Hello! :) Since this is a site for sharing and tips, I decided to describe my problem. There is something in me that worries me. It has existed for as long as I can remember, but it is only now that I have begun to wonder if it is not some kind of mental burden. I've always had a special feeling for the things in life, maybe the so-called hypersensitivity. I mean, I feel the people and things in life in a special way. Also the world as a whole. When someone suffers, I feel his pain as if I am suffering myself. For example, I can't miss the bug that has fallen on its back and is desperately trying to stand up, and so on. It is unpleasant for me to communicate with aggressive and malicious people, because I feel too strongly the negative energy that flows from them. But my main problem is that I feel that I understand others more than I should. That I see things in people, which others cannot or do not want to see. And the bad thing is that I've been like this since I was little and I don't know if I will be able to change. I remember the first time I felt someone else's pain. One of the children in the kindergarten fell and was seriously injured. He cried and I cried with him. I do not know why. I just felt his grief. Then there was a period when I didn't care much for others. I didn't feel sorry for anyone or anything. I was only interested in myself. Today my problem is that I look at things differently again. I feel someone else's pain as if it were mine. I experience the problems of my relatives and friends, even strangers, as if they were mine. I feel people's moods too much. Soon I even got angry with the negative radiation of a stranger. I had the feeling that clouds of hatred and aggression were floating in the air around her. You must already describe me as a freak :) and you wonder what kind of nonsense I am writing. Maybe you're right :) So, I'll tell you that I've been trying to be like most people for a while. To lock my heart to pity, humanity and other similar humanity there. I try to learn to hate others, to look at them as rivals. Not to follow any rules and to live at the expense of others. I want to be like everyone else. Not to care about anything and not to feel the things of life in this special way that I described above. However, the stray dog, which is frantically tearing the sausage shell taken out of the bucket, is still not just another cougar for me. And the suffering, lonely being, deprived of love, home and caress. The grim and stunted faces of people in public transport and on the streets, their quiet sighs, unheard and unseen by anyone, continue to torment my heart. Their empty and disillusioned looks still make my blood cool. I can't describe in words what I feel. And a little more :) The other thing that excites me is whether it is possible that there is no love. Has it completely disappeared from people's hearts Why we have all become endless egotists. In essence without hearts. In machines driven only by passion and the desire to satisfy it at any cost. In people ready to throw the person next to them like a handkerchief. To steal his love and then spit on it, like something disgusting dug out of the garbage of life. So what I want to know is, do I have a psychological problem or am I just hypersensitive. Has anyone encountered a disease like mine. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. they continue to torment my heart. Their empty and disillusioned looks still make my blood cool. I can't describe in words what I feel. And a little more :) The other thing that excites me is whether it is possible that there is no love. Has it completely disappeared from people's hearts? Why we have all become endless egotists. In essence without hearts. In machines driven only by passion and the desire to satisfy it at any cost. In people ready to throw the person next to them like a handkerchief. To steal his love and then spit on it, like something disgusting dug out of the garbage of life. So what I want to know is, do I have a psychological problem or am I just hypersensitive. Has anyone encountered a disease like mine. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. they continue to torment my heart. Their empty and disillusioned looks still make my blood cool. I can't describe in words what I feel. And a little more :) The other thing that excites me is whether it is possible that there is no love. Has it completely disappeared from people's hearts? Why we have all become endless egotists. In essence without hearts. In machines driven only by passion and the desire to satisfy it at any cost. In people ready to throw the person next to them like a handkerchief. To steal his love and then spit on it, like something disgusting dug out of the garbage of life. So what I want to know is, do I have a psychological problem or am I just hypersensitive. Has anyone encountered a disease like mine. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. Their empty and disillusioned looks still make my blood cool. I can't describe in words what I feel. And a little more :) The other thing that excites me is whether it is possible that there is no love. Has it completely disappeared from people's hearts? Why we have all become endless egotists. In essence without hearts. In machines driven only by passion and the desire to satisfy it at any cost. In people ready to throw the person next to them like a handkerchief. To steal his love and then spit on it, like something disgusting dug out of the garbage of life. So what I want to know is, do I have a psychological problem or am I just hypersensitive. Has anyone encountered a disease like mine. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. Their empty and disillusioned looks still make my blood cool. I can't describe in words what I feel. And a little more :) The other thing that excites me is whether it is possible that there is no love. Has it completely disappeared from people's hearts? Why we have all become endless egotists. In essence without hearts. In machines driven only by passion and the desire to satisfy it at any cost. In people ready to throw the person next to them like a handkerchief. To steal his love and then spit on it, like something disgusting dug out of the garbage of life. So what I want to know is, do I have a psychological problem or am I just hypersensitive. Has anyone encountered a disease like mine. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. ) The other thing that excites me is whether it is possible that there is no love. Has it completely disappeared from people's hearts? Why we have all become endless egotists. In essence without hearts. In machines driven only by passion and the desire to satisfy it at any cost. In people ready to throw the person next to them like a handkerchief. To steal his love and then spit on it, like something disgusting dug out of the garbage of life. So what I want to know is, do I have a psychological problem or am I just hypersensitive. Has anyone encountered a disease like mine. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. ) The other thing that excites me is whether it is possible that there is no love. Has it completely disappeared from people's hearts? Why we have all become endless egotists. In essence without hearts. In machines driven only by passion and the desire to satisfy it at any cost. In people ready to throw the person next to them like a handkerchief. To steal his love and then spit on it, like something disgusting dug out of the garbage of life. So what I want to know is, do I have a psychological problem or am I just hypersensitive. Has anyone encountered a disease like mine. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. In machines driven only by passion and the desire to satisfy it at any cost. In people ready to throw the person next to them like a handkerchief. To steal his love and then spit on it, like something disgusting dug out of the garbage of life. So what I want to know is, do I have a psychological problem or am I just hypersensitive. Has anyone encountered a disease like mine. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. In machines driven only by passion and the desire to satisfy it at any cost. In people ready to throw the person next to them like a handkerchief. To steal his love and then spit on it, like something disgusting dug out of the garbage of life. So what I want to know is, do I have a psychological problem or am I just hypersensitive. Has anyone encountered a disease like mine. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me. Thank you for your attention! :) I will be happy to answer me.
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It's too long and tedious to read, but I still read it through. I've been the same for as long as I can remember and I don't think I'm quite right. I make a great effort to become a non-Pukist and I have had satisfactory results for some time.
You definitely don't have a problem, you just have to learn to control this hypersensitivity or in other words to find a balance, which is a bit difficult at the beginning but you will get used to it. There are many others like you, the so-called empaths - those who feel the emotions and feelings of others around them. However, everything is a matter of practice and control, many times I inadvertently "enter" so to speak in people's feelings, and not because we burden ourselves unnecessarily and then lose valuable energy that we can use elsewhere.
What disease are you talking about ??? I want to tell you something: Thank you for having you! Dear girl, don't you dare close your heart. I'm glad there are still people like you. This restores my hope that the world is not completely lost. I understand that it is hard for you to feel other people's emotions, but the truth is that we should all be like that. Precisely because we close ourselves in, there are more and more sad, angry, etc. people. And don't doubt that there is love - of course there is, it's just that all of us "insensitive beings" sometimes forget about it. Believe, don't stop believing, don't stop being who you are and I hope there are others like you.
Hello! Your letter excites me greatly. The way you describe all this vortex in your soul is amazing. Here is the purity and your selfless motives for everything that surrounds you (us). I want to tell you that I don't think of you as the "crazy" others who pass by those in trouble without a drop of regret. They are the people who need help - they have become too much. I am also a person brought up in such values and I can tell you that I had a period in which I also think that with them my parents did me a "bear service", but I was convinced that there are still people who appreciate them and me understand. Do not try to change, but find people around you to share with - this is the easiest way out of this painful situation in my opinion.
God forbid many like you. Of course there is love - you carry it in you. I am also very compassionate, but more towards animals than people. We humans build our own happiness or unhappiness.
You are gifted to help - God bless you and give you the strength to endure the pain of others
Hello! I want to confirm that I have had such a problem and I am very upset because at some moments I feel very bad and I should be happy. And on top of that, everyone thinks I'm the opposite, but it's not.
I have almost the same problem for you, but I think it's more of a gift. As unpleasant as this hypersensitivity has a positive side, in fact the positive is more than the negative, if you use this ability to help people, as I do, you will feel great satisfaction, you will feel useful. For me, the problem is a little different, I feel people's emotions, in fact I see them more because I don't experience them like you, I see the reason why these emotions are caused, but anyway. My thought is that if you try, for example, when you feel anger or sadness in a person to make a nice gesture, be it a greeting to a stranger .. or when you see the dog on the street struggling alone and unhappily caressing him in a few words Show that you care about the world around you .. .
Hi, I was amazed by what I read as if part of this text I wrote it: D because I feel the same way. But it's a little harder for me because I'm a boy and this hypersensitivity doesn't do me any good: D Somehow it's not very nice to see a 15-year-old boy crying because immediately some complex will say: "Look, this gay man is crying" And I don't I'm :(. But it's kind of good to be sensitive, because in some moments when your friends feel bad and you know the feeling you can help her :) to overcome the pain. But I already started behaving like the others, I started to be neutral. I do not think that this "gift" should be forgotten, but should be well disguised. I wish you all the best and don't stop being yourself :)
Yes, we really need to learn to control our sensitivity. But it is also true that there is a need for people like us. We stayed a little, and maybe we are not so little, but we are hiding. This is not bad. I'm glad we're not so angry and aggressive. Not everything can be achieved with fists and battles. Selfish people are good for themselves. Unfortunately, they create the laws and rules that we are obliged to follow and abide by these rules, even though we do not like them. But the important thing is to be human and to try to understand people, to love them and to be empathetic to everything around us. And let each of us contribute to making people better, if that's up to us.
I can't believe what you wrote, I'm exactly, exactly the same as you, at one point I started to think I was going crazy and even when I heard on TV about a tragedy I suddenly started crying when someone was suffering I was suffering completely with him I just have the feeling that my soul will come out of pain I can feel other people's emotions good or bad once in front of the block some girls wanted to beat my girlfriend stabbed her in the leg with a knife and at one point I felt my sigh stop and fell to the ground and suddenly started crying very crazy and some people saw everything and even thought that I was stabbed because I was crying in pain and I had nothing, I really felt the pain, I don't know if it's a curse or a gift, but I'm proud of this "ability"so to speak because it is good in my opinion to share the grief of other people to experience it with them not everyone can feel it also other people's thoughts that is it can be said that I even know what they think I know that you will say that you should I am being treated, but what can I do if I think that sensitivity is not a disease but a gift, maybe a little curse, but it is good to suffer together with others, but the fact that you experience (experience) the grief of others makes you more human.others make you more humanothers make you more human
Girl, do not suppress your ability, it is very useful and you can understand which people to allow to yourself, you will be able to protect yourself from negative people. Keep being who you are!
The sensitive The sensitive today are not quoted, they are not cruel to this world. They fight with themselves and do not stop, achieving another lesson. Sensitive ones are even superfluous, who needs this kindness? Unlike previous times, life is not a paradise, but a struggle. Sensitive people can speak, express things in verse, in melody or in prose, you will decode their gaze quietly. Being sensitive is a rare occurrence these days, if you're not when they hurt, it won't hurt. Sensitive, is it old-fashioned? I `m trying to understand. However, not everyone is able to have a sense and soul. August 17, 2013
Hello, I am like you ... more like number 8. But I am sad that there is no person who can understand me, can "read" me, support me ... emotionally. I am now reading the book INDIGO SOULS by Kabir Jafi and Ritama Davidson. And I was quite pleasantly surprised, because most of the things described there I have already thought about them .. And I was very pleased :)) I recommend it to you - other sensitive people. I am also often depressed by the fact that I have quite different thinking from the people around me, but I do not want to change. When I manage to control my emotionality, things happen, but unfortunately I don't always succeed ... I like it. I hope in the future to meet people with my understandings, with similar thoughts and feelings. People I can talk to on any topic, and not just for everyday things, or for things that have material benefits. I wish this to you from the bottom of my heart! Number 13 - you described the situation very well :))
Thanks № 14, it came to me spontaneously. However, lately I feel that I have become more protected, life teaches us this, I am not so easily vulnerable and crying, but I have not lost the necessary sensitivity. The last time I cried was watching the movie "Hachiko" three times, I thought that since I watched it twice and I won't cry, but alas ... this is not the "Planning" department :) Greetings from me too!
What the author shared is inherent in all non-aggressive people and is something completely natural for a normal person.
This is not a problem, this is a character! And I'm like that and I put up with it, I can't change it. Every day, a severe suffocating pain and crying shrinks in my heart. And not for something that happened to me but to friends, relatives, strangers ... Years ago the father of a girl died in an accident, we are not with her, we do not even communicate but for weeks I cried at the thought of the pain she is experiencing and we are the same age: X. Now I have been crying and hurting for weeks because of another tragedy here, but I know my son and mother, albeit poorly, but the father left our world a month ago. I walk with the boy every day and I try to give him hope, but I know that it hurts and it hurts me ... :(
And I'm from the same "team", unfortunately lately I feel kind of old and as if I myself are old-fashioned or more precisely, I have outdated understandings of life ... (a little clarification-I would not say that I am old, I'm 26). This is a small consolation for me that there are others. However, instead of becoming easier over time, it is harder for me. Is that the case with you too?
Hello, I've been like this for years, it even becomes unbearable at times. When the thoughts that reach me carry a very negative charge, I also vomit, but this is rare. A shower saves me, mostly lukewarm, it also gets warm, but with a lesser effect. Open fire, for example in a fireplace or in nature. The negative sticking to you is literally washed away. Contact with nature and the earth also liberates him.
Hi, I found everything you wrote because I was looking for it. I have had the same problem for a long time and I often wonder how to cure myself, if at all possible. I feel a lot of pain and suffering when I look at a weak person, I feel his pain, which is transmitted to me and I suffer a lot. Some time ago my husband felt sick, I shivered and cried, I felt sick from it. I know this is not good, because I need to be strong and help him at such a time. Another case - I saw a cat on the street, limping and staggering, I cried and I felt sick. Today I saw a dog that staggered and fell again, got up again and here I am again sick. I don't know what to do and how to help myself. Please give me advice, should I go to the doctor? Thank you.
I'm a boy I have the same problem I feel the moods emotions people's energies often it drains me mentally and physically but don't hide it and don't be ashamed of it it's because you have a heart because with a person and I know what it's like you stand alone you think you analyze you often accept things more seriously than others and they tell you relax but they don't know what's on our shoulders so upstairs custom and spray this kindness around the world and most of all listen to the inner voice inside you and you will be able to deal with a lot of problems !! RESPECT for everyone who feels that way ... I understand you