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Is My Boyfriend Gay?

By anyasteele__ May 18, 2020 11 answers Last updated May 18, 2020

Hello, 27-year-old woman, my boyfriend is 28. He's had a 7-year relationship before me, and he's been with me for eight months. Right at the beginning of our relationship, I knew he liked transvestites (shemale). I'm pretty shaken up in bed and I talk to him about it, I tell him to run his own pornography and watch while we're having sex while I'm giving him whistles, etc., in general, without any restraint. I never refused anything.

One day I accidentally decided to look at his story in Gugul, and I saw that he was secretly watching such pornography and advertisements for transvestites, although I always had him tell me everything, exactly in this aspect. I asked him why he was doing it, and he said he thought I was going to tell him that he was overdoing those e-mails and that it was too much. Since then, just when he looked at something like that, we always do it together. Me, too, it excites me so much, it excites me that he's so twisted. So far so good. But recently he asked to put on my thong, to be like a "shemale".

And it got me really excited. He used to tickle me, his butt, sometimes he makes me want to mess it up, and he told me he wants me to teach him to screw there. He told me he wanted to paw a transvestite. It's twisted, I like it, but I'm starting to think, is it gay..? I play his gay-sex--She's not getting excited. I've offered him threes with a man, a woman, a shemale--she doesn't want to, you can't watch someone else touch me. I got so excited when we were fighting, he just saw me, and I've seen how he's doing. From the side of excitement there is nothing more to be desired by it. What do you think you're on about it?

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ashleyderek answered · May 18, 2020
Well, look... No smoke without fire. A man who has no desire to have sex with animals, for example, will never go to search on the net such, hide, etc.
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hotcouple_1234 answered · May 18, 2020
Is my boyfriend gay? Obviously. There are women who are unable to accept the dominant presence of real men and prefer the company of more metrosexual men, then discover that they are disguised as gays or daders.
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watchingyourcams answered · May 18, 2020
He's not gay. He's just with his preferences. Buy a penis belt and have fun. In the end, he wants you not with a man. It's strange to be, but what's the significance after you're good to both.
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texassexstudent34 answered · May 19, 2020
I wonder what difference does it make to your friend? Or do you want to just have a label? Apparently, you're pretty neat.
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isabelhills answered · May 20, 2020
No, it's just a fantasy that doesn't even want to happen. He's not the only one who likes things like that, but a lot of people won't admit it.
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wildasslove4u answered · May 20, 2020
He's not gay, he's bisexual!
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kogi_and_wellion answered · May 21, 2020
Gay-hardly, but see... i.e. Likes both men and women.
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sophiemeow answered · May 21, 2020
My friend is pretty much the same as yours. Just have less common, more different desires.
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isabellaelectrum answered · May 22, 2020
Homosexuals are the people who get aroused by their own sex. Does your boyfriend turn on men? If he's not, he's straight. If yes, it's bisexual because it obviously excites him and women. There are many things that are nice to both Homo and heterosols. The whistles. Sex. Handjob. Kissing. Eating ice cream. Drinking beer. Breathing. The fact that homosexuals like a certain sexual technique does not automatically make everyone who likes it a Homo. It's just an understanding of causal relationships. Grandpa The Boogeyman
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_anniehope_ answered · May 23, 2020
Your friend likes transgender, crossdress, Sissy, Femboy and others. These are people who behave, grimace, manicerate like women. They radiate a strong femininity and passion in order for someone to dominate them, which causes the real males to go crazy hormonal, in other words-to hear them * * * as a rag. Your friend is not a homosexual, because being like that means wanting a relationship emotionally with a man, meaning wanting to be a family. Your friend is a dominant type
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hairyredslover answered · May 23, 2020
Relax, your boyfriend is neither gay nor bisexual. To excite the TRANSS (she-mails) has absolutely nothing to do with the intreatment of men. However, I think you should take it easy to get a grip on it, because in this way its energy passes somehow apart from you, and in this sense it reminds you of the infidelity. Well, as far as ONANIZMT can be considered a kind of infidelity...-Pretty harmless. But I think his excitement needs to start and end with you, that's the classic. As an option, you can try to screw him with a strapon, and make him suck your dick when I want to blow a shemale. Maybe this will satisfy him completely.