My question is to everyone. I have known people that every woman in her life has met her parents. One was a womanizer, and each friend was introduced to his mother. He recently broke up with one, now he is with another and he will introduce her to his mother, as well as the others before her. Do you think it is right for parents to see every woman?
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In principle, the idea of introducing her to her parents is that you show seriousness, almost even an idea for a future marriage. If you lead each one, the idea is clearly meaningless. Not to mention that such an individual is not very good with his head ... As a womanizer, you show the wives to your friends, not to your mother ... I am not surprised by such behavior, since I know most women nowadays with what Neanderthals move ..
No. It is important for the relationship that the two love and be faithful. The rest are details.
He's just manipulating them like that, pretending to be serious. The other option is to be a mother's son and to feel obliged to report to his mother.
I agree with number 2 - so it is in the west. In America, some people, married or not, even have children and have not introduced their spouse to their parents, let alone their grandson.
4, we don't count animals, we talk about people ... 2 is right. but you misinterpret what is written.
Of course! Someone was explaining to me how he had been in a relationship with a girl for almost a year, and he didn't even know where she lived. Neither he nor she knew the other's parents. Guess - they are not together. Such relationships are frivolous and it is ridiculous to call them a "relationship."
Well, he obviously lives with his mother and has nowhere to take her elsewhere. And when they meet in the morning in the kitchen - they introduce themselves, they will not be silent :)
I think it's pointless. Isn't it normal to have a new one every week? !! I will tell my son and daughter like this: until things get serious, don't lead him / her. What is it for me to know everyone who says hello. My husband was the first boy my parents met, for others what was the point of not being serious between us. This is a serious step, yes it is a symbol that you take things seriously, that's why you introduce someone to your family.
If the parents are people you want to connect with. This is inevitable in high school, not after. In my current relationship, neither parent knows I'm with anyone. Literally and figuratively, it is not their job, mostly because my mother likes to behave like a pig with people that Her Majesty decided were of poor quality. My father is not far behind: he does not say swear words directly, only behind the scenes. Petty, pathetic, unworthy. Disgusting. I have a simple rule: watch how he behaves with the family and you will soon find out how he will behave with the future. If the two of them literally can't stand each other and hiss at each other behind their backs, guess how good they are as people. I don't care if they are mom and dad, I don't take my mind from failed marriages. So if they're both unbearable, why on earth should I give them access to my personal life?
№6 - It depends on the people, we were boyfriends for years without telling our parents. So we decided - we will not marry them and it is not their job. We are now married with children.