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Is It Done To A Player Or Is It Wrong?

By dave_the_pirate September 17, 2020 11 answers Last updated September 17, 2020

Hello. Here is my story and case that is bothering me. At the beginning of the year, a boy wrote to me, I answered him and we started communicating. I thought he was a nice person to talk to. We wrote to each other for about a month, after which we decided to see each other. We went for a walk in a park, we talked and it went well. Then we decided to go to the movies, we went ... nothing happened there during the first 30-40 minutes of the movie, I only saw the phone light up, obviously waiting for a message or I don't know ... Before the movie started, he decided to comment on the blouse with which I was. A normal blouse is not very expensive, but I like it with a woman's print ... he decided to ask a lot. stupid question for me, namely, "isn't this some folk singer" he asked me with a sneer ... I just said it's not a model. It affected me a little ... we left, he took me home, we talked a little and I went home. I thought he would not write to me, but he did not answer the next day, which makes me happy, but from that day until today he answers every 2 to 10 hours, during which I got tired and stopped writing to him. It's been 1m and he writes to me Hey how are you, I answered him again he was writing slowly again I stopped writing to him. After another 2-3 months he wrote to me again, hey, how did nothing happen, as if I answered him and our chat stopped by, bye. This time he answered. we wrote a little to each other, giving me some answers, he is a super big man with money, a car and his career, he is a king ... a very big ego. I stopped writing to him again ...

After 2 months. I decided to write to him ... again as if nothing had happened and we did not argue to write to each other ... from there he no longer read me the last message. and did not answer. After another 1m I posted a picture and still nothing happened, he wrote to me. We started again ... Responding at 10 o'clock literally, when I said that with these slow responses it kills any desire to communicate with him. He justified himself by saying that he didn't look at the phone and couldn't at work (he is at work 24/7 at work) how he wanted to leave and I told him some kind of advice as a friendly advice if he didn't like to leave and change it ... he told me answered after TWO DAYS. He apologizes for the slow answer, but at least his car is broken and he goes on the flight and at 8 he leaves and at 11 he comes home it was hell and if I want the end of the week to see him explain to me .... WTF you will say that 1 hour with a flight she doesn't dig into her phone to be yes and she doesn't have 2 minutes to answer. In your opinion, what should I think ... there is no point in pretending, he is not serious and I think ... I don't think I can answer him. of the last message.

Answers 11

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queeny_sens answered · September 17, 2020

   Well, you're just wasting your time, obviously, you're very stupid.

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hyana_k answered · September 17, 2020

   АхахАХАХаххааххА .... his dick is through the one in his pocket, chick. When a person wants to talk to someone ... there is no power in this world to stop him. I wrote while I was at a disco, while I was at the cinema, while driving (which is not commendable, but as it is stronger than the feeling of self-preservation) ... so ... they said the wise people ... is there a desire - there is a way ... is there no desire ... only excuses! It is so true that it is not true. Stop dealing with him. Brother.

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666queen answered · September 17, 2020

   Absolutely frivolous man who doesn't care about you. If you agree to such a windy relationship, continue to communicate, for sex will wind up.

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we_and_us answered · September 17, 2020

   He has a 100% girlfriend. A few years ago, I lost enough time with such a schizophrenic guy. Thinking that he obviously doesn't like me or I'm not interested in him. Naturally, I was told that he was single and suffered dearly to his ex. Is his ex, she did not turn out to be an ex. ;)

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stayjerking answered · September 17, 2020

   You are 10, I don't know another impression, at one time women were not like that, what happens to you with these social networks is not clear. Otherwise you have top logic, nothing will happen.

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cumslutliv answered · September 18, 2020

   He has a girlfriend and he writes to her secretly with you. And with others. A test that bites. Otherwise he is an exemplary man and super faithful. Either he has a girlfriend, or he just chats with a lot of women and checks them from time to time to see if he remembers it and raises his ego.

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danastormx answered · September 18, 2020

   THE AUTHOR: I haven't hoped for anything or waited for it all these months. I like it as a person and I thought it could happen, but alas. After he answered me after 2 days I did not answer him. and you to see we ask if I am not angry, as I calmly and politely explained to him that there is no point in answering. provided that he will answer after 5 days that the whole point of the conversation goes to hell .. I told him that he either has a boyfriend or just does not want to write to me. I also told him exactly that if there is a desire, there are ways that he can't convince me how busy he is and not looking at his phone. His president is not so busy. I received the answer from him that I liked how I argued and I liked the answer. : D I thought right, but it wasn't true. He just doesn't watch social. networks and preferred live communication. You didn't have a girlfriend and if he didn't write to me, he wouldn't care at all and write to me so many times. In the end, we agreed to finally see each other on Saturday, and I said that I was serious and we would see how serious he would be if it was done with a sig. end of our acquaintance. Continues to answer. in 8 hours. The other day we wrote 4 lines, and I finished good night because it was already 00 o'clock, he read it to others. day in the evening somewhere ... I never received any answer or other. hello. But otherwise he looks at my side in Instagram, but in general there is no time. Hahahahaha horror what people there are .... Thanks for the comments :) In the end, we agreed to finally see each other on Saturday, and I said that I was serious and we would see how serious he would be if it was done with a sig. end of our acquaintance. Continues to answer. in 8 hours. The other day we wrote 4 lines, and I finished good night because it was already 00 o'clock, he read it to others. day in the evening somewhere ... I never received any answer or other. hello. But otherwise he looks at my side in Instagram, but in general there is no time. Hahahahaha horror what people there are .... Thanks for the comments :) In the end, we agreed to finally see each other on Saturday, and I said that I was serious and we would see how serious he would be if it was done with a sig. end of our acquaintance. Continues to answer. in 8 hours. The other day we wrote 4 lines, and I finished good night because it was already 00 o'clock, he read it to others. day in the evening somewhere ... I never received any answer or other. hello. But otherwise he looks at my side in Instagram, but in general there is no time. Hahahahaha horror what people there are .... Thanks for the comments :) But otherwise he looks at my side in Instagram, but in general there is no time. Hahahahaha horror what people there are .... Thanks for the comments :) But otherwise he looks at my side in Instagram, but in general there is no time. Hahahahaha horror what people there are .... Thanks for the comments :)

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onimasile answered · September 18, 2020

   I see that both sides expect to be special and receive attention, and they do not compromise immediately. In short - nothing will come out.

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anonpvt answered · September 19, 2020

   And from the whole story it turns out that he is "se1" for you: D: D literate girl and you can find a decent one!

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anoncock113 answered · September 19, 2020

   You write very illiterately, and this is an indication of your level as a whole, including how you look. He doesn't like you enough to want something serious about you. It is a miracle that he still writes, although rarely. I find the title of your post inappropriate.

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surfersd310 answered · September 20, 2020

   Of course he is a player. If a man is in love with you, he won't play with you like he's a toy. He wants to see you live because he wants sex with you, not chats every few days. Be really careful. First meet him in a public place and do not rush into solitude. He may also be a psychic, in addition to being a player, in the chat some men pretend to be great and good, but this is not the case. You are a woman, you are vulnerable and therefore beware.