Many women just scream how they want a serious man to bond with, every man deals with someone. I am currently studying 3rd year and I don't care about boyfriends. I much prefer to go out to have fun with friends, to learn, to play sports or to indulge in my hobby. At what age I will be enslaved with someone at the age of 21. I can just outwardly like a boy or like each other as friends, but that's it. And yes, I'm still a virgin. I had a boyfriend in high school, we kissed, we almost had sex, we spent a long time. But the dramas came to me more. Every day some problem, unnecessary nerves. One day, when I decide, I will look. I'm not for one sex, but if I want so much - there are a bunch of toys for this purpose. I can't sleep with someone I don't love. And I don't want to commit now and in the near future. I prefer to rely on my education, carefree years and youthful emotions. Men will not end. They even often approached me with serious intentions, and I replied that I was not looking for a boyfriend at all. Besides, after high school, I haven't met anyone who would captivate me like that.
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Should we open compote for you? Live your life, have fun, no one makes you enslaved ?! (It's not the Middle East at 21 to fuck with 3 kids and a lifelong sadistic man, don't worry) with someone if you don't feel the need. You sound like an angry teenager kicking against society's expectations and wanting to prove himself a rebel, not like a mature man with an opinion. Poke your nose, get lazy, etc., but perfect relationships do not exist, so do not hide high hopes for such a thing. It is good that you have clear and firm principles, but do not exaggerate as if you are priceless and unattainable for the tramps and their "serious intentions". It gives the impression that you are bragging, not that you are just asking. And yet - yes, it's normal. There are many like you and there is nothing outrageous in not wanting a boyfriend. That,
You decide when to have a boyfriend. There is no rule that you must have.
You are still young, but at the age of 25 your biological clock may start wiggling, because your acquaintances will start to get married and give birth, and by the age of 30 you will hit the wall and cram yourself with chocolate ice cream and wine while crying, scrolling. facebook. It seems to me that someone is giving you trouble. Relatives? Don't pay attention to them, they are from another generation. However, it is not bad to have a child, you do not need to get married or live with a man. Just pick a race bull, get the job done and do it yourself. There are balaclavas to raise your child under the road and over the road if you see that you can't do it alone. Or you can throw it to your parents, as they want a grandchild so much and only know how to want it.
And I am of the opinion and I support you that you should not deal with things that you do not understand ... Wait calmly until 40-45, and then, eventually, see ...
Everyone determines their own life, I'm also 21, I'm also a 3rd year student, but I'm engaged. That's how I understand life. You understand it this way, I don't think it's a bad thing or that if you haven't met your boyfriend by now you will be 70 with 200 cats. Live so that you are happy and feel good in your own life.
This is your decision and you don't even need to comment on it or explain yourself to anyone ...
I don't understand, does someone tease you that you don't have a boyfriend, or are you annoyed that others want you? I will be a little rude, but I think directness is useful. You sound like someone who will be a virgin at 40. In principle, there is nothing wrong, especially if in principle you have no intentions for a relationship and family. However, if you want, it will become more and more difficult with the years and the lost experience. While you're wondering, the right men your age will be busy, and you won't have experience and you won't know how to keep in touch. This is the problem with your thinking, but the choice is yours, I doubt most people are particularly interested in your personal life. Otherwise, I recommend that you do not look so much at others, and if you are confident in your position, they will not bother you.
If you don't want to, ok. Does anyone oblige you? You will drive it like this until 30-35, time goes fast, now there are those who want to and you cut them, then with the years they will decrease, in the end no one will bother you. After 40 you will be able to rely on the company of a cat or puppy. You will be great in general!
Why is it not normal? Everyone lives the way they think is best for the moment. You are in your third year, you go out with friends, you study, you play great sports. After all, we are in the 21st century, there are no longer social norms when a person can start a family or have a serious relationship.