I'm sorry to bother you with my problem, and it's the following. I am a 16 year old boy and I already feel uncomfortable among my peers ..... when and where to talk the topic of sex is always involved and I am so incompetent on this topic that ...... so my request for help is possibly some advice on how to proceed.
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It's normal for your age to think only about sex, but don't worry. Don't think that your friends are so competent at what they do. Most like to be thrown away and usually exaggerate. Well, so do you. Just kidding, just don't get tied up and blow yourself away. And for the other calm. There will come a time when you will be competent where you are in a hurry. You're 16 after all.
Sex is not a sport. I am 32 years old and I was a virgin until I was 20 years old. I did it out of curiosity, because everyone had done it. It was nothing special. I'm sorry I didn't wait until I was 25 when I met the Real One. That's when I realized what sex and love are. My advice is not to rush and wait for the right girl. Only then will you understand the truth about sex and what it is. Before that, it's not bad to read a little literature on some issues. You still have to be prepared. Search the internet, there are enough. And don't worry, no one died a virgin :).
How should you act :) Just wait for the right moment. The goal is not to brag in front of friends, but to make the girl happy. And you don't need to hurry so don't complain :)
Make sure they understand sex only in words ... They want to feel significant and make up a bunch of stories, but in fact they have zero experience (in which there is nothing wrong, it's just too early). Don't live so much ... Joke with them that they believe in themselves and you will see their reactions.