Hello! :) I regularly read the stories published here. I will try and be as brief as possible before I go in the wrong direction with action. And so briefly my story .. I have a friend of 1 year and a half. I liked it when I saw it, although ok. We were just friends for 8 months. Fiery love - so sincere and pure. He was everything to me. It was a tender caress after crying, the warm embrace you need in moments of loneliness, it was the support and spiritual support, the laughter and the sparkle in my eyes ... In a word, it was amazing. I wanted to be with him every second just like him. He was constantly looking for me and took every minute to be with me. He was obviously a dream man, so now he's just daydreaming. It was like that until 2 months ago, when I found out that he had written to a girl, that they were dating, that he liked her, and so on. It was very hard for me - he was amazing. It is close to the mind that it will not remain so. A few days later I asked him and of course he denied everything. After that, however, I was terribly angry with him - to such an extent that I looked at his messages on Facebook while he was gone. Of course, he had my password, but not mine, and then I understood why. I had nothing to hide, I was loyal to him and rejected everyone with rude behavior, while he wrote to every 2nd girl ... Less than a week later, when I saw his text messages ... From the first, which was addressed to a girl, a leading friend of mine, with whom I was sitting at the same table, with = I just cried. And so the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc. followed with the text messages, maybe there was no end after I showed them to him, he took the phone, got away from me and for about 30-40 minutes deleted everything while I was just sitting speechless .. However, he did not change his attitude for months - he became the opposite of himself. Now whatever I ask him makes me angry, tc-ka, etc. Even a question like How are you? or What does it do? it makes him angry. For a month now, whatever he asks me, I have to give him a detailed account of how I did it, where, with whom, and when I answer a question, I ask him. I never believed it would happen, but here it is. He just hasn't smiled at me in weeks, I can feel the coldness he radiates. I don't know what this is due to. I did not give him reasons for jealousy and I always treated him well. I just can't stand such an atmosphere, so I don't even impress him anymore, I just don't care. Please advice. What to do? Will things get better or just doesn't make sense? I tried to talk to him, oh he denies having anything ... I hope you publish my story. :)
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He took you for granted. Well, show him you're not. Pay him less time, no reports and work. You don't owe him though. Who doesn't know how to behave, send him to hell.
You catch a question whose answer you know yourself
Of course it's not worth it. She said herself - he wrote to every second, he went out with others. What greater proof than that you want is not for you? Do what you want ... but it's surprising to me that you stayed for 1 year once you bleed on every one you met ...
Look for the calf under another ox ... here the job is done! While in love a person sees himself in the other, and when falling in love passes - he sees his true nature. If you have not only been able to keep in touch, but you have not even been able to learn to speak honestly - there is no chance. You will learn these things, but later with other people. Nothing fatal - such is life!
Dear girl, it's not worth staying with him! Unfortunately, men do not love devoted women, take them for granted and begin to appreciate them only when they lose them. Nothing will be the same as before. You will not be able to forgive yourself despite your great desire. In time you will learn. that men are hunters. For that ... run to him to catch up with you! Have your own life different from his and then you will be interesting to him, do not please him, let him know that you value yourself more than him, hurt him! Play his game! Men are like a shadow, the more you run away from them the more they follow you. Success!
To 4. Yes it is, but I just can't part with it. He wanted time - he got it. I think it was just a temporary thing. In a few words, he killed everything I believed in. Now we're just on the edge, half-separated. That's why he began to realize and rethink everything.
I don't think you understand me. :) Everyone has a thrill in their life, a thrill they can't live without. HE IS MINE.
Honey, it's like I wrote this, with the difference that I was pregnant when it happened .... run while it's time - I realized it late and now I'm forced to stay with him because our people don't want me back with the child ....
Author, I sympathize with you :( And so am I. Things do not change, they get worse. We have been together for 4 years. Things are at high tide with us. But we do not have the respect and trust. It just does not make sense.
Number 1, not that they failed, so they have nothing to manage. The man is such a womanizer. He obviously lives for falling in love or just enchants girl after girl. He gets tired of one - the other, etc. And as for the author - she knows what she wants from life, and in my opinion, she is not guilty of anything. It's just that he's such a pathetic semblance of a "man". He doesn't know what he wants from life, he lies to a beautiful girl and just makes fun of her love. to her already, etc. But he took advantage of the fact that he had access to the author's Facebook and began to arrange meetings with her friends. There is nothing more vile than that! Author, you don't need one. He does not know what he wants from life. One Boy-20y.
Hello! It makes no sense for me to continue with this relationship! However, you are the one who has to decide! The boy or the man / I don't know how old you are / doesn't respect you at all when he writes to other girls behind your back and goes out with them. Even more so with your girlfriends. Drop the best and get rid of these "girlfriends" from your life, I've come across such and I can tell you from experience that I was relieved when I broke off all contact with them. I found myself in an almost identical situation to yours - the man I was with was looking for other girls behind my back, and at the same time taking down my stars. Women are more emotional and act according to their feelings mostly, you were in love and did not notice what was happening around you ... For me as a woman is the better option that I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because I kept my dignity and self-esteem you are like a woman which has value and is not ready to pray for someone's love; my inner peace was more important to me. Think about it, everything has two sides - both good and bad - in this case, you may have gained more than you lost. When someone truly loves you, he fights for you. You are not guilty of anything and you are not obliged to give him explanations, because you did not go to get along with others. He is the one who should earn your trust again. And a relationship without trust is not built. Maybe this is a chance to start your life fresh! GOOD LUCK!!! You are not guilty of anything and you are not obliged to give him explanations, because you did not go to get along with others. He is the one who should earn your trust again. And a relationship without trust is not built. Maybe this is a chance to start your life fresh! GOOD LUCK!!! You are not guilty of anything and you are not obliged to give him explanations, because you did not go to get along with others. He is the one who should earn your trust again. And a relationship without trust is not built. Maybe this is a chance to start your life fresh! GOOD LUCK!!!
There is no point in continuing to torment yourself. This person has already betrayed your trust. even if things improve between you in time, from where you can be sure that the same story will not happen again. I guess you are a young and beautiful girl, you will find a new friend who will respect and honor you. it is always difficult to make such a cardinal decision, but think about your alms better to suffer a little now than it will then be a lifetime and more terrible with this person, this is still the beginning of your coexistence and he is already ruining it.
Hello! :) Thank you all for your feedback. I appreciate it. However, somehow I want to talk to him first and clarify everything. I've known him for more than 2 years and he's just kind of not what he is now. No one has a bad word for him, except those who liked me. If it turns out that it continues and still looks around, I will keep my word and just leave it. It happened once - then he fought for me and appreciated me, showed that he loves me - it will happen a second, if necessary. Thank you, you are great! I wish you a light and successful day. :)
Author, I'm in a similar situation and I'm still wondering what to do and I'm thinking of giving him some time for my mold to realize, and if he doesn't, I'll fuck him up. A few days ago I caught him in a slightly sneaky way, that he writes to other women and claims that he is not engaged and without explanations and scandals I told him not to care anymore. But he came home after 10 minutes to talk, I chased him but he was very persistent and I was inclined to give him a chance. The second time you catch him in any shoot, there will simply be no forgiveness. It may be foolish of me to give a chance once I have been trusted, but I will wait to see what will be done. After all, what is my guarantee that the next one won't be even worse and maybe I won't catch him doing them behind my back at all. These relationships are a complicated thing and once again I am convinced
About 16. Yes, that's exactly what I did. I'm sure there will be no shoots, hopefully ... otherwise the bag and the road. Being really good to people is not always good for you. I think our problem is that we have too much patience where we shouldn't .. :)
If he is annoyed by all your questions, then he is hiding something! It's not worth leaving it and looking for another. I know it's hard but he doesn't respect you for writing to others and behaving like that! good luck
Благодаря на всички:) Оказа се, че има (най-вероятно, но не сигурно) друга и така изяде се и той пожела да ре разделим. Какво да ви кажа просто никога не съм го вярвала, а аз съм сигурна, че ще съжелява.. но ова по-късно. Каза ми, че просто ей така за 1 ча чувствата му били изчезнали. Аз не му вярвам зад очите му се криеше тъга, сякаш някой нарочно го кара да върши това. Аз реших да мине известно време и когато започвам да му липсвам мисля просто да го спечеля, да ме хареса отново, но тогаша да съм в чужди ръце. Когато обичам някого не го лъжеш и не го предаваш, най-често той предава теб. Докато бях с него не обръщах внимание на никой, дори на хората около себе си. Сега разбирам колко добри момчета е имало около мен, които са готови да ми помогнат. Ревах 3 дена без спиране, без дори да мога да мигна, но днес, едва толкова скоро, просто разбрах че няма смисъл. Мога да рева месеци за него просто той все още е всичко за мен, но сега, когато си отварям очите и виждам хората коло мен... ще посветя следващите месени на учене, а мъжа, който ще дойде само Господ може да каже кой ще е. Сега чувствам ужасна болка, но разбирам, че няма смисъл просто не си заслужава и така.. Вече дори и не мога да заплача не знам какво стана но не мога нещо просто не ми позволява.. Аз просто исках някой, който да е бодър и честен, да оценява нещатамно уви явно това е твърде много за един човек. Чувствам само безразличие.. Както са казали хората "Съдбата винаги знае с кой да те събере и от кой да те отдалечи за твое добро. " Лека вечер на всички и ви благодаря ужасно много за мненията - напълно прави сте! :) 11 - Дано да има повече мъже, мислещи като теб.
As a woman in a situation like yours, I just want to tell you: That you are at least lucky that he has come to tell you the end! Mine has been bothering me for 3 months now and although I can see very clearly how things are, I can't ignore my feelings (I tried several times), but maybe he is also to blame for continuing to cover my eyes with his explanations in love, But only explanations that are not lined with action. Which makes me go crazy and hate myself for being so weak and my feelings overpowering my mind. So, darling, I know that you still hope that he will return and that you will want what is happening to be just a test for your love, you better give in and try to really bury yourself in learning (if you can, I never succeed). If you really love each other, the time will come when you will be together. But he must realize your mistake, and one realizes his mistakes when he suffers. When you attack this person, you don't have a chance to really stay alone and find out what he did. I sincerely hope that you will be stronger than me and that you will not give control over your feelings and seek it! I am convinced that this man will look for you!
Towards 20: On the contrary, he covered up like that and didn't come to tell me, and when he came to say no end without explanation, he was already far away. And yet, it is only now that I realize what a fool he really is and how much he loves to lie. In fact, I am a bigger fool than him, because I allowed him to crush me and now he is looking for me in 1 week and claims that he was wrong, that he was a fool, but he is lying again and this is obvious the next day ...
Girls, don't let monkeys make you losers without principles and dignity. You've been in love - well, I think almost everyone has been in at least one relationship where the other just takes advantage of your feelings and weakness and makes you an idiot in one way or another. The point is to force yourself to put an end to it, even if it is super difficult. And time will surely heal you! One learns exactly from such naughty relationships and then appreciates the good when you meet him!
When I touched him with similar writings addressed to other girls, I told him to leave me alone. I blocked it from everywhere and didn't want to hear it. Naturally, after that I gave him a second chance and now he is the nicest and most attentive man in the world. This has been going on for months. But he is aware that there will be no second forgiveness for the next shoot. I'm not sure he won't start lying to me, but at least he knows what will happen next.
One in 100 changes, in the others it is temporary until the storm subsides and they continue again as they know ... M 31
22 That's right!
Abe has a double standard here, it seems. I have read similar articles by boys and most rank it as complex, how it can read correspondence, etc. But know that boys also have feelings and suffer and are jealous and hurt. Let us be more in solidarity with the sadness of ALL people. Regarding the case - this is an absolute la ** ar!