ... We had a serious quarrel with my only girlfriend in real life, who is very far from me. So .. In short, we have already forgotten her, or at least that's how it should be .. I can't explain, but with the other girl, who hardly spoke, she became my new best friend. Before that we gradually shared things from our lives, photos ... And now we are talking to two of the girls on Skype. One girl .. Supposedly my namesake is lying about her name for fear of pedophiles but she shared it with me and so on .. We are already very close. In general, we have plans for the future. I live in Sofia and they live in other cities. This year the two girls will come and we will meet. What we have in common is that we have no friends and we are lonely. Ehh ... except for my 'nickname' who lives in my town but they don't let her see me. She has many friends, but why not our group? This year the two girls will come and we will meet. What we have in common is that we have no friends and we are lonely. Ehh ... except for my 'nickname' who lives in my town but they don't let her see me. She has many friends, but why not our group? This year the two girls will come and we will meet. What we have in common is that we have no friends and we are lonely. Ehh ... except for my 'nickname' who lives in my town but they don't let her see me. She has many friends, but why not our group?

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xxxanderkagemma answered · August 15, 2020

   Look sweetie, my friend and I met on the internet. We saw each other a few times, but we both had serious relationships. When he broke up with him he went to London, then I broke off my serious relationship and so just then he wrote to me. We complained for hours, we saw each other for a long time, but we have been together for two years ... he studies in London, we see each other, we fight often, I admit. But when you love someone, you are forced to trust them, no matter the circumstances. Miles are just something, just a fact. They don't ruin relationships, it's the people who do it. Whether you are separated by a table or a kilometer is the same if you do not trust each other and do not love each other :) Act, do your best and turn your back on stupid stereotypes of ties at a distance, just as you turn your back on those for years :)

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kartkymusic answered · August 15, 2020

   Hey, internet connections have always aroused a lot of interest in me. Somehow people from other countries seem more interesting to me, we talk about different cultures and different topics that I would never talk to a Bulgarian ... So, I had several "relationships" with guys from others. European countries lol but still unsuccessful ... so as I was firmly "FOR" long distance connections, now I think a little. The last time I was on an exchange from school in a country, I met a very nice boy there, with whom we later became very close. When I had to return to BG, it was hellishly difficult to part with him, although he promised me that summer would come to me. A week or two after I came back, we kept writing, but it was really hard for both of us, and he didn't speak English very well. It turned out, that summer will not be able to come to BG because it is very far away. So we would hardly see each other again in the near future, nor could we speak normally because of the different languages. And one night I asked him if he wanted to forget me, and he said yes ... I was very naughty, because I knew that this was the best solution - to forget about each other. It is very difficult and very painful, but there is no other way for now. And for now I'm fed up with internet connections, I prefer a boy from my city .. but I still can't find it: / PS at the end of the year some foreigners will come, whom my girlfriend and I met on the internet and we haven't seen them live ... because I knew it was the best solution — to forget about each other. It is very difficult and very painful, but there is no other way for now. And for now I'm fed up with internet connections, I prefer a boy from my city .. but I still can't find it: / PS at the end of the year some foreigners will come, whom my girlfriend and I met on the internet and we haven't seen them live ... because I knew it was the best solution — to forget about each other. It is very difficult and very painful, but there is no other way for now. And for now I'm fed up with internet connections, I prefer a boy from my city .. but I still can't find it: / PS at the end of the year some foreigners will come, whom my girlfriend and I met on the internet and we haven't seen them live ...