Hello! I am 14 years old and have had a boyfriend for almost 5 months. We talked about sex and we both want to do it if of course there is a suitable place time and means (condom). But I wonder if when I sleep with him for the first time I want to give him blowjobs (of course he is a boy: D) but I'm not sure if I should do it because I think it's not normal and it's even humiliating. However, if we have sex, it will be the first time for both of us. And I also wonder if there can be a problem with intercourse when it's both our first time?
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Darling, don't worry so much. Just when the time comes and you're in the place you're talking about, just do it. The first time is one, but each time it becomes different and better. And your dilemma, whether to blow his whistle or not, you will solve it after the first time. Then you will look at it with different eyes. Perhaps!
You seem to be still young, wait until you grow up. Read more about sex and for the first time give him blowjobs through a condom.
Blowjob and all kinds of sex is not humiliating in itself. A person's attitude towards you can be humiliating, but there is no way that something YOU do can be humiliating. Do you think if he kisses your toes is it humiliating? It's the same - if he does it voluntarily, because he knows that you will like it (or if he likes it himself) - then everything is fine. There are no restrictions when they both like it. Another is, really, the question of whether it is safe, so I think it's better to be fully familiar with sex before you do it. And obviously you still aren't, since there are such dilemmas in you.
Don't do it to him if you ask me. Because 1 time is always traumatic and there is a bit of a bad memory left. I got such a hemorrhage and I was 20. One by one. If he wants so much, give him only blowjobs without sex for now to learn how to have sex will come later. Good luck and tell me what happened
And I think like 4. But do only what you like and what you really want. Otherwise you will feel used later.
Honey, there's nothing wrong with that. Before I started having sex, I only drove whistles for two years.
The answer to 6 is poignant, you're a boy, aren't you? Whistles? It is humiliating for the boy, you think about the girl ... First he has to take you with his tongue and fingers, and during this time you will think if you want to delve into things;)
You are very young to talk about blowjobs, read a little about sex, then do it again
Abe 8, do you want to be 50 years old ?! Girls of this age have blown whistles, blowjobs that .... A 14-year-old girl gave me a blowjob ... Say something about the question, not your nonsensical opinions ...
I think it's better if you're not sure you don't give him a blowjob, just relax during sex.
I'm as big as you and I'm thinking of doing it soon, don't worry ... calm down and make sure of your feelings for the boy
Oh, I don't know what to write. I have been dating my friend for 2 years now, but I still can't decide on this big stack in our relationship. For a month now, he has been telling me that he wants a whistle, but I immediately change the subject. I'm afraid that after I do this, he will start looking at me in a completely different way. Otherwise, everything is ok in sex.
Well, I'm 15 and a girl wants to have sex, but she's a virgin ??? what can happen to her ??? I have had sex twice so far and I wonder what will happen to her
Hmm ... I've been in England for almost 2 years and I've seen small female dogs aged 12,13,14, who have already had sex with several partners. Personally, I hate to think that a person of this age can practice such a thing ... Think about whether you are really ready. Personally, I doubt it. Success ... P.P. No, I'm not 50 ... I'm 20 and I understand you somewhere ...
I don't think a 14- or 15-year-old boy or girl should have sex or blowjobs. This shows how low morale has fallen in our children. I see them behaving disgustingly every day in the trams, even as adults we become uncomfortable. And whether this child's mother would approve of his act if she could see from somewhere how they were drooling with their friend. I do not think that public transport is the place where young people should give vent to their feelings in front of all travelers. This happens elsewhere and they know them.
I love to blow blowjobs and swallow like that and I get excited a hell of a lot and my advice is to make a lady damn cool, believe me №
15 do not pretend to be clever, that you are not given. What time is it now. we will make the quota we want. and as for the question of my whistles, what can I tell you if you want you can do it, but without swallowing.
He touches to the end, the soul in heaven.
My advice is to do it. I know how they are made, and it's time for my boyfriend to ask! Help me and tell me how to do it.
I had sex when I was 11 and it's very cool and I'm a boy.
Emmy if there is nothing wrong with pretending to do it now is their time, if not now it will ever happen
What's wrong with the whistles
I am 17 years old. I had sex for the first time when I was your age. Of course I used protective equipment. I'm a boy and I don't think it's humiliating to blow on a boy or in this case your boyfriend to blow on you what he should feel satisfied with. I blew on my girl and she told me she was very cool. She blew me and eats is very cool .... And as for sex .. even if you have wings and can fly you will never experience such pleasure as you will experience during sex ... my advice is to do it do it because sex can strengthen your feelings ....
The blowjob is something super humiliating .. How do you swallow someone's penis? .. and then you will eat if you have swallowed someone's job.
And number 25 is super limited;)
Yes, it's nice to some extent, but to some extent it's not so cool because after a while the guy will hate you and fuck you and then you will know that you slapped him and he will tell you how you blew him.
To 27: By this logic, in time he will tell you how he fucked you. Whistle girls, don't limit men and yourself from something so normal and nice (especially for men)
Number 25 ... are you a girl or a boy or some mix or are you just hyper clogged ... How can a whistle be humiliating .. It can be humiliating if you take it out on the street .. and you are worried that you are slapping him that job and then how will you eat ... Do you even think while writing .. If sex is humiliating ... If you are a girl and I blow you it will be humiliating .. then I will eat kfo as well I remember that with your tongue you licked p ***** and kfo I will not be able to eat ... since I know that I can give you in some way pleasure why it should be humiliating .... kfo for smear also it should be humiliating that we masturbate .. it should be humiliating that girls use vibrators, deodorants, cucumbers, sausages, salami, etc. to have fun ..
I also have a hard time on this issue. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. We have had sex several times, he even gave me spatulas and now he wants me to give him a blowjob but for me it's a whore, humiliating and I don't know how to act. Please give advice. I'm 16 and he's 17, but it was still my first so I don't want to lose it. help ???
29 you are right :)
29 is really right, I think he even helped me in the future ....
From 1 to 32 mi ... ave fuck you who cares I'm for example I'm 14 and I've done it many times and whistles have made me si4ko
But that might suck ...
Well, are you crazy or not. In my opinion, only the blood do it, wanting so many whistles to go on the highway there to blow it.
Of course, you have to give him a blowjob when you're boyfriends and you're together - it can't help but happen. This is better than sex, if you don't give him a blowjob, it will be stupid and selfish on your part. There is nothing degrading, but you will understand this with age. If you love it - do it and you will not go wrong. This is my opinion.
Abe is humiliating for me too, but I do it because I know he likes it and wants it. If he doesn't get it from me, he will look for it in another
At № 37 if he pushes him from another means so much to you and loves my friend told me that if I do it to him he would want me to want him because without desire it makes no sense. Abe, in order for a person to do anything, he must be willing.
My friend and I have been together for 9 months. Whenever we are alone, we can add supreme pleasure, because we always comply with the wishes of the other. There is nothing wrong with giving him blowjobs, you do it for him, and it is not bad for him to give you pleasures in the same way. And for sex, if you want to do it, you will like it. If he is hers to you I assure you you will feel great. Good luck
Blowing is the best thing
I'm a 14 year old girl and I gave a blowjob to a boy I like. He had a girlfriend, and he chose me because he knew his girlfriend would never do such a thing to him. We are currently arranging a second meeting with him and he still wants me to give him a blowjob. I honestly like it. However, I do not know whether to proceed to more serious things, such as sex. Please tell me if we have sex with him, will he dump the other one, considering that she didn't give him any blowjobs or sex ???
So my opinion is the following: -1- if I am the parent of such a 12-year-old pickle, I will blow it up. -2- if I'm a friend, it's perfectly normal to ask for a blowjob.
kam 44. toi e mn prav koe mom4e nqma da si poiska_vsqko, a ve4e momi4eto si precenqva dali da mu napravi svirka ili ne. But according to me in those years ... a little humiliating, without meaning, 4e ti e fr, and only 5 months ...
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Hmm ... honestly, don't be in front of my eyes. I can't believe (or don't want to) that a 14-year-old is "thinking" of whistling (you don't think, you're just scared and looking for approval). Don't tell me she wasn't small - she's small! I'm sorry, but I can't accept it. No, don't think I'm 62 - I'm 14 like her, and I wouldn't even think about having sex this year or next! And don't you think that you will look like a light woman (woman?!??!) But your friend loves you very much ... or so he says. If you were a 14-year-old tanned teenager, I would repeat 155485464652 times that I love you, that you are amazing, great, beautiful and that I would travel the world for you just to get one sex. + I don't see you bursting with knowledge about sex and even blowjobs, so judge for yourself if you're ready. And when I look, you think the whistle is humiliating. No, the whistle itself is not humiliating, nor is the attitude of the person against you humiliating. BUT any people, if you consider it humiliating - just don't do it. What's the hurry!? You will not rust if you wait 1-2 years. Sorry for the mistakes and repetitions. I don't have the nerve to read 50 comments.
In my opinion, it's not bad to give him a blowjob and I don't think it's humiliating ... For example, if your boy makes oral love (spatulas) he will give you pleasure ... Is it humiliating to give yourself pleasure? True, she's small, but it doesn't matter if she makes it for the first time at 50 or 14. She's just out of her age, so what?
I agree with number 48 and I want to say goodbye! Few girls your age think that way. Indeed, I think she is small, and I am angry to see that the girl is right. I don't believe your friend is very knowledgeable in this area either, so think carefully about whether you want to do it. And try not to be influenced by your opinion, for example, of your girlfriends, who are very "forward". And if the boy sticks to you, he can wait, and if he tells you either you do it or I dump you, just beat his jester. As for the whistles, when the time comes, I don't think you'll have a problem making them. And at first I thought "horror, I'll never do it" (and I still haven't) but my opinion has really changed :) When I have sex with the person I love, I want him to be as good as possible, and even a few times I figured out how I was going to do it to him without even realizing it: D So you don't have to worry, be more relaxed .. and I'll take this advice! : D
If you ask me, start with kisses and hugs first and then undress and start with oral love. Let him lick you first and then you give him a blowjob. Try to do both this way. I just don't know if during the celebration you endure, as my girlfriend? was it hard until he got used to my cum and the first 3 blowjobs? it was difficult, but then she succeeded and now she is quite passionate. For sex - while he tore your hymen you will have a hemorrhage, but then you will be happy and you will have a desire for everything. No humiliating things, my girl. Do whatever you want after that and enjoy your bodies. GOOD LUCK :)
People, I only read half of the comments because I couldn't anymore. It's normal for her to ask for a blowjob like all boys, whether the girl wants it is her problem is say :? Sorry for writing following all the rules (barely, I barely wrote it correctly) but that's the way it should be ... Answer the question please :?
It's not embarrassing, but it would be better to do it to you. The pleasure of the whistle is amazing. Every second is golden, do you feel warm? lips, you all get hard even. I hope he agrees to give you a blowjob, this pleasure will stay with you for a lifetime. Write what happened.
Well, what can I say, I'm a boy, I'm 15 and I like to lick: P but I don't want to be licked, I'm not talking about licking on pedals and I haven't tried my girlfriend on other girls, but I'm sure there will be time for that, it's just me fun that I deliver pleasure