Hello! I want to ask you for your opinion on something I have been thinking for some time. My friend is great, I have no complaints, we live together and we get along well, but it seems to me that as for young people at 28-9 we go out too little. In general, we both work during the week until around 6-7 and maybe that's why we only go out on the weekends. Usually it is only on Saturdays and always in the city. I can't get him on a bus (we don't have a car recently, but we haven't gone before) and we are usually out of town no more than twice a year. Even if he leaves him alone for the weekend, he doesn't go out anywhere, and otherwise he's not a lazy man, on the contrary, he obviously just doesn't like going out. It doesn't stop me from going out. What worries me is not that we don't go out, but whether he won't get bored with me after a while from this so-called regime we have. Is it normal for a young man to go out so rarely? Not only with me but in general? And doesn't that kill some of the thrill in the relationship? Otherwise we have sex every day, we are constantly glued to each other, we do not fight for anything, but I really care about him and I want him to be interesting with me, not bored. I raise the issue of going somewhere for the weekend a few times, but he always finds an argument against it.
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1. And if he goes out alone, there may be another who knows. 2. He may be tired and the boy may not like it. 3. He may not feel good about you, or he may be ashamed of something. You better ask him in person.
You seem to be worried that he won't be bored, but you want to make him go out even though he doesn't want to? I think you should be careful not to annoy him.
To the author: I am 35, from Varna, there were rainy days this summer, but after the weather improved, especially after the first half of August-15. 08 is Varna Day, there are various cultural events - ceremonies, concerts, competitions, fireworks! This time there was no concert at the port, no fireworks, because of the dead children! But on the stage "Rakovina", which is not far from FC "Varna", folklore, classical and children's concerts are held, and choirs for old city songs are sung! The concerts last a maximum of 1 hour, sometimes longer! And my hobby is not only to go to these events, but also to photograph them with a camera to remember them! On September 22, a historic reconstruction was held in the Asparuhovo district, where all participants fought, recreating the battles that marked the Independence of Bulgaria! There were children, parents and retirees! We all watched in amazement! Spears were thrown, bows were fired, horses were galloped, swords were fought, and the most exciting thing was that when they fought with swords, one knocked down the other without injuring him, that is, narrowly! There were also rifles, pistols from Turkish times, which were loaded with gunpowder, there were also paratroopers who descended from a helicopter and landed successfully! Then there was a children's concert! And the TV was there, but it only shot the footage to do the evening news reports! It's one thing to see just a few shots on TV, it's quite another to experience it live! And on November 1 there was a folklore concert on the occasion of the Day of the People's Awakeners, held in the "Congress" Hall in DKS - "Varna", and the host was Plamen Georgiev! The first two performances played by the bagpipe group were "Where are you true, you, folk love? "and" Wind howls, Balkan moans! "I was most impressed, and the audience applauded the bagpipers! Only I did not applaud because I worked with the camera! There was a photographer, but only I filmed the whole concert, and the hall was almost full! And your friend does not know what he misses! I don't go to those "fox shops" and I'm not interested, the concerts are something else, you just have to go earlier! And why your friend doesn't go anywhere, I don't know! I don't go now, the weather is cold, the concerts continue next year, in the spring! And your friend doesn't know what he's missing! I don't go to those "fox shops" and I'm not interested, concerts are something else, you just have to go earlier! And why doesn't your friend go anywhere, I don't know! I still don't go, the weather has become cold, the concerts continue next year, in the spring! And your friend doesn't know what he's missing! I don't go to those "fox shops" and I'm not interested, concerts are something else, you just have to go earlier! And why doesn't your friend go anywhere, I don't know! I still don't go, the weather has become cold, the concerts continue next year, in the spring!
Some are like that. I am a man of 25. I left my job 2 months ago and since then I have gone out exactly 4 times - to shop and see a doctor.
29 years is not so young ... Stop reading so many women's magazines that show grandmothers with plastic surgery at 50 and claim that they looked wonderful. You are at the age at which most stable couples think of children. About 30 is the critical time for this issue, but obviously you are still interested in discos ...
Domoshar! If they tell me so in my eyes, should I take offense? How do you define a person with this word? That a lot of men (and I too) love the comfort of home. Trying to make our lives easier and more enjoyable under the roof of your home. I also don't like this way of life. All week to push for some colorful papers and finally a large part of them to give them as gifts for two meatballs and a little alfalfa in a place where no one recognizes me and everyone shakes like a baboon surrounded by others like it. As far as I understand you are left without a car. Why? Why don't you organize things for a walk to a chosen place. Taxis, bus tickets, money for the trip, here a fee - there a fee, then back and see something fast for dinner. Personally, I feel most comfortable at home. I know that I have everything there and my soul is at peace. And I'm a homemaker!
It's nice if you really think about him, but as someone said, try not to bother him. There can be many reasons why he does not want to go out. I have been like that too, and in most cases I prefer to stay at home, to rest. I guess the person is responsible, and nowadays one has to be very careful how he plans his days, given the "stable" life in Bulgaria. Maybe that's the reason. It is best to talk to him openly, wait for him to be in high spirits and ask him openly. I am a man and for me this is the way, I hope it will work for you as well. Otherwise, I was in his place, but I didn't want to because I was paying my borchos at the time, and we were literally on the verge of losing our balance. He may also have some difficulties. Talk to him best. And as they said above - orient yourself to the more serious, as long as you blink! Good luck
It depends on what is meant by going out. I'm 36 and when I turned 28-29, somehow I started not going out to clubs and discos. I've never been one of those people who goes out to the same places every week, simply because others do. By the way, I really like to drink coffee with friends and travel when I have time. I also like to stay at home, but I can hardly spend a whole day unless I am busy with something more serious.