No, I'm not sinless. Surely I could have treated her differently in some situations. But I don't think I've crossed boundaries. Yes, I loved her, but I didn't show it the way she wanted me to because I am. Years ago, I swallowed my feelings for another with whom we had more in common. It was very difficult for me. I did it for her sake, not to betray her, because I held on to her, because I didn't want to become a scumbag, because I had chosen her. I made quite a few compromises. I invested as little as I could. Now, it turns out that everything was pointless. She stabbed me in a difficult time for me. She threw everything lightly in the dump, showing everything as a tramp, the man she had been with for years ... I don't know if she has changed or been hiding. Now I wonder if I shouldn't have been selfish? Because being loyal is obviously not worth it ...
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Have you ever wondered why you continue to be with someone who humiliates you? Okay, you love her, of course, but when one thing starts happening again and again, you forgive again and continue with the same person - man / woman, you stab yourself. She knows your weaknesses and when something doesn't turn her around she knows exactly where to aim. Because you will be angry, angry and in the end you will forgive again. She will come to you again and ask for love, you will give it to her again and the wheel will start turning again. Think well and find the mistakes in both you and her. Success! Girl
Sometimes it's worth it, sometimes it's not. There is no way to know it in advance. You could have gone with the other, she would have betrayed you even worse, and now you could write here why I was not loyal. Act according to what it is now, you can neither return it to the other, nor predict how it would develop.
Well, personally, when I stop feeling feelings for someone, I just leave him. I am not like a mass of other people who wait to meet a new person and only then abandon their current one or even more - the brutal and common - cheat. I don't know if this sucks or doesn't make me. Maybe loyal to the truth? ;) ж30
Unpleasant story, but head up. You were loyal because of your attitude towards yourself, self-esteem, if you will. And they stabbed me at a difficult time when I needed support the most. That's why it's family and friends. In the end, you come out stronger than before. Whether you continue to be loyal is up to you, and I don't think we can or have the right to judge you for this or that. Be true to yourself and your own sense in the first place.
Unfortunately, we become nasty and unscrupulous when a new person appears next to us, and we don't care if he is suitable or not, because we know that after we have suffered, it is better to be selfish with everything else. See, just because one betrayed you doesn't mean the other will, don't put everyone under one denominator, because the day will come when you'll regret doing what you did, you thought it was right. We are all sinners, there are no sinless ones, even when you do good, you still remain a sinner. Do not set barriers, listen to your heart, not by leading instincts. -Elizabeth, 20
№1 I haven't been with her for months. The pain of the relationship is not over yet. An attitude I don't think I deserve. I am left with the feeling that I have just been used for years. I'm not saying I'm sorry I was loyal and honest. But it was obviously a mistake ..... The author
It's not worth being loyal to one person, I understood that the hard way.
P. s. I loved and I was trampled, humiliated, offended ...
Delete the people who don't care about you and go on, at least I did
The most important thing is to watch '' WHO ARE YOU? ''. Are you loyal? Are you a good person? If so, then be it whether it hurts you or not.
Just because you've come across a warrant doesn't mean that from now on, you have to be an asshole and not be loyal to the next one, because the next one won't be guilty of anything. In fact, most women don't get up, but you don't need much, just one to get up. With a few tries you will find it. The first few may not happen, but this is normal given that the missing are higher. So do not despair and be patient. If you go to change or despair, it will get worse. Take it as a test that you must resist without getting angry, despairing, and changing. A test of your patience and optimism. Also, make sure that you do not have a fixed idea to meet the right person, because this will take you far away from the goal. Just give it more calmly and patiently.
Number 1: Don't regret anything. You leave bad people and things behind. They are past. Look at what is now in front of you.
“Now I wonder, shouldn't I have been selfish?” Hi, my opinion is that you shouldn't make any compromises, sacrifices and the like for a woman if she doesn't reciprocate, that is, the relationship must be reciprocal or you will suffer . If you give and she only takes, these are toxic relationships in which only they use.