Hello. I am a 14-year-old girl and a week ago I met a girl from the upper grades. We wrote to each other, but not so much ... At school we rarely greet each other. However, I started to like her and I don't stop thinking about her. She's a lesbian, but I'm not, and I wouldn't be. I've always fallen for boys. Maybe I like her because she has short hair and looks like a boy? I trusted three friends and shared that I like her and I am glad that they support me. Please help me.
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It's not very likely - you've gotten a little into movies by watching a lot of movies? There are proven reasons for gay men due to problems in embryonic development, but for lesbians there are no specific reasons. I think you get into movies at 14, it's too early for such questions.
I don't know, it's possible, but I don't believe it. At this age, everyone goes through many phases and moods, I guess in time it will pass. And if you're anything, already 60 percent of women are.
You may like it, but it doesn't have to be sexual. I am a man and I have several close friends who I love very much. But I love brotherly, not like people of the opposite sex. It's obviously the same with you. There are some people, at first glance, and you feel close to them and make friends with them. That, in my opinion. Otherwise, in my opinion, quite young girls / women are slightly bisexual. Even my girlfriend, who is completely hetero, slept with a woman.
Beware of such perversions. Bi and homosexuality are vices that greatly damage the brain, the body and the destiny of man. Don't read the dirty sites that plant sexual vices. Keep your virginity - it is a condition for your happy and successful future life.
I'm 20 years old, I also thought the same thing, and now I'm with a serious girlfriend, I don't think she's right or you're a lesbian or not, most of them are because they love sex and don't want to do it with only one sex…
Most likely you would. I first fell in love with a girl when I was 14. See if girls are generally attracted to you. Watch movies and scenes and you will understand. It takes time, it may or may not be a phase.
At such an age that it can be just a phase, which is perfectly normal. I am a girl of 17 and I have also had some such periods. Well, it may be that you really are, but it may pass. If you're curious, give it a try, right now is the time to explore, and yet, as Oscar Wilde said - the best way to get rid of temptation is to indulge in it :)
I find it perfectly normal. If something happens - enjoy it and don't think so much.
All people are basically bisexual (and psychologists see it that way). Don't care about pseudo-moralists. No one has the right to tell you who to like and love. If you enjoy acting !!!