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Is It Mandatory To Be With A Gentleman At The Ball?

By motto3 October 24, 2020 15 answers Last updated October 24, 2020

Hello, I am a girl of 18 and I am about to have a ball. Today my friends and I discussed what we would look like and talked about the gentlemen. Someone said it was mandatory to have a gentleman at your prom. This came to me like thunder from a clear sky, I have no friend, nor do I intend to have one soon, I am fully committed to my studies and I will continue to apply, I will apply to an elite university. So, my question is is it mandatory to be with a gentleman at the ball I ask the moderators to publish my topic, because it is important to me!

Answers 15

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finestraight answered · October 24, 2020

   Of course not. You can be alone.

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larryowenslive answered · October 24, 2020

   No. Half the class didn't have a gentleman, including me. And those who had accompanied them to the entrance of the restaurant and then all night were not with a gentleman. It's in the movies and elsewhere so must have a gentleman for the ball. I wouldn't refuse if I had but I didn't and it wasn't just me but a lot of girls and it's neither embarrassing nor anything. have fun

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themistressofmygame answered · October 24, 2020

   Not necessarily, but some people look at it pretty badly, although it's not certain that they will say it in your eyes. There are four options: 1. You draw one for them and go to the ball alone, having fun! 2. You are looking for a classmate who also has no company and you invite him. 3. You take your brother or another relative (cousin for example) as much as you have a gentleman. 4. In the absence of another option, you call me for help - do you know how I feel about going to a ball? :)

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wrstlnfrk11113333 answered · October 24, 2020

   Haha, the important thing is for you to have fun at the ball, I, as a boy, had fun there, even though my lady withdrew because I had hurt her before, but come on ... if you like it and the others around you will have fun. cheerful no matter who you are with

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somefreerain answered · October 24, 2020

   Not required at all. I didn't have a boyfriend either, my best friend didn't either, so we both went. And a lot of classmates also came alone, it seems that only one boy had brought a girlfriend who was not from our school, otherwise we were all alone, without friends. So if you have a boyfriend, you can invite him, but if you don't, it's not a problem. If you do not feel like walking alone, you can arrange with a classmate to walk together and shout together from the car windows. :))

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nativecouple answered · October 24, 2020

   Of course not.

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str8nakeddad9 answered · October 24, 2020

   Is it mandatory? What is this retro nonsense? Women can do without men. I graduated last year and my eight-year-old niece was a gentleman. Well, I had a great time, I left a memory of the child, who to this day talks about it. Do not be enslaved to any standards!

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coolmyky answered · October 24, 2020

   Well, it doesn't have to be your boyfriend. :))

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cciiu answered · October 24, 2020

   It is obligatory. Otherwise they do not let you in and you stand on the sidelines like a stray dog. Joke aside, of course, there is no such requirement - at our ball did not even let outsiders in the restaurant, only our classes and teachers were and it was great. This is the better option for me. I bet at least half of your class won't have any ladies or gentlemen. Focus on your friends and other people from the teacher, who knows when you'll see again.

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adammgrant answered · October 24, 2020

   No, not necessarily.

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votona answered · October 24, 2020

   Why exactly with a gentleman? Maybe just with a flute, or maybe with a whole cavalry! ...

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hooopstore answered · October 24, 2020

   You don't have to be your boyfriend, you can just be a friend

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BitterSweetLondon answered · October 24, 2020

   No, it is not obligatory, but you can invite one of your classmates with whom you are closer. :)

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Bigass_4ux answered · October 24, 2020

   not necessarily very clear. you can catch up with someone in your class or just go with girls. I was at the ball with my brother, but he was not scheduled, that's how things happened at the last minute.

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maetamong answered · October 25, 2020

   The ball is not obligatory, she asks about the gentleman ... You do what you want and you are not interested in other people's opinion. As for learning - I recommend that you do not give yourself COMPLETELY to him, because there is no person who has succeeded only by learning !!!