Hello! Girl, I'm almost 16. I thought and decided to share my story. We have had new classmates since last year and I fell in love with one. But I didn't just fall in love, he challenged me. He was constantly teasing me, complimenting me, protecting me, and even when another boy was by my side, always jealous. In short, we both fell in love and our love is unrequited, but he constantly hints to me that I am the only one for him and that he has feelings for me. I have noticed that of all the girls in the class, she treats me the most. Many of our classmates began to bask around and notice the attraction between us ... This year is the same. Again jokes, kind words and constant eye-catching during the hours. I was even alone once and he asked if he could sit next to me and I let him, but we didn't talk, because we're both ashamed, we just exchanged a few words and when we looked at each other we were both embarrassed, but still it's love. He can be said to be one of the most famous boys in school.
He also has great self-confidence, which irritates me a lot. What bothers me is that in the next 2 weeks he talks about other girls in front of me with the boys, and even hangs out with others in front of me, which makes me very nervous. I admit that I'm very jealous, but what he does makes me wonder if he likes me or if I'm just another toy, because he thinks he can have any girl he wants. If he was in love with me, he wouldn't do that, because he wouldn't want me to think he didn't like me, and he wouldn't want to hurt me, because that's how he kills my feelings and ruins my whole day. But on the other hand, we're not boyfriends, not to talk about other girls and not to hang out with them. Maybe I'm really the only one for him, but this fact doesn't stop him from flirting with others even in front of me, maybe he wants to irritate me and see what my reaction will be, to find out if I like him too, because I did it. One of the biggest problems is that he also started talking to me about sex, which makes me realize that he just wants to use me. I don't know, he's a boy after all and he can't help but think about such things, but these days it's too much. I'm very confused, please give me advice on whether he likes me or is just another heartbreaker and not worth suffering for.
Thanks to those who have read it and will advise me! :) but that fact doesn't stop him from flirting with others, even in front of me, maybe he wants to annoy me and see what my reaction will be, to see if I like him too because I've done that too. One of the biggest problems is that he also started talking to me about sex, which makes me realize that he just wants to use me. I don't know, he's a boy after all and he can't help but think about such things, but these days it's too much. I'm very confused, please give me advice on whether he likes me or is just another heartbreaker and not worth suffering for. Thanks to those who have read it and will advise me! :) but that fact doesn't stop him from flirting with others, even in front of me, maybe he wants to annoy me and see what my reaction will be, to see if I like him too because I've done that too. One of the biggest problems is that he also started talking to me about sex, which makes me realize that he just wants to use me.
I don't know, he's a boy after all and he can't help but think about such things, but these days it's too much. I'm very confused, please give me advice on whether he likes me or is just another heartbreaker and not worth suffering for. Thanks to those who have read it and will advise me! :) that he just wants to use me. I don't know, he's a boy after all and he can't help but think about such things, but these days it's too much. I'm very confused, please give me advice on whether he likes me or is just another heartbreaker and not worth suffering for.
Thanks to those who have read it and will advise me! :) that he just wants to use me. I don't know, he's a boy after all, and he can't help but think about things like that, but these days it's too much. I'm very confused, please give me advice on whether he likes me or is just another heartbreaker and not worth suffering for. Thanks to those who have read it and will advise me! :)
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I'm a boy and to tell you the truth, and he does everything to make you jealous;) (my opinion) :) don't be annoyed that he flirts with girls, this is constant with boys, but it doesn't always mean that he likes them :) you tell him something that you love him, talk in private .. :) I hope I helped :)
Thanks, dude! :)
no and I know they are written separately; otherwise on the topic .. I think he wants to make you jealous and actually likes you [although, personally I think these are stupid games, but come on; e]
Thanks for the opinion. Well, thanks for the remark about "I don't know" and nothing personal, but when you write it starts with a capital letter. ;)
Girl, you're obviously very much in love, but you have to work on it. He talks and hangs out with other girls, maybe to make you jealous, and it seems to work, but talking about sex is normal, because he's a boy after all, and all boys get excited about it. Maybe he likes you very much, but maybe he just likes to look at each other and not be tied down. I advise you to tell him this: Listen, I've liked you for a year and a half now, I can't stand just smiles and two words. You've already started talking about other girls, and that annoys me. I want to be together, and you? I can't stand it anymore, I love you very much and hug him (tell him live). I hope I helped you, but I advise you not to leave things like that.
It will be very difficult for me, I don't know. Basically, the boys are taking the step, and there just wasn't a good time to do it, but he made a lot of hints to me. I will climb a little. Thank you.
There is a difference between liking, sexual attraction and love. Everyone shows their feelings differently. I think he certainly likes you and you attract him sexually BUT I'm not sure he takes you seriously. Even if you become boyfriends, it won't be long, no matter how far things go. Unfortunately, he is of the "spoiled mother's son" type and you will quickly get bored of him. My advice is to get him out of your head, because then it will hurt you a lot more and he will not care or delicately start playing with him, showing him today that you are in love and he has won the front, and tomorrow you behave cool and cold with him as if you don't care. So he will wonder what is going on and will be intrigued to see if he will achieve his goal. Sometimes these guys love until they reach their goal and then lose interest. He can start with such a game to see if he will succeed, but that does not bother you. Only if he falls in love with you then he will try to take the first step. And don't think he's ashamed, this type of boy is not ashamed. He didn't offer you to be together because he doesn't want you for a serious relationship, it's more fun for him to flirt with different girls, and if you're jealous, you'll find it easier to fall into his trap. Your goal is for him to fall into your trap if you decide to keep doing it. And this will happen when you notice that you are losing interest in him. And you pretend to be inaccessible and as soon as you notice that he is withdrawing, turn around him until you attract his attention and then withdraw again, so you will maintain his interest and pretend that you don't care when he tries to irritate you. Let him sweat a lot while he chases you and decide whether to take you seriously. If he gives up, then he doesn't deserve you. and again I tell you to get serious between you this type of guys don't linger long with one relationship. Think twice before taking action. Success!
I think he likes you, but show him the same. :)
I'm a 13 girl. A boy has been taking me down for a long time, he has told me that he is interested in me, that he loves me and he takes me down, but how can I tell you that he knows that I like him, but this has been going on for 4 months, why hasn't he offered me yet? And flirting with my best friend is to make me jealous, isn't it? What to do?
Dear author of the text above, Boys really regularly think about sex. What does it mean for this type of boys not to stay in one place for a long time? I understood very well what number 8 meant. Today he loves one, a week later he flirts with another, and the abandoned girl cries in front of the TV for a whole month. Yes but no. We girls can also be cruel in love. The author says that she also made him jealous. He may pretend to be tough and doesn't care when he's dumped, but I know from experience that the boy then treats the girl badly because it hurts. And boys are people. Keep up the game. What does it mean he thinks any girl can have? Exactly you cannot be there. At least he can't until he deserves you. You will play his game when he grins at you and pays more attention to you, you will respond with the same, but when he flirts with other girls you will see if he looks at you. If he does, he wants you to be jealous of him. Then you will flirt with other guys. He needs to understand that he can't hold you by the neck with a rope. What are these games? And we girls can do that! ;) The little friend
Thanks number 11! That's right :)