My boyfriend and I have been together for many years and we seem to love each other, but he is constantly jealous of me and we fight a lot. On the other hand, I can't have fun with him, I don't know why. I only have fun with my friends and WITHOUT HIM. Maybe I'm still young to commit and I want my freedom. But something always pulls me back and I stay with him. I can't with him, I can't do without him - that's exactly how I feel, but there is no middle ground. I love him, I can't do without him, but I'm young and I want my freedom. He has given me a lot, he is in love a lot and he can't do without me. Whether to 'fly out of the cage' as a part of me wants or to try to change for the sake of love. I can't make a decision, but I can't go on like this. Please advice.
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I think it would be better to separate. In the future, you will still hope that it will change, but this is unlikely to happen. I also hold the person next to me very much and I try not to hurt him. I don't think I gave myself a chance to be happy that way. Too responsible and not decisive and unhappy. I chose this life for myself. Think hard before you become like me.
Be with him if you love him!
How are you going to change like that for a man? Have mercy on yourself! You are unique and unrepeatable, you should not try to change, it will ruin you. And you know, it's going to get worse over the years.
She doesn't read what it says 3. by her logic if men say "How are you going to change like that for a woman", then what happens? Each is unique and unrepeatable, but all must change for each other. You can't get along 100% with someone from time to time. Everyone must give way. She ruined herself if she only wanted her husband to change and give in. In this situation, there is no way he can get better. damage I say one more thing: "I can't" is always written separately !!!
5. You want to live with a man and be like a family, don't you? Why do you want to have so much fun? You say you're too young. You really look like today's students who hate school because it's not fun and interesting. However, school is a necessity for every child. Family life is responsibility, care, patience and deprivation. And in all this, the spouses must find their happiness. Family is not necessary, but everyone needs it. Land and think sober and more mature. Success!
Number 4, I'm number 3. You know a lot! The thing is there to make compromises, not to try to change our partner, because a person is born with character! I have 2 children, I looked after them the same, but by nature they have nothing in common! And when only one makes compromises - things are hopeless! 27And don't pretend to be very literate! There are more literate people here than you, I'm sure of that!
Number 6, I'm number 4. If you could read, you'd see that I didn't write anywhere "EVERYONE needs to change for each other." Otherwise it does not happen. You are right dear, everyone is born with his character, but he is constantly changing. Especially how you raise the child and in what environment he falls. And you can't have seen the same thing, at least that the second one already has a dad / poop.