Hello. My story is long, but I will try to tell it briefly. Almost a year ago I met a boy 98 set (I'm 01) next to mutual friends. It so happened that we got together. Somehow things were not going well, there was still no time for me, etc., but some small things showed real feelings. We were together for 1 month, after which I found out that he had secretly seen his 45-year-old ex and I left him. Half a year later, he came back into my life with the words "I still have feelings for you." We talked a lot and I dumped a good boy, with whom I went for 4 months to return to the boy X. So, we got together, his boy and girl friends, who were mine until now, hated us because of the injured dumped boy. However, we lived together and it was all flowers and roses called him, except for one long-awaited pregnancy test result. Even before we saw one line, he was prepared for 2 and talked about how he wanted a family with me and even if I got pregnant at that age he would not leave me. Well, it was June and I had to go to relatives for the summer, and he had to stay in the capital because he was working. At first we understood each other, but then the distance took us away. We broke up. I broke up with him this time too. 2 weeks ago I returned to Sofia and he screamed to see me. I don't know how I caught fire again. We got together, but we don't stop arguing about nonsense. I don't feel like I can trust him. Also, the boy and girl mentioned above are currently friends with him and we hide that we have reunited. And they don't like me at all and often insult me in front of him. Is it worth staying with him? to fight for our relationship and often ignore my stubbornness and pride, as well as my doubts? I feel that his feelings are not as strong as before, but at times I feel the spark that kept the fire burning the second time we were together. He is my first love and I don't want to give up so easily, but it's as if we've become too estranged. My lack of trust is killing me.
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If he was a boy, he wouldn't do such nonsense. Drop it is not worth it there are much better men than him. I want a family, and as far as I understand, I think he said it was 2001, which means he's 17. If so, don't be so naughty and his friends are some kind of drummers even when they insult him. CHARGE IT! Not worth it ! Female 25 years old
From the author - not 2001, but 1998. I'm 2001. I know there are much better men, but somehow I can't do without him and every time I tell him I want to end, I give in and go back to him. . And I know that if he was a boy on the spot he wouldn't do anything stupid, but it's not easy for him either and I understand him and I try to help him as much as I can.
From the author again - about his friends (my friends before too) he has already stopped contact with them once, because of me. It is true that it was not his wish, but he resigned himself to not being on good terms with them in order to be with me again. He even told me he wouldn't risk losing me a second time for something like that. Well, the third time he's obviously decided to combine the two.
Drop it while you still can, at 17, don't let love ruin your life. Guys never change. A boy of 22.
I don't know who he is, but this boy is only 20, what family like you is 17? Kid? And the school, the future? You are very young and young, if you love each other - love each other, but it's too early for your children :) Don't be fooled, and he can lie, and if he does - just disappear. You are young, he may like you, he may lie, but no children grow up first!