Hello, I work in a small company where most people are either relatives or friends, only I was the new face. Unfortunately, a colleague slipped me to talk about what we like to do in our free time and word for word I told her that I dream of another profession. I know, pretty silly, but how do you think I should have gotten out of the situation Then I realized that she had discussed with third parties what I told her, which offended me a lot. Do you think we should share personal things with colleagues we know recently?
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I personally try not to do it. Of course, I don't mind talking about movies, music, trips, books, hobbies, sports - any such things that are personal interests or hobbies, but I try to avoid topics such as profession, whether I like the job and if I have a friend at the moment. to discuss him or my other friends. In general, it has happened to me to discuss things I did not want to say, and since then I have been careful what I say. You need to find a balance so that you do not look withdrawn and uncommunicative, but also do not share information that would harm you. Ana
Of course not. Don't trust anyone, you know who thinks what. You are not small, you know what you are doing but don't trust me, I know it from experience.
Absolutely no personal things are shared with colleagues, and nothing bad should be said about anyone. There are all sorts of intriguers and idiots who find the most harmless thing to get you in trouble to stand out. Now up your head. The fact that she discussed you means nothing but that she is some kind of gossip and that you have learned your lesson. You will do your job conscientiously. If they ask you something about your dream job, you smile and say, "Haha, just dreams."
it is important for everyone not to share their privacy. there is a story hidden milk cats do not eat it in all situations every word is interpreted and speculated differently - this is just advice
No, you should not share personal things with colleagues and you should expect people to be closer to their friends and relatives than to you if you are new to their lives.
Haha. Well, you are trapped in it. There is always competition between "colleagues" and everyone is trying to embarrass someone behind his back. This is especially true of women because they are cowards and unable to take responsibility, at least for the most part. And that's a very nasty trick for someone to take you to the boss. Burn your mind to what you are saying, because they may arrange you in such a way that you will wonder where it came from.
Well ... obviously NOT! you made your own conclusion, what do you ask the 4th person? !? !!
I don't think it's right, but in this case you didn't say anything bad. I don't like to share, but everyone is different. Most people are freer and don't care what they say.
Of course not! Universal rule - personal life is personal, professional - professional! And you should never share such things, even if you dream of another profession, do not say it! So you don't look motivated, and this can have a negative effect on you if an employer finds out. However, it hasn't happened, you can still get out of a situation by somehow connecting the two professions and explaining that you like what you do, and if they are two radically different things, you can specify that the other would rather have it as a hobby. Well, of course don't just say it, but only if there's a reason. Just let them know that you're happy with what you're doing and that's it.
Otherwise, what are you going to talk about? You share something, they share it with you. Just keep your mouth shut and don't comment too much on your colleagues and the nature of your work so that there are no intrigues and you get on your nerves ... Otherwise you can't stand like a temer and not communicate with anyone, can you? And you decide how many personal things to share and to whom
Okay, so then as the workplace is not about making friends, where do I make them? The friends I had from high school and university either went abroad or we moved away with time.
Of course, you can tie acquaintances at work. If you find a nice colleague with whom you like and become friends even better. But in general, do not accept that it is mandatory to be friends with the people you work with. You have a working relationship in the first place, and then you can eventually become friends. You can share things about your personal life with your friends, but not all your colleagues are your friends. Ana
11 - do not try to make friends with everyone, but only with those / the one you really like as a person and get to know him well!
Number 11, is she the author? The workplace is just a place to earn a living. The workplace is neither a dating club, nor a disco, nor anything else. To make friends, there is a lot written on this site, you need to dig deeper. But in short, enroll in a gym, a foreign language course or find an activity where you will meet people with interests similar to yours.
You should not share your plans and dreams about another profession without getting to know them if you do not want to be in the "unemployed" column. As you can see, she immediately released what you shared. This should be an earring on your ear for the front. Friends and boyfriends do not look where you make your living this is my advice! in.
I am not an author, but an author! I don't know why you automatically decided I was a woman? !! And 14 go to the gym not to make friends, but to train. Accordingly, a language course is not for dating, but for learning, and most people there have no interest in new acquaintances.
It depends on what the company and colleagues are. At work, I avoid sharing personal things, but most colleagues do, I just don't want to be so open to people I can't be friends with.
In my opinion, personal things should NOT be shared with colleagues in any way. Because sooner or later they will benefit from this information about you.
No personal things should be shared. I already suffered. I trusted the wrong person. He used the information against me.