Is it possible to forget love Especially the first, though impossible? Why every morning when I wake up and every night when I fall asleep the first thing I think of is him? Why, when I see him, I wonder where to turn and how not to look him in the eye? I pass him as if I don't know him, every time I see him I tremble, fortunately I'm a good actress and he has no idea how much I'm in love with him, I guess I'm good. I remember once we met with friends, I was standing on the side, neither talking nor looking at him, he came to me and asked me if you have a heart ?! Wow at that moment I felt like a freak, whether it was not just a pose given that he is a womanizer I find it quite difficult to believe him. At the same time, he is cold to all the girls he's been with, and he doesn't seem to care much for them. Yes, There was a story between us some time ago, but nothing happened, and it's quite difficult for me to explain it, I still think that he also feels something for me, but what if I'm wrong? If I just want him to feel something for me? If it's just a dream? If he loved me, why did he give up so easily, why did he go with my then "girlfriend"? Thousands of questions run through my head and torment me, whether I will ever understand them or it will always be so ...
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People say that first love is not forgotten. I have no opinion on the matter, but they say so ... If it is true, you will have to get used to the idea that you will not forget it. If you are one of the brave girls - talk to him. There is only one life, we must get the most out of it. So - act!
Hello, my first love is unrequited. The person I love doesn't pay any attention to me. We have known each other for 6 years and at first he had some feelings for me, but I did not respond to him and now it is the opposite. I don't know if first love is forgotten, but I sincerely hope it is forgotten. The greatest punishment for a person is to love, but not to respond to his feelings. I have been punished for 4 years now.
Maybe I forgot mine a long time ago :)
The first true love is not forgotten. It's just that after a while, a long time, it stops hurting when you think of the person. My first big love started when I was 17 and finally ended when I was 20. Since then we have seen each other only once, by chance, in common company. I'm 29 now and when I think of him, I'm still shaking. But the memory is no longer painful, as it was long after the separation.
I can't forget her and I don't know if I will ever be able to ... I love her very much with my heart and I hate her with my mind, but we will never be together !!! 22г. -man
They forget;)
It is possible. To forget your first love, you must want to forget it.
My first love as unhappy as yours, with a womanizer like yours ended in an unexpected way. For years I woke up and fell asleep thinking about this man. I did to others after him the same thing he did to me. I was annoyed when a boyfriend didn't like to scratch his back because he loved to. Finally I met the man next to me, my partner, as they say. And guess what. Eight years later, my first love remembered that he was already mature and ready for a real relationship with me. He chased me for 2 years. We sat face to face, I leaned against the wall, he wants to kiss me. I turned my head every time. And I have dreamed of these moments for years. Yes, I am completely healed of my first love. I have memories and experiences left, but nothing was the same anymore, and my love is different now and is focused only on one person and that is not him. Every love has its time ...
it is possible, and how! you just don't want to forget it and secretly hope to get together. in such cases it may not be exactly love, but self-winding and a wounded ego. if you truly believe that it is over, you will look at the world with different eyes. if it has not happened, then it will not happen. the sooner you accept it, the better for you btw: how come you don't like to sigh at someone for years? (I am not referring exactly to the author, she did not specify a deadline)
Number 2 and the author - and my first love was unshared and still is !! I fall asleep and wake up thinking about him, and on top of that I dream of him, and he is a womanizer who has no idea that his best friend 's cousin likes him madly! I hope to forget it one day!
For me personally, unrequited love is not true love. About the first love - I forget, I forgot it, although it was not easy for me. But I am completely convinced that there is a love that is unforgettable, ie the person - you always have pure love, thrill, emotion. Regardless of distances, years, circumstances. Bad
Number 10, I know how nasty it is. The man I love is not a womanizer, even most girls say he is ugly. I hope that you and I and everyone with unrequited love will be able to forget those who do not respond to our feelings, but I have the feeling that I will never forget it .. I love it so much .. Number 2
I support Bad. in unrequited love we think we are in love with the image we have built. I don't see how you can know a person without having an intimate relationship with him. it will work for you, author, when you really decide you have to forget it.
At the end of an adventure, shared or not, there are always many questions. Not right away, it's absurd, but once your grief or anger is over, you think about it and ... congratulations, there's something to shake your head about. I personally answer these questions myself, I know better than myself the people I care about, it is not difficult for me to answer myself if no one interferes with me and confuses my thinking. However, as Bad said, unrequited love is not quite real. If you don't talk to this person, if he doesn't show up in front of you and you can't telepathize for hours (next to each other, in silence, but you actually know all the words that aren't spoken), then you just don't really know him. And it turns out that you fall in love with a fictional image. You wear pink glasses all the time, you deceive yourself all the time and ignore important features, that in the end all this remains. NO, definitely not forgotten, neither love, nor man, nor everything that remains of the relationship. Therefore, a person has only 3 chances. 1- Over time, he simply ignores them, stops caring about them and becomes naughty. 2- There is always a small part of everything lost. As they say where there is a fire, there can always be sparks again ... 3- You answer everything yourself, because over time you experience other connections and fucked up friendships and you see the people around you, what they are, what they were like ... like this. Yes, try it. After you do everything possible - to get rid of the butterflies from your stomach. Things are passing. One day stop him in the corridors and tell him - Yes. The person will not remember what it is about, just tell him that you have a heart, explain to him why you stood aside, why you do not look at him, why you feel like a freak. Or for at least another year they expect the same torment,
The first is forgotten, but the only one - never!
The first love is never forgotten, but is experienced.
my first shared student love is from 1946 now the object and is 84 years old from 15 years is a widow with a son, daughter and granddaughters have long forgotten me bsamota and old age have pressed her and barely remembers the past
Those who are around 20 talk about first love. Older people, as already noted, talk about the difficult to overcome or as they call it the only one. No matter how much you think, no matter how much you wish it was past, there are moments when a moment can become an eternity. Long-forgotten memories can make your heart race when you go to your common place. You can change 10-20 people after him, but you compare them all with him, trying to make him better, but even if you do it smugly, it does not change the fact that he stays in the heart and causes a lot of conflicting emotions.
Hi, I'm 14 years old (boy). So far I had three boyfriends, I didn't love the first two, but 4 or 5 days ago I broke up with my 3rd boyfriend because I thought I fell in love with another. But the other girl turned out to be a prostitute. Now I can't forget her and I'm still sad. I hope to experience it. :(
And why did he tell you that you don't have a heart? If I were, I would tell him that I have a heart only for him - just to get him the movie and I would still be cold until he came to me. Otherwise, the first love is forgotten, ie you do not miss it and you do not need this person when you meet a greater love than him. Otherwise there is no chance to forget her! But that doesn't stop you from having fun and loving yourself;).
It's impossible. My first love was when I was 5. Strange or not, I've never been a "boyfriend" with this girl, and at the age of 6 I already had a mistress ... but anyway. This girl stayed forever .. somewhere in my heart, or where it is ... We studied for 7 years in one class, she also liked me, but nothing happened ... Now I'm 11th and I haven't seen her for about a year. I actually saw her a week ago, but pretended not to see me. So, what is the conclusion? .. Go ahead without thinking about him / her, because this feeling (love) can ruin your health. I guess alcohol and cigarettes help ... not much, but it's still something!
№ 23 "and at the age of 6 I already had a mistress" Who? No! O. o
The first love is not forgotten. I am 120% sure of that. And for the boy, if he behaves coldly with the other girls, then there is something, but if they are feelings or something else, you already have to talk and clarify about it and decide how you will proceed in front of you together or each on his way.
It is forgotten a thousand percent! You just have to meet the person who is 1001 percent! :)
I am writing for the first time on this site. My first love lasts for 4 years. Every winter we separate and every summer we get together. I can't and I don't want to forget him ... The problem is that he is not a womanizer and the mistake is always in me, and he forgives me every time .. It happens that in the winter I catch another supposedly serious friend, and he deals with some, but neither are serious nor are .. I cheat on my supposedly serious friends with him and always come back. I see the difference in his attitude towards others and towards me .. The first love is NEVER forgotten ... :)
it is forgotten, but whenever you hear her / his name it will be something very special from the other girls
The boy I like is my first love. Unshared. I have been trying to forget him for 2 years because I know that nothing will happen between us. It doesn't work ... As people have said, first love is not forgotten. For some it is a pleasant memory, for others - bad moments.
The boy I like is my first love. Unshared. I have been trying to forget him for 2 years because I know that nothing will happen between us. It doesn't work ... As people have said, first love is not forgotten. For some it is a pleasant memory, for others - bad moments.