Do you believe in student love? A living example of my relationship from 14-15 years. And now we are 19, we graduate, we love and respect each other and it has always been so, we help each other with everything, we take time for ourselves and our friends ... Is it possible for our good relationship to become something more .. We've talked about cohabitation before, etc ..., but I don't know if I should raise the topic ... Will you help me? Should I talk to him or is it too early? (In principle, we were separated for petty nonsense and we were both sorry, and over the course of the circumstances after 6 months we got together, we were just told to be together again and fate met us ....) I would say that this is my best friend! But will I startle him if I talk to him about more serious things (in principle we have been together for almost 4 years)
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Darling, you've been together for 4 years, not 40. Something more serious, what are you talking about, you're still 19.
Why do you ask others? They will tell you no, because it didn't work out for them. You have to believe in yourself.
Relationships are built with trust, conversation and compromise. Yes, if you want to be with this person in a year, it's good to understand his vision for the future. Not to ask him directly about marriage, children and cohabitation, but at least to know if he wants to be together, where he will study, how often you will see each other if you are not in the same city. Talk about your individual plans after 12th grade and discuss the extent to which your plans can be combined into a common one to follow. If you both have the same desires, for example, that you both want to live together next year, this will happen quite naturally. It's just nice to find out in advance who will study where and what. Why not stay together, start a family and the relationship kind of collapses ... it's not necessary at all. Many student relationships break down over time, but there are some which last a long time and become a healthy family. Anything can happen, the important thing is to discuss the big issues and find the golden mean.
you are all the same to me at 19 years old - children in women's bodies :)