Hello, I am 23 years old. From Sofia. I have a problem and I don't know what to do, would you advise me. Everything happened in the following way. One day I went to visit my aunt. Going inside I found 2 boys and our common neighbor. I saw one of them made a strong impression on me. Although it is very difficult for me to fall in love and like someone. It made an impression on me because our eyes met and I felt a great feeling between us. I can't find words to explain it. Anyway I sat down and noticed he was looking at me all the time, but I did not pay attention. At dinner we drank everything normally. My aunt wanted to go to the store to buy something. We returned from the store and the other boy came down with me, the boy who was watching me with interest.He started talking to me and I don't know, I felt very strange, he was attracted to me like a magnet, and we kissed. Then he said I liked you from the first moment he came in. I want you to be with me tonight, I politely explained to him that there is no to get up, but he kept talking to me, then I don't know how it happened and why I can't explain to myself I'm not such a person we slept together. All the time he kept telling me how much he liked me how he wanted to be his to no one else how he wanted to see me many more times, did not want another.Finally he told me that he loves me.I was very surprised.In the morning I went to see my aunt and have coffee with her and I intended to ask about the boys.They told me oh I forgot to I tell you, the boys were 17 last night, the neighbor took them from an orphanage in a village to help with some work, and today they are leaving. When I found out, I felt bad.I could not imagine just what I did, although I really liked the boy and it was obvious that he liked me too. Then the boy called me and said I want to tell you I was drinking, but tell me no one understood about this between us (he wanted to tell my aunt and the neighbor who took it) I want to tell you sorry, I'm leaving today. But tell me at least was it nice The boy is somewhere there now at home. I can give him everything which I can from the heart and I would do anything for him. Please advise me, tell me what to do. I'm confused he is small, he does not deserve such a fate. Should I look for him. I felt everything that happened between us with love. to do.?Then the boy called me and told me I want to tell you I was drinking, but tell me no one found out about it between us (he wanted to tell my aunt and the neighbor who took it) I want to tell you sorry, today I'm leaving. But tell me, was it at least good? The boy is somewhere in the house now. I can give him everything I can from the heart and I would do anything for him. Please advise me, tell me what to do. I'm confused is small, does not deserve such a fate. Should I look for him. I felt everything that happened between us with love. What to do.?Then the boy called me and told me I want to tell you I was drinking, but tell me no one found out about it between us (he wanted to tell my aunt and the neighbor who took it) I want to tell you sorry, today I'm leaving. But tell me, was it at least good? The boy is somewhere in the house now. I can give him everything I can from the heart and I would do anything for him. Please advise me, tell me what to do. I'm confused is small, does not deserve such a fate. Should I look for him. I felt everything that happened between us with love. What to do.?Please advise me, tell me what to do. I'm confused, he is small, he does not deserve such a fate. Should I look for him. I felt everything that happened between us with love. What can I do?Please advise me, tell me what to do. I'm confused, he is small, he does not deserve such a fate. Should I look for him. I felt everything that happened between us with love. What can I do?
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Look, I'm still young and I don't have much experience in love, despite the fact that I've been looking for it for a long time. I hope he takes me seriously :). Anyway ... I think this boy really likes you and as you describe him to him, this night was very special. And since you like it too, it's worth looking for. To tell you the truth, there is a possibility that he just wanted to sleep with you. My advice is to look for it and find out what he thinks about it. I hope he was helpful himself. Success!
Even love from one night - it seems a little exaggerated. After all, love is more than just physical attraction and liking. You have to get to know the person, to assess his character and interests. The other is falling in love at first sight - it doesn't happen often, but it is possible. As for age - this is entirely your problem, because often younger boys are strongly attracted to older girls and women. He may have grown more mature for his age. It's best to look for it, and why haven't you actually swapped phones or something? This way, you will know if it was something fleeting as a result of drinking alcohol or if he also feels that you fit. Maybe he is afraid to be the first to look for you - he is smaller and is from a children's home. Wait a while and if you can't forget it - look for it and things will clear up.
Well, you had fun. Next time, be careful, don't go to bed right away with the first person you meet, who you don't know who he is and what he is like. Otherwise, as they advised - don't wait, don't guess. Call him and ask him directly what he thinks. At least it will be clear to you, and you will be aware.
I think the boy did it (he told you he liked you) because he wanted to sleep with someone. I guess in the home where this is forbidden. It's still puberty - the hormones are raging and he wants to. He also mentioned that he had been drinking. Maybe everything happened under the influence of alcohol, or maybe I'm just wrong. My advice is not to deal with it because it is much smaller than you and just doesn't make sense. If everything was real between you, talk to him and tell him that his plans are impossible, even though you like him. Success! ;)
The boy's goal was to sleep with you. The very explanation over the phone that he had been drinking should serve as an excuse for his behavior, which he clearly considers to be wrong. You know? He kind of tells you - I slept with you because I drank. If I hadn't drunk, I wouldn't have wanted it. I hope you weren't so stupid to do it without a condom. In your place, I would leave things like that.
I will tell you that it was not right to go to the store with the boy who was watching you with interest. But what about the fact that he was 17. Experience love with anyone! Even if he is 17! Feel It's sown that you're as old as he is! It doesn't matter how old he is, but that you love him. And the sex between the two of you was just fun;).