Hello. I am a 23 year old woman. I have a husband and a child. So far, I've only had sex with three, but cumming is a pain. I can only do well with masturbation. It's very difficult, even impossible, for me to have sex. I don't know if I can't relax, my partners have always been inexperienced or I just have a problem in myself. They say that with the experienced partner everything fell into place, but for me things are a done deal. I have a family, I love my husband very much and I just want things to go well. In sex I give myself to the max and I always try to make my partner as satisfied as possible. I don't stop being interested in all sorts of erogenous zones, arousing things, etc. But I'm dissatisfied ... in the end I get frustrated and have sex on duty. As a routine ... as it begins and I can't wait for it to end. Has anyone encountered such a case? Can a conservative man who always acts the same way in bed change? I said to emphasize other areas, I begged him to arouse me long before we had sex, but in the end it still works like a simple trampling. He scores it without foreplay until it's over and I have no desire left ... Do things change over time? How? What to do? I can't accept a lifetime to be like that. I shudder to think about it. I don't want to think that the only solution is to separate. until it's over and I have no desire left ... Do things change over time? How? What to do? I can't accept a lifetime to be like that. I shudder to think about it. I don't want to think that the only solution is to separate. until it's over and I have no desire left ... Do things change over time? How? What to do? I can't accept a lifetime to be like that. I shudder to think about it. I don't want to think that the only solution is to separate.
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I have good news and bad news for you. I start with the bad: no, over time things will not change and your husband will still be such a stump in bed. The good thing is that if you look around you will find a good and experienced man who will immediately shoot you to the top. Tip: don't let this happen to you when you turn 40 ...
Of course he learns. For me, it is an art that not everyone can do. Look, it's not easy for me to end up with a man. And I had great lovers. It's just that I'm very slow and I have to be 100% concentrated in myself, in my feelings, to finish. And when I'm with another person, somehow I don't want to indulge only in my pleasure. I'm trying to have fun. And good for him. So in sex I am 100% satisfied if the man tries. For me, orgasm does not mean 100% satisfied. You can have boring sex and cum. And you can have a great variety of sex without finishing. I prefer the second option. Unfortunately, most men are round zero in sex. I know it from friends and personal experience. They think they just need to get it back and done. And it's not like that. There are those who have been taking me down for months and pretending to be almost gods of sex, and then in bed they were in complete grief. I had another one, I wasted a few months meeting, we had many common interests, a nice person ... And for the first (and last) time when we went to bed ... sex was an absolute failure. Apparently he'd watched more porn, or had read it, so besides pushing it on me, he was trying to do something, but his was more like an inquisition than sex. He touched me so terribly rudely and bit me ... Horror. I ran away from him. Now that I like someone, I'm afraid to do something with him, so that he doesn't turn out to be incompetent. I had exactly two good lovers. The others were terribly incompetent. So think now, of the 15 I've been with, two are good. I'd better be a nun, if I'm going to have bad sex, I'd better not have any. and then the bed was full of sorrow. I had another one, I wasted a few months meeting, we had many common interests, a nice person ... And for the first (and last) time when we went to bed ... sex was an absolute failure. Apparently he'd watched more porn, or had read it, so besides pushing it on me, he was trying to do something, but his was more like an inquisition than sex. He touched me so terribly rudely and bit me ... Horror. I ran away from him. Now that I like someone, I'm afraid to do something with him, so that he doesn't turn out to be incompetent. I had exactly two good lovers. The others were terribly incompetent. So think now, of the 15 I've been with, two are good. I'd better be a nun, if I'm going to have bad sex, I'd better not have any. and then the bed was full of sorrow. I had another one, I wasted a few months meeting, we had many common interests, a nice person ... And for the first (and last) time when we went to bed ... sex was an absolute failure. Apparently he'd watched more porn, or he'd read it, so he was trying to do something to push me, but his was more like an inquisition than sex. He touched me so terribly rudely and bit me ... Horror. I ran away from him. Now that I like someone, I'm afraid to do something with him, so that he doesn't turn out to be incompetent. I had exactly two good lovers. The others were terribly incompetent. So think now, of the 15 I've been with, two are good. I'd better be a nun, if I'm going to have bad sex, I'd better not have any. we had many common interests, a nice person ... And for the first (and last) time when we went to bed ... sex was an absolute failure. Apparently he'd watched more porn, or had read it, so besides pushing it on me, he was trying to do something, but his was more like an inquisition than sex. He touched me so terribly rudely and bit me ... Horror. I ran away from him. Now that I like someone, I'm afraid to do something with him, so that he doesn't turn out to be incompetent. I had exactly two good lovers. The others were terribly incompetent. So think now, of the 15 I've been with, two are good. I'd better be a nun, if I'm going to have bad sex, I'd better not have any. we had many common interests, a nice person ... And for the first (and last) time when we went to bed ... sex was an absolute failure. Apparently he'd watched more porn, or had read it, so besides pushing it on me, he was trying to do something, but his was more like an inquisition than sex. He touched me so terribly rudely and bit me ... Horror. I ran away from him. Now that I like someone, I'm afraid to do something with him, so that he doesn't turn out to be incompetent. I had exactly two good lovers. The others were terribly incompetent. So think now, of the 15 I've been with, two are good. I'd better be a nun, if I'm going to have bad sex, I'd better not have any. in addition to pushing me, he was trying to do something, but his was more like an inquisition than sex. He touched me so terribly rudely and bit me ... Horror. I ran away from him. Now that I like someone, I'm afraid to do something with him, so that he doesn't turn out to be incompetent. I had exactly two good lovers. The others were terribly incompetent. So think now, of the 15 I've been with, two are good. I'd better be a nun, if I'm going to have bad sex, I'd better not have any. in addition to pushing me, he was trying to do something, but his was more like an inquisition than sex. He touched me so terribly rudely and bit me ... Horror. I ran away from him. Now that I like someone, I'm afraid to do something with him, so that he doesn't turn out to be incompetent. I had exactly two good lovers. The others were terribly incompetent. So think now, of the 15 I've been with, two are good. I'd better be a nun, if I'm going to have bad sex, I'd better not have any. of the 15 I've been with, two good ones. I'd better be a nun, if I'm going to have bad sex, I'd better not have any. of the 15 I've been with, two good ones. I'd better be a nun, if I'm going to have bad sex, I'd better not have any.
Um, I'm 37 and I've been with more than three. There were also experienced men. I did not end up with a man, but only by doing it myself. I guess I don't relax enough or I just don't know how to make it to the end. Um ... And I don't think I'm just waiting for the man next to me. It just doesn't work.
Find a lover. That's why they are lovers.
No need to separate. Find a lover / s. If he doesn't hold you, so be it. He (the husband) will not change.