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Is It Normal For Me To Be 19 Years Old And My Sexual Partners To Be 21?

By laurajamesss July 23, 2020 50 answers Last updated July 23, 2020

I want to ask the experienced ones :) Is it normal for me to be 19 years old and for my sexual partners to be 21. I'm not a whore, I don't even like these things, but that's how it always happened ...

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calmpeter answered · July 23, 2020

   If you don't love them, you just sleep with them, it's even worse, I'm not a moralist, but for your 19 years she's full ... Take matters into your own hands, because no decent man will look at you if you continue like this. .

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kama_blue answered · July 23, 2020

   I don't know if it's normal, I'll just tell you one two three five are 10 to be ....... but why not 21 isn't it until 50 years old eheee mine and 210 are

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monasacs answered · July 23, 2020

   My, whether they are few or many, I know 16-year-old girls with more than 50 pieces, I can say that it is many, but you are not bad either. So how did it happen, he explained. I am almost 17 and I have only 1 partner a year, nz, but in general for a girl it is a lot, it will not be well visible in the eyes of the boys, they will consider you light and a kind of rag with an apology ...

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hoot_princess answered · July 23, 2020

   Hahahaha! Of course you're not a whore! ААХАХАХА

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jadexxxlove answered · July 23, 2020

   is bass the question ... as well as look at it from my male point of view your whore sorry :(

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ashrimi answered · July 23, 2020

   How do you do it baby? And is it normal to be 49 years old and my sexual partners to be 3 ... I'm not some kind of moralist, but my grandmother would say that I'm ... a whore ... And if you like it: do it him ... Of course you're not a whore!

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jey_rich answered · July 24, 2020

   Let me tell you, I have one rule: NEVER, but NEVER let your sexual partners exceed your age. Try it and it will be fun, and you will see that you only have control or you are just a nymphomaniac! In your case, stay only with the familiar people without new ones to see if you will last up to 21 chases :)

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cumslutprincess69 answered · July 24, 2020

   There is nothing wrong if it is not DANGEROUS! With so many partners, one thing is important - condoms.

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barbiedolls18 answered · July 24, 2020

   leleeeeeeee and I am 19 years old and I slept with 5 boys and I think they are many, but you broke me

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jessicablonder69x answered · July 25, 2020

   If you continue in the same spirit, it will be difficult to find a normal boy, I would just have sex with someone like you and throw her away like a rag.

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black_magic_woman_ answered · July 25, 2020

   With that number, you better do it for money because you're a prostitute. And I'm not a moralist - 5 for 42 years, but this is your prostitution, so realize how Madame Hollander realized in an instant - by knocking left and right at least to make money. I hope one of them does not become my daughter-in-law, my son will think that he is the second only. And research yourself for AIDS, that you can spread it left and right like nothing.

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kathy_collins_ answered · July 26, 2020

   Em like fuck you. I don't know how normal it is, but it has no measure for that - everyone decides according to their wishes

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mattias_and_natha answered · July 26, 2020

   You realize very well that there are many, but you don't even want to admit it to yourself. You just want someone to tell you that it's normal to calm your conscience and not feel remorse. I am 32 years old, so far I have been 5, since I have been married I have only been with my husband, and I think that one should try before marriage, but even 21 and 19 years old, it seems a lot to me. Good luck, and I hope you find the person you will like both visually and morally and in any way.

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69lovecouple answered · July 27, 2020

   You must be a nymphomaniac, go to the doctor, this is crazy, you're going to get ...

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nevertoonaughty answered · July 27, 2020

   Wow, I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin (obviously I have to think seriously about it). How do you do this number at 19 if you were with 21 is that you may have already exceeded 30 at this rate ..... If you have sex with everyone you meet, have you ever fallen in love, I wonder and if there will be someone who to fall in love with you? I can only wish you success because I was speechless .......

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allison_lust answered · July 27, 2020

   I am 19 and I lost my virginity 7 months ago and to tell you the truth I am not sorry. If I were you, maybe I would feel like a rag - not only physically, but also mentally, which I think is much scarier. The question of the girl who commented on me is interesting: have you ever fallen in love? Do you know the meaning of the word love or for you it all comes down to sex. Still, your life is yours and you decide what to do with it.

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kasumi2002 answered · July 27, 2020

   I'm 29 and I've only been with 4 partners, my advice is to never admit to your boyfriend how many men you've been with so far and if you can move out of the city where you live - there for sure behind your back they point to WHORE.

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alice_ly answered · July 28, 2020

   abe whatever we talk about 19 year old 21 are baya. I am 23 years old and I have been alone with 3 people with whom I have had relationships for years, and I can say that I am quite desirable, but it is a matter of upbringing, of dignity, I don't know.

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spicy_ramen1 answered · July 28, 2020

   Honestly, the number is really solid, but I understand you and it is very clear to me "how it turned out that way". My advice is to just think before you do anything and that sounds really trite, but it's better to wait for the ONE who will really hold on to you and make sense to be with him. And by the way - don't care what the others think of you, in the end you are important!

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ccauto answered · July 28, 2020

   What a boyfriend, number 19! She must have a dozen at a time. How does it combine them not to be detected? Or maybe he does it with everyone he meets? It's really good to do it for money. Otherwise, it's just pointless to squat everyone you meet.

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yungangel666 answered · July 28, 2020

   I think you need to think carefully about what you're doing, because if you can look in the mirror now, it's unlikely to be the case in a few years. Remember that such behavior is allowed for men, but not yet accepted for women. Remember, too, that one day you will become a mother and wife — is that what you would want for your daughter? I guess you're just trusting and impulsive, the way you ask the question says you're not a bad kid, but someone has definitely missed the sex education part. Don't regret what happened, just try to change things. You will live with this for the rest of your life, so try not to make things worse. Put x and be a new person, I know it's not easy but try. And don't succumb to the criticism of others - no one has the right to judge you - this is your life. You are the only judge.

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bosonif57 answered · July 29, 2020

   I have one such question - if the author was a 19 year old boy and not a girl, would the comments be so rude - hardly ?! If a boy had said that, there would have been "well done dude, you're great" and so on. Where is the difference, if she feels that way, let her do it. And you who judge her, are you sinless? Ladies in their 40s and 50s where they had 3 or 5, how much more did they want to be but didn't like it, for fear of what people would say. The girl asked for an opinion, as she is probably confused and has no one to consult, and you are attacking her like predators. "Let the one who is sinless throw the first stone" ... To the author: Darling, I do not think that what you are doing is right, but your life is yours. Think before you go to bed with someone because it lasts a lifetime. And as long as you choose men over you, There's nothing to worry about. Good luck and smart!

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petitetsbigload answered · July 29, 2020

   Yes, number 25, you're right that if you were a man he would be a super dude, but I read this girl's letter and I see that she doesn't even realize what she's doing, she asks if it's normal, but it's not normal, she even claims it's not whore and what is a whore dear to you? She is an unconscious child for me who opens her legs to anyone who winks at her. What advice can you give to a person who does not realize what he is doing, only where he has not specified 21 but how many times. It's funny. And there are no sinless people, of course, but I don't think that's right. I think the parents are also to blame. What can I tell her, don't go to bed with anyone, nonsense. Probably since she wrote this letter, they may have become 38. I really have no advice for this girl.

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mveldspar answered · July 29, 2020

   Abe, let me tell you, I don't think the girl is a whore or a prostitute and things like that, because it's better now than after she's married and to break up with this one and at least now to see what she is and as they told me in the old days. "everything freezes with time" and she will hate it because I have little doubt that these women here at 40 and a half years old were virgins when they got married! And not at that time to be a whore when you are not a virgin by marrying a woman?

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kattydone answered · July 29, 2020

   Honey, don't be impressed at all by everyone who condemns you here. I'm 25 and I completely understand you, because at your age I was in exactly the same situation. I am not ashamed. That's what I wanted, that's how I did it, and that's how I learned how to give pleasure to a man, because this is not learned from porn movies, but comes with experience. If you want to be a boiled young lady, raise your head proudly. After all, we live in the 21st century, not the 18th. Everyone has the freedom to do what he wants and no one has the right to judge his neighbor. You who have slept with 3-4 ma, are you the most moral. You have a lot of dirty fantasies, but you don't feel like admitting it. Young girls take everything from life and do not be ashamed. It's like men sitting down to talk about how many women they've slept with. With what we are below them. Sex is made for pleasure and if you like it, do it! And don't forget safety precautions and discretion. Make everyone think you are inaccessible / this drives men crazy / and do what you want. Not everyone needs to see you. Be a thug, we're still a little smarter than men. Good luck

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gorgina_sexy2 answered · July 29, 2020

   YOU MAY NOT BE GOOD. GIRL, DON'T LISTEN TO THEM - LIVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU LIKE IT, OF COURSE, YOU ARE NOT A WHORE. PEOPLE, DO YOU KNOW WHAT A WHORE IS ?! - A WOMAN WHO HAS SEX FOR MONEY, AS IT WAS SINGED IN A SONG OF THE COUNT. THIS GIRL DOES NOT MENTION ANYWHERE THAT SHE TAKES MONEY FROM MEN !!! DEAR, DON'T WORRY (BUT DON'T EXCESS, HAVE DIGNITY). DEAR MEN, HERE IS A QUESTION WITH INCREASED DIFFICULTY-WHY, WHEN A WOMAN HAS MORE PIECES, SHE IS A "WHORE" FOR YOU, AND WHEN THESE PIECES ARE MADE. ................................. SOMEONE WILL SAY "BECAUSE THE WOMAN WAS COVERED AND SHE WAS BEATEN" -AZ I DON'T THINK I'M FUCKED MYSELF, I ALWAYS SAY "I FUCKED A MAN, NOT HE FUCKED ME".

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saritaa_sweet answered · July 30, 2020

   When you wrote it, did you read it later? What does it mean "don't overdo it", because she has already gone too far and lost some of her dignity. Does she have to sleep with 50 people to be overweight? Let her have sex with whoever she wants, but once she has asked for other opinions, she knows that something is not right. After all, in order to sleep with someone, you always have to have some feelings, and if you don't and you go to bed with everyone, what do you think it is? Give me a definition of this behavior.

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hourg answered · July 30, 2020

   Number 29 Well done girl!

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iren_wagner answered · July 30, 2020

   Hi darling, I don't know what to tell you. I am only 20 years older and only 3 sexual partners have slept.

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the_lydi answered · July 30, 2020

   I got married at the age of 20, I was a virgin, now I am 30 and I am faithful to my husband, as well as he is faithful to me. I've only been with one man in my life and I can assure you that every time sex is amazing. It doesn't matter how many men you have sex with, but how and whether you love each other. Trust and love are the most important. I'm in love with him and he's my best friend. It is true that everyone has some fantasies, but the important thing is to be able to share them with the other, and make them come true together.

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sexyshane answered · July 30, 2020

   For your age, they are so many, there is nothing to lie about now. And certainly the boys do not look at you with a good eye. But think that you will get married and what ..... your husband will be like him dipped in a bucket of water, not to mention the birth of children

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joephoto answered · July 31, 2020

   Don't worry! I don't judge you if you feel good about what you do, do it no matter how strange it is to others. Again, a woman on p ***** does not write how many men she has slept with. Unless you tell yourself. I completely understand you when you say "but that's how it always happened ..." When you don't like it with some, it's very clear that you're changing it. You will not have sex by force. And again, without sex. What did you condemn the girl. Nowadays this is normal, and again there are girls aged 16-17 with 30-40 pieces. No matter your number so far, try to reduce them with each passing year. For example, the first year, if you were 10, the next 3 maximum. You just have to decide for yourself if this person deserves to have sex. And most importantly, use condoms! I guess since you slept with most of the boys, you've come to your senses. I wish you to find the right person for you! Good luck

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lovemydoll answered · July 31, 2020

   Wow, I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin, not because I didn't have a reason, I just said NO because I was 16 and I decided that the right moment hadn't come and he wasn't the right person. Do you have any reservations at all? WHERE IS THE WORLD GOING ??????? I have no words.....

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rebecca0019 answered · July 31, 2020

   Emmy girl compared to one of my girlfriends you are very good! She is 13 and has slept with 32 girls. She has done it a total of 54 times, but she is only 13 ... I think you are very well ... but it is not bad to find a friend and do it with him because if you continue so with the boys some with whom you sleep if he finds out he can tell you that you are a whore and this is very insulting in my opinion .. I am 16 and I have slept until now with 3 boys and you are fine :) Good luck to you ..: )

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leveme2night answered · July 31, 2020

   Fully supported 28 :) Well done !!! I'm tired of morally old aunts ... If you lived. I'm 23 and I've been with 14 boys. I don't think there are many, I don't consider myself a light girl. Why, when there is an attraction to a man, not to be with him. You only live once. Try to take the most out of life. And so that they don't think you're a whore, just choose your partners well. You do not have anything to regret. Sex is a pleasure, and good sex can only be achieved through experience. And this experience is gained through the change of partners. Have sex as much as your soul wants;) Most of the comments above were written by some women who are not for this life :)

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subtwink2 answered · July 31, 2020

   Listen to the words of number 24 ... Know one, in time and if you were with one, if someone wants to call you a whore, he will do it ... Live for yourself, not for others ... Well, you were are you 21, is it? The important thing is that you wanted it yourself! The bad thing is that we live in a country where men with "thick black notebooks" are still heroes and women are sluts. Keep your head up. Ladies, the girl's question is not how many men you have been with, and as we all notice, she does not need attacks, so if you have nothing to say - shut up!

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voyeurjc answered · July 31, 2020

   to 29 - a boy prostitute is a woman who does it for money and the whore does it without money and next to the girl you are a whore, but don't tell it to a boy from whom you will want something serious

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jenny_vega answered · August 01, 2020

   Ehe, someone said that partners should not exceed the age ... I am 26, I have not counted women, but they are in their 30s .... are what to stop having sex ... I think I should get married , huh? :)) About the girl ... well, it's really not small for a 19-year-old. And, as for the fact that a woman with many men is a whore and a man is a dude ... this is the case with most animal species ... a rooster with hens, a bull with cows, dogs, cats ... etc.

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seven8080 answered · August 01, 2020

   Honey, don't get angry and don't think you're a whore !!! There are people who think that this is abnormal but it is not, I can only tell you that even 50 to sleep is important what kind of character you have and these deaths are clinging to at least ole will become one more or I do NOT SUCH A GIRL IS STUPID. The only way to get rid of the reproaches is to find a serious friend and stay with him and share everything with him when people see this they will change their opinion about you !!! Keep your head up!!!

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andres_and_ronny answered · August 01, 2020

   As long as you spit on the girl. Don't you think that if you were with only 2-3 partners until before you got married, you can see the halo above your heads? And don't think that since you have no experience and you are a full tree in bed, your "good" husbands will not find lovers at the first opportunity. Get her all down to earth. The girl is very well. I wish him to enjoy life, but with moderation and to be careful. At least I'm sure the men she'll be with in the future will be much happier than yours ...........................

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cuttee_skkinny_dude answered · August 01, 2020

   Why don't you write down your contact details here? There will be even more of those you have been with.

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baby_usemepls answered · August 01, 2020

   Do the numbers really matter? The important thing is to have sex only when and with whom you want. Don't be afraid / ashamed to refuse someone who doesn't appeal to you. I am 26 years old and have been with many men. It is true that everything is up to date. One-night stands are also boring. But you have to try everything so that we don't regret when we can't ...

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megan_dreams_ answered · August 01, 2020

   Girl, are you smart? 21 partners, yes, you have 21 beetles in your head.

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ahitana_rivera answered · August 02, 2020

   Wow, I'm 22 and I've been with over 50 men, I'm neither proud nor ashamed ... after all, only I know that, don't I ?!

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ashbrookfreak answered · August 02, 2020

   Wow ladies, you surprise me from everywhere. How much you've become lazy lately. You are not a whore, you are a whore. At the age of 19 she slept with the whole neighborhood. How are you not ashamed to ask at all !? But it's not your fault, your parents are to blame, no parental control! This is if I have a daughter and I understand what she is doing, that she locks her in us and she will not see a way out anymore. I have no words !!!

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riley_moore_plz answered · August 02, 2020

   what can i tell you darling ?! as the saying goes ... "to find your prince, you must first kiss a lot of frogs"!

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latinxxxhorn answered · August 02, 2020

   Number 33, what do you know about sex at all, you can't even make a simple comparison between two men about sex. If you don't sleep with at least one more, you'll never know if your husband is a "tree" in sex, since you've only been with him. It's nasty and completely unnecessary to keep to one. I'm 21 and I've slept with 19 men and I'm now fully aware of who is doing how and what I like about sex

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cancermoon17 answered · August 02, 2020

   darling I am 26 years old and I was only three

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valyriaxris answered · August 02, 2020

   I don't know if it's normal, but I understand you. When I was 19, my partners were almost as big as yours. Because that's what happened to me. At the age of 26, after a long separation, I started a relationship again with the first man in my life. I wish there were no other men in my life. Alas, it did not happen. I'm 34 now, I've been with 1 person for 2 years, I'm thinking of spending the rest of my life with him. We have great sex, I can't even think of sleeping with someone else. so do not blame yourself, live fully and hopefully soon you will find the person with whom you love and there will be no others among you. Be happy.

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jessy_sweett answered · August 03, 2020

   Until №47 Well, actually - NO. Besides you, 3401 people know ... Not many, right?