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Is It Normal?-lacey

By lacey November 07, 2020 4 answers Last updated November 07, 2020

Hello :) I am a 16 year old boy. I just wonder if this thing I wrote below is normal. Thanks for the answers. I went with my family to France - Paris. When I returned, however, I was a different person. I stopped caring about a lot of things. I don't care what others think of me, I don't care if they hate me or hate me. I stopped being especially interested in my friends (with whom exactly they go out, with whom they communicate ...), I don't care about their love life anymore (if there is one). I don't care anymore if a girl likes me or not, if I like one or not. I am no longer jealous of my friends, because they do not pay attention only to me, on the contrary, I am no longer interested in who they talk to and on what topic. I just don't know what happened, I've stopped being interested in so many things going on around me,

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femmeflytrap answered · November 07, 2020

   It is normal to see the world and change your views, but it is different for you. You went to a city crowded with tourists, where people still have this one for others. I know it's relaxing, especially if you've been there for more than a week. Towards the end of your stay you don't care how you are dressed, because even if they comment on you, you don't understand it, and you see so many people on the street and no one looks like the others. It was like that with me, I suddenly forgot the vanity and it became easy on my soul. But until you stop caring about your relationships with other people, I don't think it's all right. It must be just a period and it will pass soon, now you are still shaken by the excitement of the trip.

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beautyisboring answered · November 07, 2020

   I will not put your behavior in a cell - "good", "bad". After you don't feel OK and you are disturbed by the change, probably your new self, which is not interested in social achievements and development in this integral part of the life of normal people. Perhaps not insignificant is the time that is invested in cyberspace. Anonymity there is a reason to reject all your cultural and socially acceptable values, to reject morals and ethics, etc. lies and lack of interest is the beginning, the first steps, generally speaking. Slowly the lack of interest fades with alienation, avoidance of social interactions, non-acceptance of all socially acceptable models until the moment of irritation. € These things are not to be underestimated and do not bode well for a long and happy life.

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badvintagebetty answered · November 07, 2020

   Lucky

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szilviaofficial answered · November 07, 2020

   You're growing up.