Good morning, good day, good evening ... In fact, it doesn't matter when you read this, but what answer you will give me. Here's the question - Are you weak if you cry? Are you weak if you sympathize? I will always look for answers to these questions. Unfortunately, there is no one to tell me, but you can. You may think that when I ask this I am obviously at a fragile age, but I will disappoint you because I am not. You can say to yourself - family, friends, relatives, acquaintances, don't you have to talk to them about it and get an answer .... Just leave all the questions you want to ask me and answer me. Everyone as he thinks to say. Right, wrong - tell your opinion. Why do I think that all people who define and define themselves as strong and combative do not know what a tear is? Am I wrong? What does it really mean to be strong? Despite everything and everything you do, the thing that you want? To fall and stand up after all the blows in life? Are there two kinds of strong people in life?
Some to be strong and not cry, and others to be strong but to cry? And what is it like to be weak? Are you weak if you cry? Are you weak if sometimes you really want to cry and do it because you know it will make you feel better? Is this a weakness? Do the strong hold back their tears? Are the strong mentally healthy? And the weak mentally unstable? Am I the only one who considers myself a strong person who cries, but at the same time weak because he is crying? I understand that every person on earth is crying for something ... It was a problem in the family, work, love, life in general and many things in general. But there are those who hold back their tears because something stops them. When do you, as human beings, cry? Immediately, when you are hurt or waiting to be alone with yourself and cry? Are you strong, are you weak? Or are you both?
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In the Iliad, Achilles roars like a donkey, and is the strongest champion of the Greeks. Mega strong and invincible in battle. A ferocious killing machine. Greece's greatest warrior. But he is also a man and cries for his cousin and for Brezeida. And you hold her a little. Drink a brandy and have fun. Who ate - ate. Who roared - roared. Life goes on.
Good morning, author, I will still ask you, although you do not want questions, why did you abandon your previous topic, you could keep crying in it, there was no need to write a new one.
I think you're weak if you cry. Mentally weak, with a labile psyche. If a man cries in front of me ... consider him written off.
Strong, weak - just words. In one situation you are strong, in another - weak.
Everyone is crying! It doesn't matter if he is a man or a woman, or if he is mentally strong or not. Even if you are terribly tough - you still cry sometimes. I can even tell you that holding back emotion is bad. Most people cry sometimes, but only when they are alone. In order not to show that they are vulnerable.
I haven't cried in 14 years. I don't think we should give in to our emotions.
You cry until a moment when the hardships in life break them to such an extent that there is no room for tears. Number 2 is very right "Who ate - ate. Who cried - cried. Life goes on"
Tears are not a weakness. Everyone cries sometimes because it feels bad, sucks, we can never cry.
2 - Well, yes, but the Greeks, you know they are a little softer ...
I think that even strong people cry or their eyes do not close at certain moments! In both cases they are strong, because we are not talking here about roaring hunters. It takes courage to show your emotions!
Crying is a natural reaction of the body to the creation of a new neural network in the brain. That is, every time something new happens to us for which we have no emotional knowledge, we want to cry. I wasn't a good student of biology to say if it had anything to do with the parasympathetic system in humans. But yes, it's like being pissed off when you're scared. In case of emotional shock, some fluid must come out of the body. If this natural process is suppressed, "because it was not male," the new neural network will not form. That is, we will remain dumb for life. A bit like sheep. Otherwise we will roar, roar until one day the network is formed. And we will emotionally overcome the problem. Moreover, the new network will be the basis for the formation of another of a similar kind, which means that the next time we have a similar problem, we will overcome it more easily. That is why some people are "stronger" than others. Their minds are full of "life experience" precisely because they have cried. Others do not witness when the strong one cried, they do not know what he went through. They just take it for granted and take it as an example that one should not cry, because as such they know him - not crying. Everyone has to go their own way in life. Everyone has to go through tons of tears. Not crying is a result, not a goal Everyone has to go through tons of tears. Not crying is a result, not an end Everyone has to go through tons of tears. Not crying is a result, not a goal
I am extremely strong both physically and mentally, a young man of 23, and I have eaten a fight, and I have cried, and I have shaken and broken, and I have been drunk with anger, with grief, and I have fallen on my knees before a woman, and I have climbed into mud, and I wanted to kill myself, I'm just a normal person. I have not hidden my anger or my tears and I do not consider it shameful, we are not insensitive robots and it is better to pour everything out than to accumulate in yourself and become a psychopath or a closed temerut! These emotions are given to us not to damage our psyche!
This is nonsense - weak and strong. There are understood and misunderstood. I am often criticized when I please the men I am with - they were stronger in character than I was and therefore were subject to my will. I tell them that I want them to feel good and that in this case I have contributed to it, it makes me happy too. They often do not understand what I want to tell them and the topic deepens how I was a fool, etc. and for me love and human relationships are not a game of weak and strong. It comes to me sometimes and I cry and it passes and I forget. I don't see anything wrong. I have experienced a lot of things that have left their mark on me. I roared, I asked myself the question "why", but somehow my will did not break. You know I was 14 when my mother sent me to ask for food from a grandmother, who was a distant relative of ours and was a neighbor of a boy in my class. The grandmother praised the boy's mother for the good deed she had done, you know how gossip is spread everywhere and so the boy found out and then see at school what happened. And I've gone shopping for a version countless times. I will not bore you with my stories that they are many, but I have always believed and found something to cling to and bring me comfort, hope and joy to continue living. Tears have always been my companion and somehow medicine after them I look at things differently I will not bore you with my stories that they are many, but I have always believed and found something to cling to and bring me comfort, hope and joy to continue living. Tears have always been my companion and somehow medicine after them I look at things differently I will not bore you with my stories that they are many, but I have always believed and found something to cling to and bring me comfort, hope and joy to continue living. Tears have always been my companion and somehow medicine after them I look at things differently
And men cry, but usually not in front of others, but at home, for example in the shower, in bed, precisely because of the taboo. Otherwise, women cry more often in public.
No, it's a sign that you're not emotionally empty. It is a sign that you are human.