Hello everyone :), you must have read similar topics, I could not find and now I want to ask you if you can give your advice. It was my first time two or three days ago, and since yesterday, when I go on a small bowel movement, I feel pain while urinating and shortly after. Cystitis can be caused by many things: colds, retention of urine in the bladder for a very long time - as I do, bacteria and others. My question is the following - is it possible to be from the 1st time, because the window was open, I may have caught a cold, if I tell my mother, she will take me to the doctor - no problem, but if she offers to go to the gynecologist and look at me below and see that I'm no longer a virgin, I don't know how she will react .. as a child I also had, I'll tell her that I must have caught a cold and that I don't go to the toilet right away, but I squeeze and I don't think that he would take me to a gynecologist right away, but what was the chance he wouldn't find out about sex? :)
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Most likely from your first time - it is no accident they say cystitis and infection on the first wedding night. These are anal bacteria that can get close to the urethra during intercourse - it's not so much a matter of hygiene as it is of immunity. Go to a doctor to prescribe you an antibiotic, without it generally not working. You don't have to tell him for the first time - cystitis is quite common at this time of year, but more in sexually active women, it is not excluded in sexually inactive women with weak immunity - calm down here. Go to your GP - a urine sample is taken. You can also go to a gynecologist, but he will also take a urine sample and nothing more - HE WILL NOT LOOK DOWN YOU and you do not need to tell him about intercourse. Otherwise - not from the window. This with its current and excesses is bg. myth and legend -) A person gets sick from bacteria, fungi or viruses. The cold simply weakens the immune system, but being in an open window is not in itself a cause of illness. What happened - happened. IMPORTANT - USE CONDOMS! ... your cystitis will heal quickly. Drink a lot of fluids - bearberry tea and mineral water, if you are in Hissar. Calm and smart! Try not to get pregnant - the rest is easy.
if I may ask, how old are you? I think it's probably from sex, especially if it hurt a lot the first time. And can't you go to the gynecologist on your own?
From the author: I'm 16, I think I got up with the right person, he loves me, I don't feel sorry for him either, and to my surprise there was no blood or pain.
I'm 16 too. about the gynecologist - go without your mother. you don't need it. you go to the personal, you tell him what you are talking about, he will not tell your mother (unless they are close friends), he is obliged to keep, they say, a medical secret !!! and in the interest of truth they do. plus the fact that he is more correct than your mother, will guide you to which doctor to go. a friend, her mother, took her by the hand to take her to a gynecologist because she doubted she was a virgin. inside the office she talked to the doctor and he said there was no problem and you didn't tell Mike but that she wasn't a virgin. Good luck