I'm confused ... I don't know exactly what I mean, so I'll just let the words flow. It hurts. My head hurts from the long time he held my hair. My hand hurts, bruised by a strong squeeze. It hurts me ... You know what doesn't hurt me, my heart doesn't hurt, I feel wonderful mentally because I can't be touched by a fight, I can't be hurt by a pathetic, powerless person who uses his only advantage to me . Physical strength, I'm angry, I'm very angry. Why should they humiliate you just because you are physically weaker. What am I to blame for being weak and not so strong ... What? I'm strong, he can't crush me, not literally. But the problem is that his helplessness is greater than my strength. Is it normal to be more mentally powerless to crush others physically?
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It is normal! In order not to be crushed mentally to defend himself with physical force. I don't know who held you by the hair and the arm, but of course he did it to protect himself from your psychic attacks. I know many families in which there is physical harassment precisely in defense of mental harassment. Usually a woman does not know what she wants, first she mutters, then she attacks with screams and insults, she even reaches to hit or shoot with ashtrays or vases and finally she is grabbed by the hand and not tossing her whole body and hair so that she can she also hears his argument in the case for which he is being attacked or accused, or being told to stop insulting and sit on his ass.
No, but it is very typical for more unconscious individuals, especially men (I'm not saying there are no such women). Leave him immediately. Don't wait to get you hospitalized from a fight.
Once you are mentally strong, leave him and find a man like you
And is it normal for you to be a masochist and to sit next to a jerk who is shaking you from a fight? !?
The right question should be - is it normal for me to tolerate this idiot harassing me? Get away from him immediately!
It's not. Buy an electric baton. The next time he starts beating you, electrify him, but nice while he pees. Then take a picture of him with the phone, send the pictures to your mecca and so, he will know that if he repeats, it will be much harder for him. Believe me, this scares such cattlemen a lot.
You mean a man hits you or fights with other people I couldn't figure out the logic of something sorry.
It is not normal, it is not natural and human, there is someone stronger than anyone who thinks he is strong who can crush him and if we start to tremble there will be no people left alive, there is always someone stronger or smarter because strength does not is all you need to be physically strong is a bullet or a knife and you're out. I myself am physically weak -56 kg and I also ate a fight, do not consider this a humiliation, the humiliation is for the one who has shown himself to be a coward by attacking someone not in his category. In martial arts it is a humiliation for the attacker, I myself will never be humiliated to attack a weaker than me, a man, a woman or a child does not matter, understand that this person has no self-respect and dignity and you can only feel sorry for him and ignore him as a inferior creature level amoeba! You have nothing to be angry about, you are strong and you don't care about his helplessness, just get him out of your territory, and if he enters another with other players he will eat paint. The pain in the body passes quickly and you will forget it, I feel more sorry for him, because he will suffer much more than you at this low level at which he is.
It's not normal, but it happens often and it's true. You should never show that you are weak either physically or mentally. If you show it - they crush you! Everywhere in society, at work, at school, at university - people are like that. Do not show weakness 1st rule in life if you want to survive in it. I will tell you about myself so that you will provoke me properly. The first year in the new school, I was meek - I was crushed, endured, endured and continued until one day my mother understood, gritted her teeth or, more precisely, grabbed a kid by the blouse and the stories ended. Suddenly everyone started to respect me, I had a very fighting mother. From there, after 7th grade, I changed the city and the school, when I had such a story again, exactly 3-4 muffins and some boys, everyone was harassed. They beat them and took their money, but not all of them, but only to the new ones with whom they had not been before. One day I got tired, the money was mine, and the boy one of them wanted wanted me, he briefly clung to me when they were waiting for me at school, I gritted my teeth, they were still alone. I pulled one by one and they jumped into battle when I blew one of the two, the third didn't turn on at all, there were two of you, but I didn't fall asleep in unconsciousness as I pulled one, kicked and reached in whichever direction it fell. The third one finally broke us, and later that day I ate two slaps from a boy in their company. So I went to the police, I complained and since then the boys have been my friends, we also talked to the two girls while we were studying. There was a boy who was not harassed until the 11th grade because he was silent! The other misfortune was with my friend, he pulled me at least 4-5 times, hit me, dragged me on the ground, kicked me, etc. and I was just whining and begging him to stop - NEVER do that! One day I got tired, I started shouting like a hysteric, insulting and reaching out, and so did I. I resisted again, and as if startled, he didn't expect to see me in that light, to see me strong. Once again it happened, I roared again, but when I got up and started calling this unscrupulous one disappeared, he started to apologize, to feel sorry and since then I have been shouting and reaching out and he is silent, but I have attacked him a thousand times mentally.
With the idea of what kind of man he is, that he is not a man, that he cannot jump into a man's fight, but will only attack women, does a big man do that, go and jump on a man, but that he will eat a fight there . What a loser, what a pitiful thing that made him think, now I shout and shout, and he just keeps quiet. You have to crush people like that, attack them as best you can, and show that you're not weak, that you are strong and invulnerable. You squeak and if you stand there you will be crushed more. It was the same with friends, one would my brother, because he is meek, he is silent, it is obvious that he is weak, that he is defenseless - you should never leave such an impression. Even if you die internally from fear, you must be a rock from the outside, no emotion, no fear. He is the same man, not a few women have fought, but I have built a tablecloth, cold-blooded, furious, unwavering. I went with enthusiasm, not so much confidence inside, but scary on the outside and I had to wait, I shouted there was nothing to wait for you, man, what will happen, will you hit me, but I'm not my brother, I don't care about you at all, I don't care fear. Accordingly, there was a wait, wait, but he was annoyed with what you are and here you are 50/50 you remain unshakable, but you do not become an irritant. The conversation ended so he didn't bother him anymore, because I will not be so kind and I can condemn him, because I am not my brother to be afraid of. So, darling, sometimes you kill the fool with silence, we leave him aside, you gnash your teeth and whatever happens, but only if you see that they are crushing and you have no other choice, otherwise you don't ask for paint from crazy people in such a way that such people there is. But never be crushed - never! Grit your teeth and whatever, otherwise you will always be crushed.