Another disappointment, a day when a lump sat in my throat and I do not see the colors as they are. The pain doesn't stop, it suffocates me, but it doesn't kill me. I love, I love very much, but not enough. Love is for two, you can't love for the other. I understand, I'm not good enough for him, and there's nothing wrong with that. I just wonder why some people stay with someone they don't love. They see that the other is suffering and begging for love, but they stand and dig into the wound. It gets deeper and bleeds. Is it so hard to say that he just isn't the person for you? Let him go, let him go of this burden. Isn't it cruel to promise things you will never fulfill? One day burning with passion, the next stiffening like ice. Isn't it sadistic? I just love, I became attached, I dreamed and I lost. In fact, I always lose, it just happened. Sometimes i think that I do not deserve love, only pain. I know a lot of people are like that. I just don't understand why a person stays with you if he doesn't love you? To waste time, to steal feelings, to ruin and to chop inside the heart. What's the point? I am experiencing another disappointment and I am waiting for this day to pass. I hope I wake up and the pain is gone. Let me be different and don't care. I believe that one day this will happen. I just wanted to tell him to get out of me. I know nothing will change, he's ok I'm up to pieces. I wonder why people are like that, they don't appreciate anything, they just take it without giving. Finally, the other is to blame and they punish him with a lack of love and respect. I will get up again and go on, and he won't remember me, because I'm obviously so pathetic in his eyes. You must have been in such situations and you were in pain.
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How pathetic you sound, how hurt she is, how much she gave, and they didn't appreciate her. Am I tired of such stories in which only the other side is bad and guilty, and the author is pure as a "lily of the valley", at least be a little realistic and things will not be so bad. How is it overcome? Easy, I know it's all over and I'm moving forward, it's not a matter of choice (it shouldn't be), you stay and the person in question is to continue.
Come on, another one to reinforce the maxim that they love only by behaving like a rag with them. You are not enough for him, you are shorter, ugly, fat ... you will do everything for him, you will turn the world upside down, you will swim the oceans ... Oh, the downpour, if he decides to love you ... how quickly he will heal you from your illness. Brother.
There are many examples in which people come up with reasons not to go their own way and seek happiness on their own. We will never find the right words, the right place and time, no rule of action or exact advice. Sometimes the longer it is delayed, the harder it becomes. Everyone has the right to live his life according to his own rules and feelings. Often, inaction is worse than making the wrong decision.
Exactly the same thing happened to me. I got up and continued. I realized the truth - that he is a sick psychopath who can't really love, he's not a good person, and it was definitely wonderful that circumstances separated us and removed him from my life. He still tries to make me miserable, by the way, and to enter my personal life, but it doesn't work. I'm just much more aware than before, more powerful, happier, freer. Maybe each of us had a lesson to learn. And once we learn it, everything goes up :)
I'm in the same situation. I am a boy. I have no intention of leaving her. She doesn't care about me, but for me she is my whole world, the girl of my life, even though we've only kissed twice, I love her very much and I will always hope for something.
Yavtorke .. I understand you completely :)) I have the same situation .. but with a girl (I'm a boy) I can not understand .. I would give everything for her but she just dumped me .. and I believed that .. despite my shortcomings I would to respect her more than anyone else .. I would be the BEST .. THE MOST devoted .. THE MOST worthy of her love .. and she for mine .. BUT she ran away from her luck .. or she didn't appreciate me at all. or I'm a fool who is easily attached .. but it seemed to me that .. she was perfect .. so kind and tolerant (but alas .. she became a cruel executor of feelings ..) I may also have overestimated a lot of people. .that there is "the right person .. the hidden half ..!" I'm curious .. tell me about your story .. if I can know what happened .. it will be very interesting :) Thank you
He likes what you give him, so he doesn't leave. He likes himself when you are around. This is my opinion. For me, nothing helps and there is no happiness. If there is, it is short-lived and it is still ... I know, it is very difficult, I read what not, I try, I go this way. I hope we find the good. :)
It doesn't matter gender and women do it !!!
It's just that it's hard for people to give up benefits, even when it's clear to them that it's ruining someone else. Selfish to the end. But understand that doing something for someone does not oblige them to respond with love. Love is not "bought" that way. But if he can't reciprocate with elemental humanity and has the courage to be honest with you, then it's time to be erased from your life.