So I start directly with the problem that is related to my question. I am 18 and recently a boy and I are discussing the idea of sleeping together. Just sex. Eventually, something may happen between us later in time. It depends on how things develop. My problem is that I don't think I'm the type of girl who can only be satisfied with sex. I admit that I am tempted by the idea, the boy can be said to be attracted to me, I can communicate with him. How would you define such a relationship? Did you do it? I personally know what I will do, but I would like to hear other opinions.
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Hello! I've had a similar relationship, in fact I still have. Personally, I wouldn't believe it if he told me that one day we might think about something more, especially since we've already done so. If you accept, I don't think you really expect anything more than sex. Especially if you respond to him every time he asks you to see it. F19
What does it matter what others do, especially since you've already figured out what you're going to do?
I did it, but if you have hopes for something more serious, don't get involved! The chance of something happening is small. It's one thing to want to get to know you, to fall in love with your character, it's another to have sex and leave. The last time I had such a relationship was with a very nice man who I definitely didn't like and didn't want for a relationship. It all lasted about 5 months. Then he lived with a woman, I stopped seeing him and then, I met another man. The point is that you can have sex anywhere, but in these relationships you are rarely seen as a serious partner. Apparently he gave you hope that something could happen and you obviously have sympathy. Think hard, but make sure you don't get hurt in the end. There is no shame in saying "I'm not for one sex, I can give a lot more"!
I in your place would not have a bad opinion of you after that
I didn't do it, but I had such an offer when I was 18 years old. I refused, even though I was attracted to the boy. The reason was that I was hoping for much more than just sex and I knew that such a relationship would hurt me in time. In general, I do not mind these relationships, but they are not for me, this is for people who will not make a movie and want more than sex. For others, it's a masochistic pastime with an almost clear ending.
Don't do it, you will fall in love ... and you will be angry only with yourself. Do not sleep with him, and it is bad to use you only for sex. Catch a normal boy ... and those who are only looking for sex are full of those, unfortunately. You realized that you are not like that, girl, don't become a whore. Men want easy sex, and when we give it to them we become whores. The boy is not serious, he just wants easy sex, get rid of him.
I definitely say It's not a Good Idea Sex without feelings will become nothing special and you will not feel like sleeping with half of your colleagues just for sports because that's how you started and sex has no value for you.
This "intimate trade" is actually a very ugly thing. What is this mass bargain "sex and then if it happens". And what is not "if sex happens then" - what do you think? This sex became easier than going to buy a pie. Most only seek and offer only that, in fact, themselves. That way, no one will like you for yourself, but only for sex with you. Think carefully about what you want, not what someone wants there. Because someone will not be next to you after you are full in the sexual aspect, dare
Well, if you want to do it, but keep in mind that it will change its opinion of you and you will go into the category of "Easy", if you understand me. Another issue is that you have to get to know him well, because if he talks afterwards, more friends ... you remember)) Victor 420
Well, darling, if you're more in love, don't. After my long relationship of 3, 4 years with my ex, now I have a girlfriend with whom we have a thrill and similar emotions and relationships. Honestly, she is beautiful, in sex I have not yet shown her what I am capable of, I lick her more and in general after 400 times sex with my ex is very difficult with a new one. The problem is that I'm starting to take her more and more seriously because I like her and she doesn't. I will play this game while I can, I will try not to film, not to be jealous, because when I was in a relationship a lot of problems came from my jealousy. I re-educate myself, I live day by day and whatever happens. However, a lot of girls write to me, I don't know, but lately it's scary and I cut them, I tell them that I'm dating a girl, and she cuts them, sends me chats, but nowhere does she say that she goes out with a boy.