Cheers! 3/4 months ago a Skype man found me. We met, we wrote things together. At first I didn't pay attention to him, I didn't always respond to his messages. But in time we met and he offered me to go and live with him in Germany, he said he was dealing with customs documents at the age of 35 and I was 19. He said he would find me a job, he would teach me the language, but I'm afraid he's not a pimp. At the beginning of September he will come to Bulgaria in 4-5 days and we will see each other. I told him about my worries and he said he understood me and it was perfectly normal. Please give me advice, what should I do, do you think he is a pimp? I am too young and lifelong, so I want advice from you. Thanks in advance, your answers will help me a lot.
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Think about why you. I think you must be beautiful and have a nice body. These are the ones that are most in demand, and on top of that you took the bait. Run away from him. I can't understand the female psyche - they throw some dust in your eyes, take down a few stars and you are ready to fry like fish
He is very likely a pimp. If you were at least older, it wouldn't be so suspicious. What exactly did he do? What customs documents? Only the customs in Germany deals with this, I don't believe that a Bulgarian was hired to work there. If you still want to take a risk - say that you first want to learn the language in our country. Once you have reached at least some intermediate level, you will be able to defend yourself, to turn to the authorities. Pimps always choose young girls from the countryside who do not know the language, it is best not to know English. If you do not know English - perfect for him. If you still decide to throw yourself into the cold water, at least activate your roaming, bring at least two roaming phones - if they take one from you, have another, get a passport without saying - if they take your ID card to have a document, as a last resort - bring a copy of your documents to a secret place, ask where exactly is the nearest Bulgarian consulate or embassy, write down your address and phone number in a secret place and have at least 200 euros in your pocket - you can always run out on the street and to catch a taxi to get there. If there is no Bulgarian consulate in the city, look for a Bulgarian church, police. If you get completely lost there, you don't know the language, nothing - hide in a Catholic or evangelical church and don't leave. There are often churches, you just knock on the administration door or get stuck on a bench and wait until they find you. They have a duty to help you and they will certainly do so. Trust the police and the citizens - in need knock on doors, windows, they will call the police and save you. If there is a hospital nearby - you can make a fuss there too. I refuse to dissuade you, I am convinced that some people need some and another lesson in life, but with the above practical tips you can survive if you are cunning. Otherwise - you may like it, every prostitute was once a 19-year-old girl in love with a pimp Good luck!
by: The author I apologize in some places there are spelling mistakes, but I'm very tense
What if I sent him pictures and he said that I was very beautiful even the other day he asked me if I hadn't been photographed recently, and when I asked him he sent me one that is in profile and his face is not visible.
FROM: The author I told him that I know a little English, and he said that I have free time to study it so that I can find a better job
He will teach you the language. It will teach you so well that it will open your mouth from practicing "workplace"! He is 35, you are 19, a young bunny ... He will wash you steadily, you will see what documents he is dealing with ... You will leave just in time for the "autumn-winter" season. People, are you so naive? ! ?? Stay on your ass, write down to learn something. The Bundespublic will not escape.
I think he wants a family. A woman to take care of the household, to wash it, to clean and cook it, regular sex, a child after a while. Apparently he does not move in such circles to make love to a woman and for that he chooses the easier way - internet dating. He thinks it will be easy for him, that he will be a kind of benefactor to you. You manage not to be miserable in Bulgaria, a home offers you a job ... you have to be grateful to him and repay him when you become his wife
Insist on seeing him and talking to him on Skype. Take pictures with his camera. Tell him that if he's serious he won't mind showing his ID card, you can take a picture of it with the camera. Then tell him that in order to insure yourself, you did all this and you will show your photos to be informed who you will go to. My friend did something similar when she went to France to see a man. Otherwise, don't even think about doing it like that, it's not credulity, it borders on stupidity.
What makes a 19-year-old girl deal with a 35-year-old she hasn't even seen in her life? !! There are all kinds of freaks and freaks on the Internet, especially in today's global world. Drop this one right away and find some decent young boy your age. You will say that there are no men left on earth. This man seems extremely dangerous to me. Don't give him any more information, break any connection with him. He will find you and I don't know what he will do to you. You are extremely naive. If you believe such things, then tomorrow someone will lie to you to give him your credit card number, then you will wonder what to do. From 20 years old
from: The lawyer he told me that if I decided to go to him he would show me the website of his company there I could find out everything about him, he also told me about a program in Germany for married couples with children, that is, he hinted at something
Is he a pimp you ask? Um, sorry, the crystal ball that predicts my future is currently being repaired ...
Why is your English for work in Germany was a girl think about it. Apart from talking to foreigners in Germany in a brothel, why do most ordinary Germans care about you, they don't know English and they don't need it in Germany.
NUMBER 7 AND 8 THANK YOU
The girl also wanted an easy life, she thinks she accidentally hit the jackpot and will arrange her life abroad ... ARE YOU REALLY SO NAIVE ?? I can't believe you're 19! From set 91-2 upwards you really don't stand for anything! How can you tie yourself to someone with half a profile picture ... Tt-tt-tt. And what do you feel about him that you want to leave so much? Or is it really just because of life abroad ...: / Naughty Bear
Author, do not be in a hurry to thank and rejoice. The assumption of number 7 cannot be true, because such men are not looking for 19-year-old girls, but women over 25, with education, language, ready for a family. Number 8 doesn't help you either. Everyone, even the biggest pimp, has a face and a skype. I even guess it will look good, very good. This is part of the pacifier. And killers rarely look like that, do they? You take some 200-300 euros for the return trip, write down your important addresses, get your phones and documents and you will be grateful to me. Don't be ashamed of the police either - pimping is forbidden there, prostitution is NOT and they won't do anything to you, they will only help you get home. In principle, you can trust some of your clients, but that's why they don't need girls with tongues. It's a complicated job to get out once, but act,
15, you comment on me very unprepared, I'm 8. And the biggest pimp will shit in his pants when you know his identity - name, address, photo, etc. No one will put their head in the bag just like that. The sentences are big, and they are cowardly mice.
From the 6th. Number 1 and number 2/15 are the most sober-minded here. They analyzed the situation in depth and breadth. 2/15 has also given irreplaceable advice. Listen to me. I will give a slightly lame example - I have been living abroad for a long time. A few years ago I invited a friend to visit here. He didn't know the language, he didn't know the situation, with little money. She was completely dependent on me for seven days. Okay. Imagine an unknown city in DE, you have no money because it is "there was no need". Your customs "friend" wants the passport. k. to make a photocopy for address registration, for example. And hop - without a passport ... Don't go on.
FROM: THE AUTHOR I DON'T KNOW I'M COMPLETELY CONFUSED ...
Hello author, I'm 24 and I would advise you from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE to immediately get rid of this, let alone go anywhere. , abe all the best, and I was deceived not by the money but by the way he manipulated me and only on the Internet for almost 2 years without seeing each other live because he never showed up. It later turned out that he had invented another identity and introduced himself as another person. The story is very long and my thought was not to trust at all because I only had one photo that turned out not to be him. MAKE YOUR OWN CONCLUSION.
16, and you're very naive. Pimps, especially international ones, regularly cross borders, police checks, and what not, don't you think he'll be startled that some bitch will know his name? If necessary, he will have obtained the necessary false documents, the death toll may be for each prostitute with a different name ... Don't expose yourself like that.
From: the author I don't know, I'm very confused, obviously, as they said above, I'm tempted for an "ideal" life. I just don't know what to do, I don't want to stay here, but I also don't want to become a prostitute, I'm very sensitive, I won't stand it if they lie to me. I'm thinking of writing him some things, if he can somehow betray himself, if so .... at least to find out in time
As long as most girls volunteer for this profession. Gone are the days of stealing them and whatnot. If the author has at least a little mind in her head, she will prepare things. Make a red passport and listen to the commenters above. Ask which city you will be in and so on.
To the author. I can't understand what exactly you imagine under, "ideal" life? Do you want to settle with a rich husband to take care of you? Isn't it better to set some ambitious goals than to graduate from university and to find a job instead of trusting various strangers on the Internet? This will make you an independent and strong woman.
To the author. I advise you to just get him out of your life, not write to him. This man will not betray. He will keep promising you exactly what you want to hear.
FROM: the author made another skype and I will write to him
From 23. I can't understand you. How do you imagine life with such a man? Do you want marriage on account? He should provide everything for you, but at the same time be completely dependent on him and probably not love him, all in the name of wealth and money. You will be as simple as a device in his hands, in time he may throw you out. Such a person may touch you, you have nothing to do. However, if he really takes you out of his life, you stay on the street, you will have no choice but to obey him. If you are so eager to get your life in order, find another way, not some imaginary and empty promises. He finished his education, looked for a job, found a decent man.
Don't write to him from another skype - he will understand you. They are thugs. Read the shared -I was a prostitute-part 1, it was posted soon after your post. There is a lot, but a very accurate and realistic description of how things happen. They have given you so much advice. Kick him until it's too late and things haven't gotten more serious
Oh, it's the funniest thing for me to push cucumbers like a cucumber grower, but I'll stop here :) from 8
From: the author if I read this a while ago, I will think things through very well and decide what to do thank you all for the advice
It is better not to be attached to such uncles who are looking for young girls, and I was like that before and I lied easily, don't get caught girl! You will ruin your life
There is nothing to think about, it is more than clear that he is a pimp. How can you trust? Do you know what happened to me on Skype? One was angry that I didn't show up on camera, then started threatening to find me (unfortunately I told him where I was from before), I'm as naive as you are. He told me "look, you are very beautiful (he had also seen my photo) and if you don't want your family to forget your face, you will show yourself on camera" and other threats and I let her go, he saw me, he also showed up and What happened next? He wanted to look at my tits for 5 minutes, can you imagine ?, I literally went crazy, I blocked him. He found me again one night under another name on Skype and threatened me again and wrote that he was currently abroad and there were 15 more girls , and when he returned to Bulgaria he would find me and kidnap me, so it would have been better if I showed up on my tits, I blocked him again, since then, thank God he hasn't found me and believe me he may have pretended to be a pimp in order to undress, but I was scared the hell out and since then with such unknown and dubious types, especially foreigners do not deal. You better not do it, it will not lead to anything good, do not be naive.
Author, you are a young, healthy girl (obviously you are also beautiful). Life is in front of you, how can such thoughts even cross your mind ??? These people are very good psychologists, he knows exactly what to tell you and do to bond with him. In the best case, it's just some psycho-antisocial person who can't catch a girlfriend in a normal way and has started to deceive you on the Internet with his fictional photo and profile ... You go there, you become his wife, dependent only on him , you have no job, (he is hardly rich by the way!), a maid and a bitch for him - completely free. Your ideal life is shaped by slave labor and humiliation, for a person you do not love. How will you raise children in this family environment? How are you going to build a family with him at all? In the middle version, he also subjects you to domestic violence or is a psychopath who kills you! And in the worst (which seems to be the real one) it turns out to be a simple pimp and from then on the story is clear if you live to be 25 at all ... And just a little simple math - when you're 25, he will be 51 years old :) congratulations! KJ
Think about why you will look for young girls from a poor country? Because he knows they're more likely to get caught. I think it's obvious what he's looking for. Don't hesitate any longer, cut this one. You risk a lot when you can't even speak English fluently. In many western and northern countries, in addition to the local language, English is also spoken, and it would be quite difficult to get away with this minimal knowledge. As they said above, you can't find a Bulgarian man so much that you catch up with the first foreigner. I don't know why you think that being a foreigner is more decent and different. I don't spit on other nations, I'm just saying that you can come across a person who will disappoint you a lot. And such a completely material life and marriage would sooner or later bore you (albeit insecure), you will understand that money is not everything. Girl at 16
I just can not believe it. 19 is a serious age, how can 19-year-olds be flattered by the attention they get from some Skype attraction - to the point of imagining that they are princesses. The princess sits and hops, the prince finds her! And the prince, in order to find her, consider what digging and searching has fallen. A 35-year-old prince who has had the internet for at least 10 years. And he has just lost hope, searched all the small and large countries in a row, rejected all the unsuitable ones - and suddenly at the end of his days he finds such a jewel. What did she shine with so much that he suddenly stopped looking for something else and grabbed her? ... She must, unlike other beauties, have 2 pairs of breasts or Hollywood fame, and maybe she has spiritual beauty, something that no other young girl has, and she likes so much ... And how could she not be dizzy with so much happiness? At the same time, the competition has hit the ground and a new life awaits it. This is the big jackpot with the mysterious customs officer photographed in profile.
This job smells something to me. It is very likely that he is a trafficker of people and in this world of violence, drugs and humiliation you do not want to fall TRUST ME!
This is a complete scam! You will feel sorry for the bitter girl. Don't be greedy for an easy life - there is no free lunch. It is better to immediately stop any contact with him, should you be so superficial - at 19 people should be much more serious. If you have a little noose in your head, and it probably is at the expense of your good looks - use it properly!
Number 15 I'm 7. Hardly a man of 35, whose lameness is something her appearance, her communication with women do you know how much he sleeps whether this woman who will roll up to be with him whether there is a primary, secondary and at all some education. This is great snobbery. He has planned something for some financial benefits or relief, I don't know, and the author says "he also told me about a program in Germany for married couples with children" Author, I would not agree to such a thing. I prefer to be miserable in Bulgaria, is money and the supposedly easy life so important for you?
From: the author no, they are not important, but .... he obviously charmed me with his words, I don't know .... but obviously I won't deal with him, it's not worth it, he's still 35, and I'm not 19 is less striking
Author, the years are really quite, but in this case this man is not a commodity and we tell you all here do not worry, it is better to be poorer than to suffer all your life do not trust all this is VERY doubtful, you are still small and you are trusting, but DO NOT be bound by the lies of this one, just DO NOT !!!